IF the poor man/woman was not a loser (meaning that they aren't poor because they just can't keep a job LOL) I would choose LOVE hands down....
It is EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to find someone that you can talk to for hours on end about anything and everything, someone you can laugh with even when times are VERY TOUGH, someone who will stroke your hair and tell you, "It'll be ok" no matter how desperate the situation, someone that will ALWAYS have the best interests of you as a couple in mind regardless of where they are or whom they are with, someone that is your friend before they are your lover, someone who will support you because they believe in you regardless of how many people think that you are "tetched" and waaaaay outta your league, someone that speaks words of kindness even when they are blinded by rage....
Money buys freedom, that is true. BUT, can money buy any of the things that I mentioned?
NOT
If the guy/girl is amazing enough for you to love them, money will follow regardless.
Also, remember this - a man/or woman MUST leave the family from whence they came if you are to have a truly successfull relationship. Not saying they have to cut thier parents/siblings off or anything like that. BUT they must ALWAYS put YOU as a couple, FIRST or your relationship will DEFINITELY NOT SURVIVE.
Trust me on this last one.