If we all trained the exact same way, mma would not be mma. And if we can't shit talk once in a while about fighting, you must not be much of a fighter. I've had guys whispering sick ass shit in my ear, to kissing me on the neck, it's all a part of the game bro. Maybe with a few fights behind your belt, you'll figure this out. Without trying to be cocky, I do know this is a damn internet board. Ken Shamrock, I would have to say, I would take a shot at. I've been in martial arts since i was 7, so 21 yrs. Ken is not much more than a has been, without a doubt, he could teach you some good shit. Have a blast brotha.