My girl friend broke up with me

[raft]

Moving on right now seems to be the key.

If this were a one time deal, then maybe you could repair it easily. But in my case the shit kept happening over and over.

I've said "goodbye for good" to her a few too many times, because every time she had me convinced it would be different.

It's been a while since I've talked or heard from her. I think about her all the time, but you have got to see that what seems impossible or ilogical right now (like letting go) is the right thing to do.

If she comes back will you honestly be able to trust her to never do it again.

NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING will bring back those beautiful times in the beginning that make it seem so worth while.

Sometimes in life, time is the only one on your side.

 

[nikolai_bolkov]

Another way to look at it is like:

Yeah she's hot, nice, beutiful, 'special', all that crap, you want her more than anything, can imagine being with her in the future, right? And it's making you crazy thinking about and you keep wondering if there's anything you can do.

Well, I'd like $10m, how sweet it would be, what I could do, what my life would be like, so easy, buy things etc.

You know how you sometimes daydream what you would do if you won the lottery? And then quickly realized what a complete waste of mental effort and time it is thinking like that, BECAUSE IT WONT HAPPEN!

Get my drift? It might be easier dealing with your loss when you realize that whatever you do won't matter.

Just say to yourself "there's *nothing* I can do", and I guarantee it your rational mind will take over and you'll quit thinking about her, just like the lottery.



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[seemebig]

good advice i never looked at it that way ....thanks I will use that next time i start acting like a bitch

 

[M56M]

seemebig,

Talk to her yesterday, and she gave me the i don't want to lose you, i care about you alot..blah blah..

Well i agreed that i would stick around and be with her but i couldn't promise that i wouldn't be with anyone esle. At the time it seemed like what i wanted, her and to do what i want but in all reality, its not, i can't handle being with her and with other people, becuase that means she could do the same.

So i went to the gym and thought it out(my best thinking gets down there), well i came to the conclusion that i couldn't let her have her cake and eat it too. So i get home and don't call her, she calls me and we talk like if nothing is wrong, but all that shit was in the back of my mind. Just before we hung up I was like wait and i put it on her...

I'm sorry but i can't do what i promised earlier, to me that would just be playing games, and i don't play games. After the shit you pulled clearly shows me that you mean alot more to me than i mean to you. I can't be with someone, who doesn't notice what they have because I know i could be with someone who would appreciate me and that what i deserve... she starts crying. Honestly i don't think i really want her back now...to young for the bullshit, and there is no garuntee that she won't pull this shit again.

NOW THE TABLES HAVE TURNED!!!

M56M

 

[WombRaider]

Dude,
It easy. Post naked pics of her on this board and then send her the link. Find some new ass immediately.
Done.

 

[M56M]

Dude,
It easy. Post naked pics of her on this board and then send her the link. Find some new ass immediately.
Done.

Sick, but still clever. sounds like a plan....
M56M

 

[raft]

Be proud of youself brother, you've just done one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. Believe me when I say it never gets any easier to do again.

Just remember in those weak moments( which you will have)------------- You have to LOOK OUT FOR NUMBER 1!!

Good luck.

 

[M56M]

Be proud of youself brother, you've just done one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. Believe me when I say it never gets any easier to do again.

Just remember in those weak moments( which you will have)------------- You have to LOOK OUT FOR NUMBER 1!!

Good luck.

Believe me i have to keep saying that over and over to myself...

M56M

 

[WarriorPL]

If she truly loved you, she wouldn't have done it, unless shes playing mind games and wants to see how much you love her and wants to see you crawl back to her.

 

[M56M]

If she truly loved you, she wouldn't have done it, unless shes playing mind games and wants to see how much you love her and wants to see you crawl back to her.

....Which will never happen...if by some miracle she does get me back she will be walking on egg shells....crack..crack...crack...it will not be easy, she will have to prove to me that she is worth it this time. But we will see...

M56M