One more point to consider.

[Lestat]

People seem to fault kak for posting this at all in the first place, like that somehow overstepped some boundaries.

I can tell you, the guy was embarasssed about this whole thing. He made a siginificant emotional and monetary investment into someone he had never met, and things turned out like like he had expected, and he felt hurt, used, betrayed, and just plain sad!

He had a tough time even telling me about it. He was going to simply leave EF just to spare himself the embarassment, why?

He knew that the other party involved has so many "real" friends on this site that the knowledge of what happened and did not happen that weekend would be known by many posters on this board. And althought not public, it would be talked about and he would be shamed.

Why this all broke today was because another member of this board was found to be privy to some pretty intimate details of the nature of kak and Raina relationship. I believe once that happened, kak was aware that information or maybe misinformation was going around to at least one person on the board, and who knows how many and felt the need to defend himself.

 

[Kakdiesel]

god i should put you on payroll lolol

 

[spongebob]

really isnt this getting a little blown out of proportion? have they ever met in real life before? its starting to really become a drama fest now. it was a bad trip, no sparks flew. how in the hell is that so embarrassing? it happens. is it the airfare and $1000 spent that makes it more embarrassing? i can spend that here going out with wifey and still not get some.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Lets try to house all this drama in as few threads as possible.

 

[DieselGunz]

Lmao!

 

[Lestat]

really isnt this getting a little blown out of proportion? have they ever met in real life before? its starting to really become a drama fest now. it was a bad trip, no sparks flew. how in the hell is that so embarrassing? it happens. is it the airfare and $1000 spent that makes it more embarrassing? i can spend that here going out with wifey and still not get some.

its the money and the emotional investment. Both poor choices I agree, but again, the damage is deeper than that. He was already been called a stalker, and alcoholic, what is next? rapist?

 

[Razorguns]

I vote for a Kak thread and a Raina thread. lol. what's with all these threads?

 

[pintoca]

r i can spend that here going out with wifey and still not get some.

LOL, you married to my wife? damn, wives can be mean!

 

[jack sparrow]

I really wish I gave a fuck about any of this.

 

[pintoca]

I really wish I gave a fuck about any of this.

 

[Burning_Inside]

I just mentioned in the other thread by BRR in arguement against Pintoca that if this is a chronic issue of one member messing with a certain demographic on this forum, with no end in site, and there's legit evidence from many people that this person has indeed caused them harm in whatever way, it damn well needs to be adressed and put an end to by making people aware, so it stops.

I don't give a shit if they're a moderator or not or how much phone sex or soft porn she's dumping in the Admin's email inboxes.

 

[blut wump]

I really wish I gave a fuck about any of this.

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[WODIN]

1. kak should have taken it to the person making statements about the events and left it off the public board.

2. it turned out how you expected then you have nothing to bitch about.

3. WTF are you people thinking? Yeah I'll go hook up with a girl who is coming off a shity marriage for a few days?

4 Grow the fuck up.

 

[KillahBee]

1

3. WTF are you people thinking? Yeah I'll go hook up with a girl who is coming off a shity marriage for a few days?

EDIT: not worth it

logic is a lost art

 

[WODIN]

EDIT: not worth it

logic is a lost art

When did common sense die?

 

[KillahBee]

When did common sense die?

Approximately 20 years ago, about 5 years before RESPONSIBILITY kicked the bucket

 

[Daisy_Girl]

1. kak should have taken it to the person making statements about the events and left it off the public board.

2. it turned out how you expected then you have nothing to bitch about.

3. WTF are you people thinking? Yeah I'll go hook up with a girl who is coming off a shity marriage for a few days?

4 Grow the fuck up.

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