need you opinion (personal/money issue)

[gonelifting]

^^^^ If he asks "why?", tell him you're tight on money and don't want to show up empty handed. lol

 

[ponyfitness]

I'd go, eat my face off and take advantage of the open bar (if there even is one) to the tune of $130 and give him a card.

If he gets pissed then you can tell him honestly why you didn't give him a gift and he'll probably feel like an idiot.

 

[Lestat]

the fantasy funds and his wedding are separate issues, treat them as such. Give him a give as you would have if he owed you nothing. Then, follow up with him to get the remaining balance owed.

 

[lartinos]

Don't give him shit, a card is fine. I have too many firend s who are cheap broke asses like him.

 

[pin]

I wouldn't go to the wedding.

+1

 

[pin]

he's a co worker. i've hung out with him a couple times outta work but that's it. i value his friendship but i don't consider him a close friend obviously. i just want to do the right thing.

Then demand your money. If he doesn't pay, knee cap him in the parking lot with a Louisville. A bet is a bet. Few things piss me off more than losers who flake out on a lost bet.

































Don't get caught though.

 

[MaGilicuti]

the fantasy funds and his wedding are separate issues, treat them as such. Give him a give as you would have if he owed you nothing. Then, follow up with him to get the remaining balance owed.

i've heard this from several ppl actually. this is probalby the right thing to do. i wouldn't mind if this guy said he would pay me back but he hasn't even mentioned it. with that said i feel disrespected and i feel like this guy would have never paid me if i never even mentioned it. that doesn't fly with me.

 

[scooter22]

i have a co worker that joined 2 fantasy basketball leagues i was running this past season. he ended up losing both and owes me about $170 total. when i asked him for the loot he gave me $40 and that's it. so now he is having a baby and his wedding is this friday. i'm invited but don't know what to do. should i bring him a gift? should i just give him an empty card? he has not even attempted to pay me back and he is well aware that he owes me money. what should i do?

i am leaning towards just going with nothing. if i go with a card he will open it and see nothing. that shit sticks with you.

i just learned that at his bachelor party he did something similiar. his brother and friend threw him a party and charged at the door. his bro took cash at the door and left with all the cash. his bro was suppose to split it with his friend but he owed him. so the bachelor actually thought this move was a good one. i doubt he will think its a good one when its done to him.

I would make an excuse and not go.... I don't like bums.

 

[scooter22]

^^^^ If he asks "why?", tell him you're tight on money and don't want to show up empty handed. lol

Good one!