Man, am I a loser or what??

[Spunky]

Aight guys and gals got a serious question for you all... I am not a shy person. I am pretty outgoing and kindda crazy. I like to do crazy stuff in front of people.. I guess im what you could call the "life of the party" or whatever.. anyways.. Theres the chick I've been really into for a while but like everytime im around her im not my normal self. I'm so nervous. I think its because she's really beautiful and it kindda intimidates me. She's told a few friends of mine that she likes me, but that I seem shy.... and I'm not shy at all, its just I get those fucking butterflies everytime I'm around her.... damnit am i a loser or what? does anyone have advice for me?????

like normally i feel completely comfortable to say and do anything around everybody... i love making people laugh but its like whenever shes around my sense of humour goes down the drain and my palms get sweaty and fuck.... im pathetic.

ok i edited my post and took some likes out

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

Like if I was you, I would like get a few you know like those beers in me. Then like I would proceed to like lay my game on nice and thick.



Just start out by making her laugh. This will most likely make you more comfortable and acting like your regular self. Grow some ball and go get what you want.

 

[spentagn]

At the next party or large social gathering, pants her. Works like a charm.

 

[Spunky]

damn i just read my post and like.. i said like like 1,000 times.... like damn..

 

[Night Fly]

Like if I was you, I would like get a few you know like those beers in me. Then like I would proceed to like lay my game on nice and thick.

I was thinking that same thing! LMAO...

 

[Austin316]

beer always works, just don't drink too much or you'll confuse that 300+ lb girl with the one your after lol.

 

[prince of a guy]

You're not a loser. You just need to become a bit more comfortable in your own skin.

 

[Spunky]

austin, this girl is 300lbs.... so thats not a problem.

 

[Lao Tzu]

druuuuuuuuggggssss
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i would try 1 mg xanax & 4oz hard alcohol. see if that loosens you up. if not, increase xanax by .5mg, OR alcohol by 1 shot hard stuff.

 

[HighIntensity]

Bro shyness is normal...but it will eventually make you look unattractive. You know she likes you, so kill the butterflys, be yourself.

Ask her out, plan a good night...got nothing to lose but her if you don't make a move

goodluck

 

[the nature boy]

maybe for the time being when you hang out with her make sure some of your friends are there too. then you can let the inner jackass (no insult intended) out and she can see the real you.

and drink booze like everyone else said.

 

[HighIntensity]

be nice jonny...

 

[Twisted91]

To be shy around this fenmal souds like a sign of respect. It could be worse..you might actually take these guys advice by doing drugs, getting drunk and pancing her by the end of the night... or just act like yourself and if she like you she'll fall for you

 

[kunta]

suck it up, if you keep on actin the same way you're gonna be saying hi to rosey instead of her

 

[casavant]

Alcohol, bro. Maybe wax the crab two or three times before you go out too so you have more of a "don't give a fuck" attitude. Being relaxed and not seeming so hungry will get you a lot farther than sweaty palms and a hard dick.