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I look back on things I did in the past and am like "What the heck was I thinking?!???!?"
One of my best friends, female, thinks she has shed some light on the issues I have with women in my life... over and over and over...
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I look back on things I did in the past and am like "What the heck was I thinking?!???!?"
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Re: One of my best friends, female, thinks she has shed some light on the issues I ha
I made the mistake a few years back of saying to a girl I was sleeping with (who had a bf) that I was tired of dating and was looking for a gf. I knew she wasn't in the same mind-set and I didn't expect the gf to be her or anything, so I have no real idea why I even said it since I wasn't particularly looking to end things. That was a weird convo and I said all sorts of things I knew I shouldn't have (while they were coming outo of my mouth no less) but I think I did it cause I knew things with her were going nowhere but was really curious what would happen if I said certain things. Seemed like a good time to gamble.
I did learn that the best way to play things, at least from a psychological stand-point, is to have your own shit going on at all times and just try not to think about it. Just be you, don't fucking worry about it and what ever happens, happens.
Also, the girls I treat the worst are the ones that chase me the most. It's retarded. PEople are retarded.
I made the mistake a few years back of saying to a girl I was sleeping with (who had a bf) that I was tired of dating and was looking for a gf. I knew she wasn't in the same mind-set and I didn't expect the gf to be her or anything, so I have no real idea why I even said it since I wasn't particularly looking to end things. That was a weird convo and I said all sorts of things I knew I shouldn't have (while they were coming outo of my mouth no less) but I think I did it cause I knew things with her were going nowhere but was really curious what would happen if I said certain things. Seemed like a good time to gamble.
I did learn that the best way to play things, at least from a psychological stand-point, is to have your own shit going on at all times and just try not to think about it. Just be you, don't fucking worry about it and what ever happens, happens.
Also, the girls I treat the worst are the ones that chase me the most. It's retarded. PEople are retarded.
JH1 said:I was talking to a really good friend last night and she said that she had been thinking about the girl issues I have over and over.
She says that the girls I end up with are the girls that are only attracted to men that are 'unavailable'.
I hadn't really thought about that, but I did start dating these girls when I was winding down on other relationships and ready to bail. On top of it - she says that I come across as really confident even 'aloof' and that most girls get intimidated by my attitude, confidence and just the way I carry myself...
The real wierd part is that she thinks that once they get to really know me... they realise that I am not really aloof, especially when it comes to them... I adore girls... so they loose quite a bit of interest. LOL... WTF?
So she says they go after other unavailable men!
WTF?
I don't know if that's shits true... but if it is, they are even crazier than I thought.
some women can appreciate a good man... just as some men can appreciate a good woman. And this can be exact opposite also... Some women like men to treat them as objects and some men prefer a woman whom treats him like shit.
There is a perfect medium, believe me...
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