Life Sucks!!!!!!! :(

[Spunky]

Nothing seems to go right for me here lately.. my brand new truck was wrecked in November.. the insurance company fucked me over and didn't pay the whole amount off, so I have 2 more payments to make on a car I don't have.. while I make payments on my new car. Today, I was in another wreck (this time I was driving, last time someone else was driving my car)... cell phone rang I ran thru a red light and got T-boned... Now I owe another $500 deductible and my insurance is gonna go up.. Im on a cycle right now and i can't concentrate on working out because im so fucking stressed..... looks like im gonna stop the cycle and start working alot of overtime to pay for all these fucking bills...... just need some words of encouragement.....

 

[Polfa/Jelfa]

I just went thru a period of time where i couldnt take it no more....the only place i was able to keep sannes was the gym....dont wory bro..whatever your problems are... fuck it...DO YOUR CYCLE>>work out more INTENSE THAN EVER.....and fuck it....it WILL GET BETTER... ..was in 10 times worse mess which ended month ago....life is great now..so my advice to you is DO YOUR CYLE and...shit will coem together for you...use the GYM as a place to relax and forget about the problems..like i did..it realy helped...... Btw..praying to God and going to church comes first...after that is the GYM...... 2 sacred things Keep me posted how thigs going..

 

[Spunky]

im just so fucking stressed.. i haven't eaten all day... i owe so much fucking money for stuff. my last wreck, now this wreck.. and i've been spending money on cycles instead of where i need to be putting it.. its like im being overloaded w/ problems and its fucking killing me. everything is being thrown on me all at one time!

 

[Spunky]

and what pisses me off is i would have been sleeping had I not gotten out of the bed and driven 35 miles to get something for one of my ex gf's because she asked me to...... (and shes a bitch to me, im just too nice of a guy) had it not been for her calling me and asking for a favor, i would've been asleep and never had the wreck.... its like i get fucked no matter what i do!

 

[MustAdministerSeroidS]

Let the insurance deal with it Bro thats what you pay them for. I crashed my car last week my fault i hit a post £1000 worth of damage. Phoned the insurance and i have to pay the first £550 i have therefore had to cancel my holiday. Life dose suck some times but you have to put things in perspective, Was your self or any one else injered ? If not the only damage was to metal that can be fixed.


Hang in there Bro.


M.A.S.S

 

[apbt549]

hang in there bro things will get better..atleast you weren't hurt in the wreck.....

i think insurance companys are a scam....it bull shit they don't pay for what you owe on a truck......

 

[ragin']

spunk, dont stop going to the gym... whatever you do. bro, think about it .. if you do that you'll regret it in the end. i know what its like to be overwhealmed with bills and owe money, etc. but now is the time to focus and take control of the situation.

#1 use your frustration and aggression in the gym. take it out on the weights.

#2 if you've been spending too much on gear then reduce your cycle a bit and/or sell some of it....

i'm surprised at you, bro.... this is life, take control of it.

peace,
ragin'

 

[[_Adrenaline_]]

LIFE

If you leave muddy water alone for a while, it will eventiually clear...

 

[milkbone]

I go through spells like that where everything seems to just fuck up. Like the other day, I practically tore the side mirror off my '01 car. $211 later I have a new mirror. Now when shit fucks up, I just laugh about it cause I can't believe how much shit gets thrown at me. I am laughing at murphy's law! Laughing in his fucking face and begging for more! Fuck him!

Hey bro, use this as an opportunity to make your cycle great, and then you may feel you've broken even at the end of the whole ordeal. It's like a balancing act, you get some shit, then you get some good, then some shit, then some good. Just take what you get and try to come out a little on top. If you're way on top then kick ass. If you're covered in shit, eventually it will get better.

 

[Spunky]

It wouldn't be so stressful if it wasn't money related. I am covered in so much debt right now. From credit cards to this insurance money...... im gonna have to cut back on gym time to get a part time job it looks like. That makes me so depressed.....The gym is what I love. But sometimes you gotta make sacrifices to take care of things that are more important I guess....

 

[milkbone]

Any possibility of finding PT work at a gym? I've actually thought about this myself but don't know what it pays.

 

[ragin']

It wouldn't be so stressful if it wasn't money related. I am covered in so much debt right now. From credit cards to this insurance money...... im gonna have to cut back on gym time to get a part time job it looks like. That makes me so depressed.....The gym is what I love. But sometimes you gotta make sacrifices to take care of things that are more important I guess....

true, bro. sacrifice what is necessary. like i said, cut back a little if it's going to help you w/ your temporary situation but dont totally give up what you love for anything in this world. bro, if i were a millioinare i'd send you what you need but, oh well.

 

[KingOfPain]

The gym is what I love. But sometimes you gotta make sacrifices to take care of things that are more important I guess....

I am not one to dispense advise and act as if things are easy to follow through with, because I am having some problems of my own right now, but you are saying that the gym is what you LOVE and then turning around and saying that you need to sacrifice the gym(which you love) for more "important things"! What could be more important than something you "love" so much as working out?

had it not been for her calling me and asking for a favor, i would've been asleep and never had the wreck....

Life isnt always easy and sometimes it is a bitch (on the rag), but thats when you need to hold your head up high and take responsibility for yourself and your actions! Try not to blame others for your own "misfortunes", it will not do you any good. Next time dont talk on the phone and run through a signal and maybe next time dont do any favors for someone who you already know is a selfish bitch. I have that "nice guy" curse to bro and I am not ashamed of it, but just be a little more careful of who you are "nice" to, because lots of people will take advantage of people like "us"! Problem is that "nice" guys always seem to have a tendancy to want to help the most fucked up people and thats where we get in trouble, because these people are the ones who end up taking advantage of our kindness.

im just so fucking stressed.. i haven't eaten all day...

EAT man! Just force it down or soon you will look in the mirror and be even more deppressed at how much you have let yourself go! Dont let all of your hard work up till now be a waste and end up having to start all over or you will feel twice as bad, because then you will have lost even one more thing that you love (the gym)!

 

[KingOfPain]

PS - Money is the biggest bitch of them all! Because if you dont have money women will tend to be bitches towards you, but when you have it they all seem to get nice all of the sudden. I dont ever like to let money get me down either man, but shit it is tough when you dont have any and need some really bad. But as long as you still have enough to eat and take care of yourself then dont fucking let it bug you tooo much - walk to the gym if you have to! money comes and goes, but your body will always be yours, so take care of it and dont let anything get in the way of that!

 

[BigGuns2]

hang in there bro! I know you are having a tough time, but be grateful that you weren't killed or paralyzed in your crash! One day you will be able to laugh about all of this!

 

[marky]

Hey bro, dont trip on the training right now. I was in a similar situation some years back and had to focus all my attention on all the problems at hand and get my life in order and going forward.
I thru in wkout when i could but new one day Id be right back on a ka training regeam . With so much going on it wasnt really fair to me to try to go in th the gyms half there and less time. Work it thru bro it gets back to better. Mark

 

[muscleup]

Man I really Hope everything gets squared away in your life bro....I would not cut the gym out as I have a feeling that would ad more stress to your life.....and quit doing favors for the ex girlfriend bro, there is a reason that she is your ex.....Hang tough my good man it will eventually get better......best of luck