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A Soft Koala
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You should feel good knowing that your son trusts you enough to tell you something that personal.
Anabolic chest
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I see a girl girl boy threesome in his future. Tell him AC said congrats!
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lartinos
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The first girl to ever have a crush on my young bony
Ass was a girl that was known as a lesbian or bisexual in school.
I was in 8th grade I think and she had the crush into highschool
Too.
She was pretty, but had a real crazy style where she'd cut off her hair and look kind of freaky.
She tried to hang out with me with another girl after school, but my dumbass wasn't onto what her plans were, lol.
Ass was a girl that was known as a lesbian or bisexual in school.
I was in 8th grade I think and she had the crush into highschool
Too.
She was pretty, but had a real crazy style where she'd cut off her hair and look kind of freaky.
She tried to hang out with me with another girl after school, but my dumbass wasn't onto what her plans were, lol.
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He's 14. And my oldest and I have always been really close. I try not to be that kind of mom that freaks out about things, but I can't help but wonder if this girl uses that to get attention. I'm really trying to be open minded, heck, my sister is bisexual. But she never advertised it. Then again, we grew up in very different times.
You can STFU too.
damn, my 7th grade first kiss seems late blooming nowMy first crush was Brandon B. In the first grade. I kissed him.
Yep. I had my kids a little on the early side.
Strongbow
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You just jelly your sons GF gets more pussy than you do.
F you SB I have nothing to be jelly of. I have no problem getting the puss. You know this.
Seriously. I'm worried that he is gonna lose his virginity to this girl. She looks quite a bit more "advanced" than he is.
Strongbow
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You want me to put Beezy F jr on a plane and let him test her out, he's dating a junior right now.
Tell him to use a condom lol
A Soft Koala
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Not to upset you more then you are, but how do you know he is still a virgin?
Strongbow
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WHo are you the kids father? STFU ngr
14?? you should have said.. but son, is she into anal??
jk..
so your son is sexually active at 14 yrs old?? and you are ok with that??
There is a male birth control pill but it's in human trials still, so I'd suggest you get him signed up for "take a baby home" program so many of the high schools have, where he takes it home for the weekend, it cries and makes a mess 3x at night while they are suppose to be sleeping..
Or you could have said
"Really?? that's the most fascinating thing about her is her sexual preference/confusion?? "
jk..
so your son is sexually active at 14 yrs old?? and you are ok with that??
There is a male birth control pill but it's in human trials still, so I'd suggest you get him signed up for "take a baby home" program so many of the high schools have, where he takes it home for the weekend, it cries and makes a mess 3x at night while they are suppose to be sleeping..
Or you could have said
"Really?? that's the most fascinating thing about her is her sexual preference/confusion?? "
canadianhitman
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This is a good point.
And if he's not, stressing about it is not going to help matters. Preaching abstinence is a fool's errand, too; if he's gonna, he's gonna. Best thing you can do as a parent is to throw him a 12-pack of condoms and tell him you'll kill him with your bare hands if he knocks a girl up, so he'd better be using one EVERY SINGLE TIME (speech about how oftentimes girls that say "relax, I'm on the pill" are LYING, how people can have STDs and look perfectly healthy, ect comes in at this point too). At that stage, you've done your job as a parent...then you have to trust that he's not a fool.
I completely agree with canadianhitman, the important thing is to educate him on does and donts of safety, then it's in his hands.
theoak01
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pics of your sister or it didnt happen
I have a good relationship with my son. I know all about his first kiss and other things kids don't usually tell their parents.
And he is my oldest but not the first boy I've raised. I took another boy in and I knew right away when he lost his virginity. There is a noticeable change in attitude and demeanor.
My first kiss was in gr.1 then later that week she died in a fire.
Wow now that I look at that again, way for me to be a downer
He is not sexually active yet, but it's going to happen soon. And he is extremely responsible for his age. He knows he doesn't want a baby, we talk ab out this a lot.
And I am not going to say that to him. My judgement is the first thing that will push him away. That's not at all what I want. I've been thru raising a teenager before, I just havent run into the bisexual girlfriend thing yet.
For what it's worth....I work in child psychiatry and we see a lot of "bisexual" teenage girls and the occassional boy. It's become a label, almost, like being a "headbanger" was when I was young. They are no longer "emo", they are "bisexual". I'm not saying some of them aren't really bisexual or experiment with it a little bit but most of them really have no idea what it means it's more of a statement for them. It's become almost common place and a lot of them talk about having gf's and bf's at the same time but when it comes right down to it, they aren't out sleeping with everyone. A generalization but you know what I mean.
That being said, I'm not sure how I'd feel about it either with my teenage son. I'd like to think I've seen just about everything and yet, when it follows you home, it's different. I've gone the route that hitman talked about...education, education, education.
I try to tell him to be a kid and enjoy life. Sex comes with complications. All three boys are the good with babies types and I tell all of them that girls see that, get all stary eyed and get knocked up.
I put condoms n his drawer a while ago and I check regularly to see if he needs more. He hasn't yet. If they need anything our system is to leave me a note in my medicine cabinet, that way he doesn't have to work up the courage to talk to me face to face.
A Soft Koala
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Strongbow you remind me of this insecure girl who I went to elementary school with back in the day. She got a sex change......wait what elementary school did you go to?
For what it's worth....I work in child psychiatry and we see a lot of "bisexual" teenage girls and the occassional boy. It's become a label, almost, like being a "headbanger" was when I was young. They are no longer "emo", they are "bisexual". I'm not saying some of them aren't really bisexual or experiment with it a little bit but most of them really have no idea what it means it's more of a statement for them. It's become almost common place and a lot of them talk about having gf's and bf's at the same time but when it comes right down to it, they aren't out sleeping with everyone. A generalization but you know what I mean.
That being said, I'm not sure how I'd feel about it either with my teenage son. I'd like to think I've seen just about everything and yet, when it follows you home, it's different. I've gone the route that hitman talked about...education, education, education.
Thanks Cali, I was trying not to make generalizations but they come to mind. I have a feeling that part of it is for shock value on his part and on hers.
This makes me feel a little better thou.
I like this idea. I may try it with my son when he is a little older (he'll be 14 next month).
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EarthRider
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this thread sucks without pics
tell the boy good luck with the three some, most men just dream of the oppertunity
tell the boy good luck with the three some, most men just dream of the oppertunity
I know what ya mean, it's different with girls.. i've raised 3 to adulthood.. good times..
I cant imagine raising a girl. It seems a lot harder.
Strongbow
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^^^Amen! I can't imagine it either!
Strongbow
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Is that your way of saying you wanna let them hook up in a fight to the death? Just for the record I got 100k on Beezy F baby Jr. But really V he's a smart kid don't push him, he will figure all this out on his on, just be there when he comes to you and don't judge.
No not at all. You know my son is more sensative than yours. He's like me, the loyal type, I just don't want him to make the same mistake I did and be loyal to the wrong person.
And your right. You know how I am with them, I don't plan on changing.
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EarthRider
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sb is the most sensitive chump on this board. he is always creating mememememememmeme threads shit, balee dat
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Strongbow
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The rumors are we both joose heads. But beezy jr is a got damn freight train when he hits the sauce look out world. But we both clean but I admitt I've joosed in the past. Beezy jr not so much
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Strongbow
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Jr has zero emotion. He's like a machine no smiles no laughs. Its kinda sad actually
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Mine acts like a kid, you've heard us, laughter plays a big part in our home.
