hayrab,
Congrats on taking your first step. I wish you the best with it... I'm not sure who told you .5-1.0lbs/wk, but that's incredibly slow... As for your diet, I personally stay away from mixed fruit, unless you're preparing it. If it's canned, it's going to be too high in sugars. Otherwise, I'm only counting 3 meals which is a huge mistake. Get your meals up to 5-6/day. Cut down your portions and you'll speed up your metabolism. Try to target your diet to around 3000 Kcal/day, it's not below maintnance, but it takes into account a slow metabolism and a target weight of around 275. (Remember, you're going to be putting on lean muscle)
One last thing... (sorry, I'm looking over your reply as I'm typing...) Add oatmeal to your breakfast meal and don't worry about the vegi's or fruit. (I'd also substitute eggs instead of a shake, at least a meal replacement)
As for a cycle, you're gonna find a ton on this board, so stay around and check them out... I think a winny/eq/test cycle is fine with some clen thrown in, but that's just me....