Life SUX!!!!

[fit1]

Hey guys/gals...
Does it ever happen to you where you feel like your life just absolutely sucks???? I won't say it can't get any worse, because the minute I do, it will...lol...that's the way it always works...so, therefore, i KNOW it could be worse.
Anyways....what's my deal??? The whole week it's just been total shit!!! I'm feeling fat, slouchy, ugly, down in the dumps, no self-esteem, you name it -- i am feeling it!!! Then, in addition to all that shit, I'm having doubts about being with my boyfriend of 2 years...I love him to death, but I'm having all kinds of thoughts...do I reallly love him? Do I trust him? Do I want to be with him? Anybody got any advice for me??? Anything at this point will probably be great...lol. Just cheer me up, dammit!!!

 

[Torch]

I cant really say I have an answer for you but, when I feel like shit I go spend money. This is good for temprorary relief until you get the bill lol.

Everyone goes through it feeling confused etc. Go to the gym and work it out. Just give it another week and if you still feel the same way then you may have some changes that need to be made to make yourself happy.

I could go on about a lot of shit right now but this is your thread. Keep ya head up.

How old are you anyway?

 

[Gilbyag]

eish...

 

[karson]

dude

lifes an emotional roller coaster, once you realize that you will enjoy the ride much more. It takes bad time to appreciate the good ones.

 

[Slopain]

Ups and downs. Without the downs there would be no ups. It happens to everyone, some more than others. Things that help me when Im feeling down:

1. Get active: Do something, learn something, get off you ass. Set some short term goals and step toward them. Dont tell many people about your goals if any, if you need accountability tell one or two very supportive people.

2. Stop introspecting so much - this usually ties into lack of #1 up there.

3. Keep positive people around you. Ditch your negative friends, the ones always complaining, or bringing you down or causing you trouble. Positivity and Negativity both breed the same respectively.

4. If you are depressed try to cheer someone else up or at least help someone, this helps immensely!

This next one is kind of weird so dont spend to much time on it: but I think of how close I can be to death - at any given day I could die, happens to many people every day - so fuck it. I'd be very mad if I died today and the last 2 weeks I spent being stressed/depressed about something so insignificant when compared to the grand scheme of things.

And finally lock all your guns up.. j/k!

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Advice....

On Feeling fat, slouchy, ugly: Put on a short skirt, and low cut top and go to you nearest auto shop and get an oil change. The attention will erase those feelings dear

On Your BF: If you have to ask if you trust him, or want to be with him......you DON"T

 

[FrankRizzo]

St. John's Wart with Kava Kava works for me. I get to feelin like that post cycle. Just know that it is just in your head. Any guy that has been with you two years has to be pretty sincere about the relationship!

 

[fit1]

WOW!! All the good replies...lol...I didn't expect so many in such a short time...lol

Torch - I am 26....

Karson - I'm a dudette..

Slopain - Thx for your point of view...very much appreciated.....and guns ARE locked....

Shags - That's a scary thought....mini skirt...short shirt.....ewwwww!!!! lol....

I think a lot of it may be that I just haven't been motivated at all and haven't worked out at all lately...
I am nowhere near where I want to be...so therefore, I'm NOT AT ALL happy with myself....and I know if I ain't happy with myself, then I'll never be happy with anything/anybody else....

So -- basically, I have to quit this feeling dumpy shit and feeling sorry for my lazy ass self and get up off my ASS and go straight to the weights!!!

Thanks guys..

 

[WarriorPL]

whenever i feel like that i go for a run or like torch said, go and max out my credit card and wait for the parents reaction at the end of the month


~WizKid

 

[Warik]

"A reasonable man adapts himself to the world around him.

An unreasonable man adapts the world around him to himself."

Be unreasonable.

-Warik