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My girl friend broke up with me
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Hello...
You probably don't want to hear from a girl right now, but I understand what you are going through. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and it was the absolute hardest thing to go throuh. I still love him so much but know I can't beg him back. I don't think there is any one thing that you can say that will change things.....when she realizes how important you are and how much you two are meant to be together she will come around on her own. The only one good thing about my situation is that we are still best friends and I think we still have very strong feelings for each other. I think sometimes time away brings you closer together. At least I hope all this is true. I can't imagine my life without him. Good luck and keep your head up. Lady
Hello...
You probably don't want to hear from a girl right now, but I understand what you are going through. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and it was the absolute hardest thing to go throuh. I still love him so much but know I can't beg him back. I don't think there is any one thing that you can say that will change things.....when she realizes how important you are and how much you two are meant to be together she will come around on her own. The only one good thing about my situation is that we are still best friends and I think we still have very strong feelings for each other. I think sometimes time away brings you closer together. At least I hope all this is true. I can't imagine my life without him. Good luck and keep your head up. Lady
Well let me ask you this......
What do you do....when after 1 month she calls you....leaves a message that she wants to talk to you....you dont call her back .......your like fuck that stankin ass hoe...next day ring ring she calls again.....you dont answer.....finally at midnight you get a lil buzzed and decide to pick up the phone and call her ring ring ....she picks up....she is at a bar (by the way she has never ever picked up the phone when i called her when she is at the bar)She says "how are you where have you been....I want to talk to you ...what are you doing tomorrow I have no plans...well if you want we can talk ........." What the fuck is this....what a stupid ass hoe ....fucking makes me sick ......
Well whats the fellow brothas advice
What do you do....when after 1 month she calls you....leaves a message that she wants to talk to you....you dont call her back .......your like fuck that stankin ass hoe...next day ring ring she calls again.....you dont answer.....finally at midnight you get a lil buzzed and decide to pick up the phone and call her ring ring ....she picks up....she is at a bar (by the way she has never ever picked up the phone when i called her when she is at the bar)She says "how are you where have you been....I want to talk to you ...what are you doing tomorrow I have no plans...well if you want we can talk ........." What the fuck is this....what a stupid ass hoe ....fucking makes me sick ......
Well whats the fellow brothas advice
seemebig said:
Man do we have a fucking connection or what...well for me its wasn't a month just 2 days, she calls me and is like, i don't want to lose you, i care about you,.....so i ask do you want to be with me and she can't answer. So i say assuming she doesn't..."obviously you don't want to be with me, because of all the shit you pulled, so just have the guts to tell me you don't want to be with me and give me that closure, believe me i will be fine and live my life...i promise you..." She starts crying....
Now do i stick around her, do my thing....or just cut her off?
M56M
M56M
We are the same brotha man to bad you dont live in florida........man i have no fucking clue what to do.......its very odd and fustrating...Here goes....There are three parts to me(in a relationship)....my mind , my heart and my big johnson...my mind is telling me to move on be a man and say peace out......my heart is bleeding for her attenion and well Mr.Johnson wants to hit that ass from here to mars...so I could look at it like this....two out of three wins right...WRONG cause Mr.johnson doesnt count cause well he just wants dat pussy...so its a tie between my heart and my mind (sanity).I dont know what to do....for me I am just going to play it cool. I am not going to call her or give her the satisfaction and let her know all i do is think about HER. She is going to have to work at me now. We must remember both our bitchs pulled some shit on us....if it is meant to be they must show they want it...and it isnt going to come easy. Some days I want to never see her again and then the notion of some chump ass kid getting it on with her makes me FUCKING NUTS. For me maybe I am wierd...I dont think shell ever be able to find someone that is like me and the way I had treat and spoil her. I mean I am 22 making killer killer money .....always attract hotties I mean what is there to do....I workout ...I treat her with respect I dont yell at her ....maybe I was too nice. She is so hott though...she was in the move Wild Things...she has done Paul Mitchell commercials when we lived in south beach I mean AHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Sorry bros if I sound like a chump...I am just using this board and its members for support ........to be continued
We are the same brotha man to bad you dont live in florida........man i have no fucking clue what to do.......its very odd and fustrating...Here goes....There are three parts to me(in a relationship)....my mind , my heart and my big johnson...my mind is telling me to move on be a man and say peace out......my heart is bleeding for her attenion and well Mr.Johnson wants to hit that ass from here to mars...so I could look at it like this....two out of three wins right...WRONG cause Mr.johnson doesnt count cause well he just wants dat pussy...so its a tie between my heart and my mind (sanity).I dont know what to do....for me I am just going to play it cool. I am not going to call her or give her the satisfaction and let her know all i do is think about HER. She is going to have to work at me now. We must remember both our bitchs pulled some shit on us....if it is meant to be they must show they want it...and it isnt going to come easy. Some days I want to never see her again and then the notion of some chump ass kid getting it on with her makes me FUCKING NUTS. For me maybe I am wierd...I dont think shell ever be able to find someone that is like me and the way I had treat and spoil her. I mean I am 22 making killer killer money .....always attract hotties I mean what is there to do....I workout ...I treat her with respect I dont yell at her ....maybe I was too nice. She is so hott though...she was in the move Wild Things...she has done Paul Mitchell commercials when we lived in south beach I mean AHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Sorry bros if I sound like a chump...I am just using this board and its members for support ........to be continued
OK ok, i can definitely relate...a little different though...my mind is saying danger stay away, the bitch hurt you once and she will do it again....my heart is like fuck that you want to be with her so just admit it to yourself.....and my johnson well he learned a lesson back in the day, he has no problem getting pussy...so he really don't stress shit until he hasn't fucked for a few days...FUCK...its been a few days...now i am worried!!
In all honesty i am going to play it cool and sit back, right now we are not together but still talking. When she asks to see me i am gonig to try as hard as i can to say no and avoid it, i can't jump ever time she wants to see me thats a BIG mistake, and if i see this getting nowhere fast i will just let it go...not becuase i want to but because thats really the only option, if you feel like there is no fixing it, let go becuase your going to look back and notice you wasted alot valuable time. Man we are both young as hell, why even sit around and waste our time, i know it hurts us now, but if we are not the problem then we are wasting time and going through shit for nothing...
M56M
In all honesty i am going to play it cool and sit back, right now we are not together but still talking. When she asks to see me i am gonig to try as hard as i can to say no and avoid it, i can't jump ever time she wants to see me thats a BIG mistake, and if i see this getting nowhere fast i will just let it go...not becuase i want to but because thats really the only option, if you feel like there is no fixing it, let go becuase your going to look back and notice you wasted alot valuable time. Man we are both young as hell, why even sit around and waste our time, i know it hurts us now, but if we are not the problem then we are wasting time and going through shit for nothing...
M56M
seemebig said:
Check you PM.
You have definitely been a great help..., i was actually suppose to be down in South Beach this week as a matter of fact, but my fucking boss decided he needed me for a project. Which sucks!!
Its good to know we are not alone, just because we are guys it don't mean this shit don't fuck with our heads...
M56M
Hey dude:
No easy answer here.
If you are thinking about her, then guess what, she is thinking about you.
Be nice to her, be friendly...if she dates someone else she will still think of you....and eventually she may see that she made a mistake. She also may meet her dream guy and get married.
If you are out for revenge, the best revenge is to live well, to succeed at everything you try. She'll see that and wonder why she let you go.
I was living with a girl - thought we were getting married even - she broke it off....two years ago. Since then I have gone on and done well for myself...she has not...and I still get phone calls and emails from her.
Live well. Succeed. At best, you get her back. At worst, she knows she fucked up.
No easy answer here.
If you are thinking about her, then guess what, she is thinking about you.
Be nice to her, be friendly...if she dates someone else she will still think of you....and eventually she may see that she made a mistake. She also may meet her dream guy and get married.
If you are out for revenge, the best revenge is to live well, to succeed at everything you try. She'll see that and wonder why she let you go.
I was living with a girl - thought we were getting married even - she broke it off....two years ago. Since then I have gone on and done well for myself...she has not...and I still get phone calls and emails from her.
Live well. Succeed. At best, you get her back. At worst, she knows she fucked up.
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