Need some support from the fellas'

[Spunky]

Broke up with my girl today. Feeling like shit. Haven't done much but laid in bed and moped around all day long. I won't get into details of why it happened but it had to do with my training and AS usage. I really loved this girl too.. but I was torn between 2 things I love more then anything else. Bodybuilding and her. I talked to a buddy "STEEL BEAST" and he gave me the inspirational quote "Weights before dates." =) thanks man.... you guys be thinkin about me. Im hoping this will make me hit the weights harder.

 

[MUSTANG_18]

Sorry to hear that bro. I know how hard breaking up with a girl can be and it aint to good of a feeling. Just try and stay focused on what you are doing and try not to think of it and let it get you down. If you need to talk about anything you can e-mail me anytime. If it helps at all I think you made to right move. Best of luck to you my friend

M18

 

[bsjohnson]

Sorry to hear the bad news. Keep your chin up, and follow your heart and dreams... Keep busy!

 

[Lift Or Die]

I remember reading a few years back that Shawn Ray broke up with his fiance because the relationship interfered with his training and contest preparation. Hardcore

 

[MadCow1]

Keep in mind that weights and being 'big' aren't everything. As you get older they tend to take their proper place in life as a nice hobby, sport, or activity. Do not center your life around AS and bodybuilding. There are way richer experiences out there.

That being said - live life. If weights are your love (hopefully not the AS) then enjoy them and use it to get through this. Just keep what's important in perspective and enjoy your time here.

 

[Grizzly]

I feel for you, bro. My girl and I are having problems right now, too. We might break up also. Try and keep training. At least you've got one thing left that you love. I know it's hard, though. Now that my girl and I are having problems my training is going to shit. It's hard to focus when all you can think of is your broken heart and how you want to kill the bitch.

 

[gymgino18]

sorry to hear that bro
just keep your mind centered and your spirit up and i think ull be fine bro
ciao

 

[bookman40]

I am in the same boat. I am a new guy to this board, but from the looks of things there are some good people here to help keep your spirits up and focused. Just another thing to make you stronger and realize what is important to you. Good luck.
-Book

 

[Big Brother Val]

Man... I was hoping this wouldn't happen.
I'm sorry to hear it.
My gal and me are borderlined right now.
And it's hell...
I can't tell you that it'll get better.
I can only tell you that you will survive.
Whether or not you want to.
I'm sorry, man.
That's hard.

 

[Spunky]

thanks for the support...

 

[PYRO]

Dude here is some advice, let it really get to you and piss you off then use that agression while liftin it works trust me.

good luck with the ladies

 

[Big Johnson]

HEY BRO, LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF AND GIVE YOURSELF A POST-BREAKUP TREAT - FUCK A NEW GIRL

THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A BITCH IS TO GET ON TOP OF ANOTHER

 

[champion]

Stay strong bro.

 

[bigpimp]

it sucks bro....you gotta get out of the house and do something...get your mind off her and on something constructive....lift weights....go out with your friends....just dont get into that depressive mind state....good luck

 

[southern rage]

SPUNKY,hey bud, i'm new here so i hope you don't mind me throwin in on this one,but dude its all about priorities,in life,you decide what's important to you and then go after it likes theres no tomorrow,sometimes its makin a decision between 2 or more things,and the choices we make now,shapes are future,so reflect then act,don't waste life it wil be over before you know it.peace

 

[Beast71]

Man, sorry to hear that...I just broke up, actually, got dumped by my GF because I was too controlling, BS!!!

Was there more to it, or was she just that upset???

Unconditional Love...Is when you love someone no matter whats happens....It's very hard to find...

I wish you the best....

 

[freebird]

Hey Guy

She shouldn't have given you an ultimatum.
That's a power play and head game.
You did the right thing. Try to keep your head
up. an keep training.

 

[Bootyshaker]

Get your ass out of bed and go do legs with lots of 20 rep squats!!!!!!



you will fell much better!


bootyshaker

 

[Digital Ronin]

Sorry to hear about that man... It's easy to get focused on one thing and then lose sight of everything else. My only advice for you is to hang in there and ride it out. Don't underestimate the value in balance though. Granted, it's great to look awesome, but if there isn't anyone around to show it off to, what was all the hard work for?

 

[BigGuns2]

sorry about your situation bro. Don't stay in bed, you need to hit the gym asap. Trust me, you will feel much better when you leave.