Moral Dilemna

[Trance]

Would you let your child smack the shit out of someone who desperately deserved it?

My cousin's four-year-old has been whomping on my three-year-old since he was an infant.

Finally, during Sunday's Super Bowl party, he clocked him right in the face.

I made him apologize, etc., but in reality I wanted to go buy him ice cream. The little snot deserved it.

The little monster is coming over tomorrow, and I know he's going to start on up on my son. Should I tell him to whup the kid's Bob The Builder-toting little heinie if he starts in on him, or not?

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Throw both of them into the fireplace.

 

[addickt]

Would you let your child smack the shit out of someone who desperately deserved it?

I made him apologize, etc., but in reality I wanted to go buy him ice cream. The little snot deserved it.

The little monster is coming over tomorrow, and I know he's going to start on up on my son. Should I tell him to whup the kid's Bob The Builder-toting little heinie if he starts in on him, or not?

Forget the ICE CREAM , buy him an ICE PICK.

 

[PURE EXTRACT]

Well, to me it sounds like that boy deserved it. So hell yeah, let your son do his thing Do not let him NOT defend himself, it'll follow him all throughout his life. I was very passive for most of my life until a few years ago. Now I'm gonna whop your ass if you get smart

 

[Trance]

Throw both of them into the fireplace.

I'll have to pass on that one, but as always, thank you for your sound and empathetic advice.

 

[Taps]

They're just children. Controlling thier behaviour and administering discipline is your responsability.

No flame, but why are you letting them start shit anyway?

 

[HappyScrappy]

I'm not a parent, so my advice is, just as my kids will be - totally worthless.
but personally, I wouldn't advocate or encourage him in that fighting is the way to solve the problem.
that said, if he beats the snot out of him, scold him in front of the other parent and then later give him ice cream or something.

the most important part of parenting is to keep them really confused.
one minute there is an easter bunny, then there isn't.
one minute there is a santa claus, then there isn't???
etc etc etc.
you have to keep them guessing so that they can learn the harsh disppointing realities of day to day "grown up" life.

 

[Trance]

I'm not a parent, so my advice is, just as my kids will be - totally worthless.
but personally, I wouldn't advocate or encourage him in that fighting is the way to solve the problem.
that said, if he beats the snot out of him, scold him in front of the other parent and then later give him ice cream or something.

the most important part of parenting is to keep them really confused.
one minute there is an easter bunny, then there isn't.
one minute there is a santa claus, then there isn't???
etc etc etc.
you have to keep them guessing so that they can learn the harsh disppointing realities of day to day "grown up" life.

LMAO - You're well on your way to parenting greatness.

 

[Big Buck]

He should learn how to defend himself. Although my son is only 9 months old, he will know how to take care of himself when the time comes. I just hope that he didn't inherit my temper.....

 

[supersizeme]

I think it's fine.
(disclaimer, I don't remember any of this)
When I was 3 years old, I was constantly bullied by our next door neighbor's kid who was 5 years old and really scary to me at the time. When you're 3, 5 year olds are like NFL football players to me right now. I would always come home crying to my dad and be like, "so and so pushed me. waaaaaah. " So my Dad got tired of seeing this ridiculous panty-waste behavior from his only son, and he taught me how to box. He had a copy of Eye of the Tiger and he would put it on the stereo and teach me how to punch. I would pound the shit out of this sofa pillow while my Dad gave me pointers. I didn't do the whole, crack a raw egg and drink it and then go running through the streets and up the steps to the center of town and scream my head off, but I was learning to fight. So the next time dickhead next door fucked with my shit, I ran back to my Dad again and he told me to remember what he taught me and sent back over there. I apparently went back over there and punched the kid in the eye and then came back home. Dad was pleased. Shitbox's mother then came over a short time later and brought her son over to show my dad his eye and my dad apologized to her face, but congratulated me again when the door closed. The kid never bothered me again. I went on to win the regional Golden Gloves 4 year old division the very next year.

 

[Trance]

They're just children. Controlling thier behaviour and administering discipline is your responsability.

No flame, but why are you letting them start shit anyway?

I generally don't. My child knows better. However, the other kid is...how shall I put this delicately....PSYCHO, so if I leave them alone for a second, he starts terrorizing my son.

Not usually a problem, as I thankfully only see the little brat a few times a year, but tomorrow they are visiting. My cousin's wife doesn't discipline her child, and he runs wild. It's an awkward situation.

I don't think my son should start anything, and I don't think he would even entertain the thought - I think he's just tired of getting smacked around by this little troll and is ready to fight back. I can't say that I blame him.

 

[Drifter]

Woudn't it just be easier to not have your cousins brat over in the first place. Sure its your cousins kid and all but that doesn't excuse bad behavior.

 

[Trance]

Woudn't it just be easier to not have your cousins brat over in the first place. Sure its your cousins kid and all but that doesn't excuse bad behavior.

I'd MUCH rather tell them that i'm busy painting my toenails or something, but they sort of invited themselves over, and I am too big of a wussy to say no. (Couldn't think of a good excuse.)

 

[HappyScrappy]

there was a big fat girl in my neighborhood (she was like 5 years older than me at least) when I was little and she used to sit on me and tickle me - I hated it.
I used to run and tell my mom - and she finally just said "you have to fight your own battles"
so I went right back outside and kicked her as hard as I could right between the legs. she doubled over in pain and never fucked with me again.
I think I was probably 6 or 7.

 

[danielson]

hmm

by the sounds of it the only way for you child not to get picked on is b the other child/hell spawn to be disciplined. and thats not your responsibilty, its the parents. which puts you in a very awkward position as you will have to tell the parents you enjoy their company but your child is being tramuatised by their boy. if he learns that he can solve his problems with his fists it might not tbe the best thing in the future, but if he become too submissive this would be bad as well.

didnt they (the other child parents) go postal when they found your child opunched the other kid really hard. if they didnt, try getting your kid to punch harder whipping your waist really helps

if you cant get the parents to teach their son betterm you have to either refuse to have the child be in the same room as your son, or tell your son to defend him self

 

[addickt]

there was a big fat girl in my neighborhood (she was like 5 years older than me at least) when I was little and she used to sit on me and tickle me - I hated it.
I used to run and tell my mom - and she finally just said "you have to fight your own battles"
so I went right back outside and kicked her as hard as I could right between the legs. she doubled over in pain and never fucked with me again.
I think I was probably 6 or 7.

You kicked a girl in the balls? That should qualify you as the biggest pussy ever!

You should have kicked her in the balls when she wasnt looking, that would have been even better!

 

[HappyScrappy]

You kicked a girl in the balls? That should qualify you as the biggest pussy ever!

You should have kicked her in the balls when she wasnt looking, that would have been even better!

yeah, if it taught me anything, it taught me to do it more more more.
I go around kicking everyone that is older and bigger than me these days.

 

[danielson]

You kicked a girl in the balls? That should qualify you as the biggest pussy ever!

You should have kicked her in the balls when she wasnt looking, that would have been even better!

it really sucks when girls are younger because they always pick on the boys and can be physically stronger, but when puberty finally kicks in and boys become stronger, its socially unnacceptable

dammit i want payback!

 

[3Vandoo]

When I was 5 I chocked to death my evil cousin Carin. people in the family
except her parent rolled on the floor, and even 20 years after I STILL HEAR about it.

 

[addickt]

it really sucks when girls are younger because they always pick on the boys and can be physically stronger, but when puberty finally kicks in and boys become stronger, its socially unnacceptable

dammit i want payback!

I would give my son cheque drops before I taught him it was cool to kick a girl in her twat.

 

[danielson]

I would give my son cheque drops before I taught him it was cool to kick a girl in her twat.

theres a program (soap) on TV here

in it, 2 girls are picking on this one kid (boy) and he refuses to fight back because they are girls. the boy and the family try EVERYTHING to stop the girl, they contact the parents, teachers, friends everything. the boy goes nuts, gets an iron pipe and puts her in hospital. screwy huh

i was JUST joking in the above post. im hardly gonna go beat up a girl now. i should have got my licks in back then huh? wierd, because i actually saved her life, and she still picked on me. bitch

 

[HappyScrappy]

it really sucks when girls are younger because they always pick on the boys and can be physically stronger, but when puberty finally kicks in and boys become stronger, its socially unnacceptable

dammit i want payback!

the girl I kicked was easily over 200lbs and I'm pretty sure when was in middle school at the time.
she harassed me for years. I was in 2nd grade. she was way taller than me and outweighed me by well over 100 lbs.
so her constantly attacking me and her not listening to reason... I feel no shame in that I kicked the fuck out of her.

now if I had done that totally unprovoked, that's not cool.

 

[addickt]

the girl I kicked was easily over 200lbs and I'm pretty sure when was in middle school at the time.
she harassed me for years. I was in 2nd grade. she was way taller than me and outweighed me by well over 100 lbs.
so her constantly attacking me and her not listening to reason... I feel no shame in that I kicked the fuck out of her.

now if I had done that totally unprovoked, that's not cool.

You kicked a girl in the twat.. Are you a Ninja? You should be in Pride Fighting Championships. If they have a division where you can participate against pre-pubescent females you should have a decent chance.

 

[danielson]

the girl I kicked was easily over 200lbs and I'm pretty sure when was in middle school at the time.
she harassed me for years. I was in 2nd grade. she was way taller than me and outweighed me by well over 100 lbs.
so her constantly attacking me and her not listening to reason... I feel no shame in that I kicked the fuck out of her.

now if I had done that totally unprovoked, that's not cool.

hey i dont see a problem with what you did

a lot of guys actually get the shit beaten out of them by their spouses and dont even report it out of fear or shame. you were just a kid at the time with someone physically stronger abusing you. she would have stopped unless you did that. some people just dont listen to words

 

[addickt]

the girl I kicked was easily over 200lbs and I'm pretty sure when was in middle school at the time.
she harassed me for years. I was in 2nd grade. she was way taller than me and outweighed me by well over 100 lbs.
so her constantly attacking me and her not listening to reason... I feel no shame in that I kicked the fuck out of her.

now if I had done that totally unprovoked, that's not cool.

Who teach you flying twat kick technique?

Daniel-son is responding to this thread. Coincidence? Is EYE-PEE Mr Miagi?

 

[danielson]

Who teach you flying twat kick technique?

Daniel-son is responding to this thread. Coincidence? Is EYE-PEE Mr Miagi?

thats miyagi

and no im not eye-pee

 

[KEL]

Your son should learn to make decisions on his own (you can't always be watching) and if an ass kicking is in order...so be it. Let the other kid start it and your son finish it.

Does the cousin's four-year-old hang out in daycare?

 

[addickt]

Personally, If i ever have a son, which more than likely I wont because my nuts are out of order ; I will instruct him to woop the ass of any boy that he sees kicking a girl in the twat.

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