Oh how I hate breaking up with a girl

[whateverdude]

Some guys don't have a problem with it at all, but I dread breaking up with a girl. I've been going out with her for a year and a half and I think we should see other people. The problem is, I fear change. She was really great to me, but the problem is that it is a long distance relationship, we are both at different colleges. Right now its summer and I see her all the time but I don't think I can go through with another year of this long distance. The relationship is just generally getting boring anyways. The thing that REALLY sux though is that both our famillies have become pretty close now and I'm afraid that if I break up with her everything is going to be all messed up. *sigh* I can tell she is really in love with me though and I really, really am going to feel terrible about breaking her heart but I really feel I should do it. Ok, sorry about rambling on, I just wanted to get that off my chest. If any guys or girls have any comments feel free to reply.

 

[manny78]

why dont you just keep going out with her and take another chick on the side who lives near to you ? just an idea.....

 

[whateverdude]

why dont you just keep going out with her and take another chick on the side who lives near to you ? just an idea.....

I don't know, that just seems wrong to me. If she had a guy on the side I would be pissed as hell.

 

[manny78]

I don't know, that just seems wrong to me. If she had a guy on the side I would be pissed as hell.

Ye but dude I couldnt get into a long distance relationship... now thats you're in you're left with 2 choice: you break up (it aint easy but im sure your family would understand) or you just go with my idea...

 

[X.X]

This is sad. Stuff like this always is and I do know what I'm talking about. It's better that you know now that she's not right for you BEFORE you get married. Follow your heart about this and break things off before you really regret things. I know it's hard, but it only gets more difficult.

Sorry, I feel like I'm sounding bossy, but I know I'm right about this - unless you can really talk with eachother and work it out. If not, you two might not be compatible, for whatever reason. Or maybe one of you isn't mature enough or ready for something that will last. Or maybe...who knows. Sometimes it just doesn't work. Maybe you're searching for someone else.

You can love someone, but that doesn't mean they're the one you should be with always. Just my thoughts from my experience with a man - I made a mistake.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Instead of "breaking up" with this girl, break her arms and legs with a large C clamp and then break her neck with your hands.

You could even break into her parent's house and do the same to them, if you have no morals.

 

[kuda75]

I don't know, that just seems wrong to me. If she had a guy on the side I would be pissed as hell

how do you know she doesnt

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Dude,

This is never easy. I am dealing with a similar situation -long distance as well for me. I fucking hate it. I miss her and I really don't like to feel this way. It would be easier to cut it off and find some local.

For now I am sticking it out. I'll regret it if I don't try to see this through. They say that the darkest part of the night is just before daybreak....I'm taking that chance.

 

[HeavyDutyGuy]

Decide what it is you want first...before you act. Long distance relationships arevery hard. Been there , done that. Good luck.

 

[theoak01]

if you can handle it end it and find someone new,if you keep it going you will both end up hurt