Money or Love...

[KnoXville]

I seriously couldn’t care less as regards to my family approving whatever fuck buddy is up to bat on my roster. I also wouldn’t take silver kickbacks or handouts from them, even if they were millionaires. So if its a choice between there approval bling and my dating decisions, I would take the meat. On the other hand if the money was mine in the first place, earned and made, I would go for the green and just buy me a couple primed poon partners off the black market or something.

 

[biteme]

If and when I ever have a loved one.. if its a true loved one.. they die.. I will die...

I hear you. If my daughter died, I don't think I would want to live here without her. It would just be too painful to endure. And if there is an afterlife, I would want to be right there with her.

 

[Drunken_Weasel]

I hear you. If my daughter died, I don't think I would want to live here without her. It would just be too painful to endure. And if there is an afterlife, I would want to be right there with her.

thats right...

It's just to bad I won't be getting a "loved one" anytime soon.... if ever...

 

[biteme]

thats right...

It's just to bad I won't be getting a "loved one" anytime soon.... if ever...

I thought the same thing, but it happened. My marriage failed, but it was worth it. I have the best thing that came out of it. I sometimes wish that I could fall in love with someone too, but for me it's a lot less likely than it is for you.

 

[plornive]

I am not saying that you need to stop talking to the family from whence you came BUT you NEED TO PUT YOU AS THE COUPLE BEFORE THEM. Who comes first? Her family, your family or the family that you as the couple has just created?

You tell me.

Yeah I don't like guys with their nuts in their moms' purses. Usually they are married to masochistic or conformist women. If not, they get divorced.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Thats horrible. My brothers wife is a part of the family. She is one of my mothers closest friends, they are almost like sisters. Maybe your family & in-laws had problems or something.

Funny thing is, my brother came over to my parents today, and he spent the day with his wife and it reminded me of hte old saying 'when you have a daughter, she is a daughter for life but when you have a son he is only a son until he takes a wife'. Sad. You should be able to do both.

You misunderstand. There is not one horrible thing about what I said. When there are so many individuals involved undoubtedly there will be times when you can not please everyone. It is at these times when YOUR FAMILY comes first and that goes BOTH WAYS. For a woman, she should always keep the wishes of her husband in mind before she looks at what would please the family from whence she came. And for the man - DITTO.

I don't have ANY problems with my sister's husband or his family. Why? Because I respect the sanctity of THIER FAMILY FIRST. My sister is HIS WIFE before she is my sister. PERIOD. I would never EVER make her choose my needs or THIER needs. Do you follow what I am trying to say?

Too many people pull that blood is thicker than water bullshit and I don't care how "best friends" you are with any one - there will be times when decisions will have to be made where someone's feelings may potentially get hurt. If these people ever MAKE you choose then that is fucked up. Unfortunately it happens all too often. If this is not the case with any of your extended family consider yourself extremely blessed.

 

[theoak01]

I would give anything for love,and shared happiness with another.

money is a luxury and I dont buy into superficial bullshit,sure its nice to have things you want all the time,but so not needed

 

[The Architect]

I guess it's a question of what makes you happier. You live your life for you first- so, If the girl brings you happiness and being poor doesn't bother you choose love. If the wealth and security makes you happier than choose that route. You will most likely find someone else that you will fall in love with.

 

[got big?]

if you were truly in love i dont think youd have to ask what to do..

 

[Sinistar]

bros before hos, money before honeys.