Long distance relationships...

[lil'tangerine]

My boyfriend is moving away and my emotions are so f*cked up. I'm very excited 'cuz this is such a good opportunity for him, but at the same time I'm upset, worried, scared etc. We plan on me moving there too, but not right now. I'm supposed to drive him 23 hours to Virginia on Sunday. I dunno how to deal...now his dad is thinking of coming with us, and I feel so selfish wanting to just be alone with him, since we dunno when we'll get to see each other. Man, this sucks!! Anyone else ever go through this???

 

[tripleblonde]

yes

they suck....no easy way around it

but i wish you and your bf luck....what is meant to be will be

 

[SFLifter]

My girlfriend is leaving for Navy boot camp on April 6th. After that she's going to be in medic school, then stationed somewhere -- it's a 5 year overall commitment. I'm stoked for her, but MAN... 5 years is such a long time, and I don't know if I will be able to move in the next few years. Pretty much SUCKS!

 

[rjl296]

if your from sask, gimme a call

 

[lamamacita]

I am currently in a long distance relationship, and yes it does suck for now, but I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I agree with tripleblonde, if you are meant to be together...you will be together. It takes much more work than a regular relationship.

 

[avenirup]

yes

they suck....no easy way around it

but i wish you and your bf luck....what is meant to be will be

Totally agree, I really think the only long distance realtionships that work are when one of the people is in Oklahoma and the other is in Pennsylvania..... But good luck...

 

[hamstershaver]

webcams

 

[tripleblonde]

Totally agree, I really think the only long distance realtionships that work are when one of the people is in Oklahoma and the other is in Pennsylvania..... But good luck...

you's a funny funny boy aven

 

[flex123]

Being away from someone you care about for long periods of times is extremely difficult. Hard to not see someone often, when you're constantly thinking of that person every second.

Yeah it can depending on the people involved and how they handle things. If you're questioning it now, than expect to go through tons of emotional stages when you're going to feel like you're in a million peices because you cant see someone you love.

I'm just being honest here.....Try it out and I hope it works for you if thats what you want.

 

[Lestat]

long distance rarely works unless you have a time where you will specifically be together again...

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

never known anything but long distance,but I agree on the suck factor being at a high level.
We we're always at most one state away from each other,but now we reside in different countries\.OUCH!
p.s. he's cheating on you.

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

My girlfriend is leaving for Navy boot camp on April 6th. After that she's going to be in medic school, then stationed somewhere -- it's a 5 year overall commitment. I'm stoked for her, but MAN... 5 years is such a long time, and I don't know if I will be able to move in the next few years. Pretty much SUCKS!

just think of it this way: she's going to have no problem getting dick.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

just think of it this way: she's going to have no problem getting dick.

oh you fucking bastard.

 

[gotmilk]

My boyfriend is moving away and my emotions are so f*cked up. I'm very excited 'cuz this is such a good opportunity for him, but at the same time I'm upset, worried, scared etc. We plan on me moving there too, but not right now. I'm supposed to drive him 23 hours to Virginia on Sunday. I dunno how to deal...now his dad is thinking of coming with us, and I feel so selfish wanting to just be alone with him, since we dunno when we'll get to see each other. Man, this sucks!! Anyone else ever go through this???

23 hours? Are you near the Hudson Bay?

I was in this same spot with my ex...and it crumbled quickly. Good luck..because the skank's in Vagina...I mean...Virginia...pounce quicker than mosquitoes.

 

[SoKlueles]

webcams? lol...move there with him and good luck tho

 

[hardrock]

Thats tough. I don't think I'd last more than a couple months. Good lucl!

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

i hate reality

 

[dzuljas]

long distance sucks.... I dont know about you but I can't STAND bullshitting with someone on the phone, it is so impersonal. If it is temporary though like a few months I could see it be worth sticking it out.

 

[vinylgroover]

if i were both of you, i would end the relationship as it is now and just go back to being good friends and see other people.

If at some point down the track you are re-united, then what will be will be.

But it's unfair on both of you to try the 'long distance' thing and it could end any future chance of you two being together.

 

[guards]

I've been doing the long distance thing for the last six months.


blows big hairy moosecock


I hate it and would never recommend it to anyone.

 

[PHATchik]

Long distance relationships are rough, but they are manageable. They just take a lot of work, but if both of you are willing to make an effort, they can work. Good luck!

 

[Werd]

If you want to be with that person, then you will be. You should be free to see who you want to when you want to.

I am very open minded about these things that is why it has worked for me in the past. You are here. They are there. You get together when you can and "get a life when you can't". If you both keep coming back then there is a reason. If not, then oh well.

Not hard at all unless you are the kind of people that need to spend a lot of time together.

 

[Dial_tone]

buttsex makes the distance worthwhile.

 

[PHATchik]

buttsex makes the distance worthwhile.

Whatever works for you hun.

 

[sigweed]

im in one now... and this will be my last

ive grown so bored of the relationship, i almost want it to end

 

[Dial_tone]

I'm in one....it's easier when the long distance part has a finite end, which mine doesn't. We talk alot though whatever means we can. We both have our moments of being down.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

if you want it to last organise tickets etc for seeing him NOW and put it on a schedule

the uncertainty and loneliness will kill your relationship. having those set times that you will definitely see each other keeps up a sense of continuity.

saying it blows hairy moose cock is an understatement. understatement of the year. long distance relationships are like heat activated high explosive sandpaper dildos.

 

[flex123]

if you want it to last organise tickets etc for seeing him NOW and put it on a schedule

the uncertainty and loneliness will kill your relationship. having those set times that you will definitely see each other keeps up a sense of continuity.

saying it blows hairy moose cock is an understatement. understatement of the year. long distance relationships are like heat activated high explosive sandpaper dildos.

No doubt...My girl has been gone for over a month now. It was suppose to be a 10 day thing and than everything they had schedule got backed up, than things came up that made her stay for longer and so on.

The entire time since she left and there is no set time of when she will be back. And you're so right that the uncertainty and loneliness has taken a toll on me.

This is my situation of a simple matter of being away for a short time, so I couldnt imagine being in a super long distance relationship for awhile withut knowing when you'd see the person. But thats just me, I'm a very dependant person in relationships and usually spend all my time with that person..

Not the normal mans man who goes up with the fellas and only sees the woman once a week and considers it a hastle.

 

[Razorguns]

LD relationships are great -- cuz we can sitll cheat as much as u want, and never get caught.

 

[flex123]

LD relationships are great -- cuz we can sitll cheat as much as u want, and never get caught.

Yeah and you get the extra bonus of STD's....who the hell would pass up on that type of opportunity?

 

[lil'tangerine]

Thanks everyone for the good wishes, and reality checks! I guess I have to just suck it up and see what happens. Hopefully everything will work out...

 

[Rex]

Me and my ex girlfriend tried to take on a year of being separated from each other. Her in the states, me in Japan. 2 months into it I get emergency leave to go home for my Aunt's funeral.

Last night home she breaks up with me. Too much for her to take on. She told me she still loved me. I said nothing back, nothing at all. I wanted to tell her I love her. I wanted to ask her not to end it, but instead I stood there stone faced, no emotion, no reaction. I questioned how she could love me, yet leave me. I took a turn for the worse then. After a few months of booze, cheap women, and more booze I got my shit together.

There's too much for most people to take on to endure a long distance relationship. The asshole that's trying to fuck your significant other says they'll never have to know about it, but they're <where ever>.

I give her credit though. She had the decency to dump me instead of leading me on. The relationship started to die. My jacked up work schedule, her own schedule. Days she would wait for me to call, only for me to not be able. And days that I could call her, but she wasn't there. In retrospect I'm glad she ended it. I still love her, and we plan on getting back together one day. When the Marine Corps won't get in the way.