Sorry to butt in guys, first post from a long time lurker but this kinda hit a nerve!! I've been there and went the abortion route, that girl is now my wife of twelve and a half years and we have two beautiful girls!! Thing is, if your indecisive you have to do two things stfu and listen to what she wants and needs, thats if your in it for the long haul! I was gobsmacked wen we found out back then all i could do was listen and be supportive! Guys can argue their rights a much as they want and yes you have a say but you need to really be there for the entirety of that life!! I guess all i'm saying is this is a personal decision the two of you need to come to, it can work out! I wish you all the best, tough time but isn't that what life is all about?
Sent from the darkest region of my brain!!