mistakes

[Lao Tzu]

i've done some shit i'm not proud of in the last, say, 9 years. neglecting my brother, breaking social & legal laws, placing poontang over family & friends, and some other shit i prefer not to go into.

anyhow, i want to get beyond my past, but i feel like it is holding me back sometimes. like i should still be living with the labels of things i've done & had done to me years ago. how do other people deal with that? i don't want to be living 4 years from with the same self viewpoint that i had 4 years ago.

 

[HighIntensity]

bro we all face challenges and temptations everyday in life...am i a good person, yes I have a broken the law, hurt peoples feeling, got into fights, choosen women over fam and friends...

but i still feel i am a solid citizen and god loveing sole...you have always seemed cool to me, we are not perfect, exspecially in our youth,

 

[The Terminator]

First off you need to move far away from where you are now. Then change your name, get new friends, and always avoid questions about your shady past, besides alot of women will like that your are sort of "dark" and mysterious.

 

[smallmovesal]

i've had an insane year but more specifically since the summer...

i've been behaving in a manner that i don't think defines me and i'm in the process of making changes. sometimes that's at the expense of friends, but so be it, because you have to purge what's unhealthy in your life in order to get yourself to a healthy place again. it's just that simple - then begin living your life how you want to and people will see you've changed. if not, fuck 'em... "they don't know nothin' about you 'cause you're from louisiana", as a wise prophet on sally jessy once said.

do it for yourself. good luck.

 

[the People's Champ]

maybe a change of scenery might help. new job, new living situation. change up your daily routine to get your mind off things.

 

[saint808]

it's simple and complex at the same time... you control your actions... therefore... if you don't like where you are in life then change it.

 

[Boach]

Life is about making mistakes and living up to the consequences. It's also about being the best person you can be, however, you are human and everyone strays from the path of righteousness.

Know that you are imperfect and accept it. Don't let that rule your life, though. Strive, each day to be the best Nordstrom you can be. Try to make up for all the wrongdoings thus far. Send a long overdue apology to a friend, hug your parents, and send a card to your siblings. Life is too short to live in the past. Live everyday to make tomorrow look better.

 

[WODIN]

I see a man on the verge of a pardigm and self framing shift. I see you need to see the reality of the world.

All you have is today and the labels and notions of self that are on you are there because you put them there. You can change them at any moment.

It's a simple notion that is difficult to exercise because of the nature of American culture and ideology.

 

[MommaKin]

I lived in the past for more then a year.....guilt, regret.....it just ate me alive....then one day I said fuck this shit and moved on......it seemed like that day would never come......but, I look back now and think maybe I needed that time....I dunno.....

 

[vixenbabe]

I 've never met a person who is perfect...

Forgive yourself and you'll open up to a whole new world. Never too late to make up for the future....

 

[havoc]

Thinking about your past is pointless, worthless, accomplishes nothing, can you change it(unless you know marty mcfly), no you cant. You can't worry about the future either, only the present is what you should be concerned with. Breathe in, breathe out, be aware of every moment, be mindful, start this very second and smoke a bowl of high grade, hold the hit in for 7 seconds then release. peace