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Long Distance Relationships....

Night Fly

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How many of you have had one (or more), and how did you manage to keep things going? Any suggestions for having a successful one???
 
friend just got outta one, we live in NY and he was going with this girl from Arkansas, and it was just too far, especially at the age of 16, can see each other only like twice a year, it's tough.
 
i don't find it hard.. but i'm not a type of person that needs somebody.

this is also an ongoing type of deal where she lived in *** i lived in ***, then she moved out with me, then we moved to ***, then here, then she went back to ***, now i'm moving back out to ***.

but when we were "together" and not living together, we'd see each other at least every 4-5 weeks... which makes it easier.

how far apart are you guys?
 
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Umm....not too far. He is in Chicago and I am in Eastern TN. It is about a 10 hour drive and a 50 min flight. I have just never attempted a LD relationship before...I feel like I will be able to handle it...

I don't NEED someone, either...I just like to have someone around, you know? I communicate very well and am bluntly honest, so we shouldn't have a problem in those areas.

I hope that we will be able to see each other that often....even if it is for 2-3 days at a time. There are also holidays to visit....I am trying to think very optimistically about this.
 
well here's a little more history...

it's been a two year type of ordeal...

i met her in ***
then she flew back out 3 weeks later
then i flew out there 4 weeks later
then she flew back 3 weeks later
then she moved out 4 weeks later
then we lived together for 6 months in ***
then we lived together in *** for 2 months
then we lived in **** for 4 months
then i wanted to be single so i shipped her back
then we didn't talk for about 5 months
then i called her to say i was sorry for the way i handled things (i was an ass)
then she flew out a few days later
then she we met up in *** 4 weeks later
then she flew out 5 weeks later
then i flew out the 4 weeks later
now she's flying out after 4 weeks
then we're driving back out that way in a week.
 
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when did you guys meet.. how long has it been going on?

if it's something that has been going on and one party parted way and took off without asking the other to come.. i'd be hesitant to give you any good news... (i've been there too).

if you just met while on vacation or something i'd be optimistic..

it's fun it's exciting.

give it a few months after seeing each other every few weeks then move out there..

fuck it... what have you got to lose?
 
now, i might not suggest living together at first...

but one could move to where the other is and the one that lives there can help them get set up in an apartment or something.. might be expensive in chicago though
 
Well, I would definitely say you seem to be an expert on this subject. Am I right about utilizing communication skills???

I don't think Chicago is that far away....I guess I just need some reassurance...
 
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