Ladies/Opinions Please

[SteelPreacher]

I asked this on the Anabolics board if you want to see what the guys are sayin'. The question is why do women all too often go for guys who are out of shape. This does also happen in reverse a friend of mine is in great shape he's actually got an interview for Abercrombie right now and his girlfriend is pudgy WTF?

 

[SteelPreacher]

BUMP

 

[satanic goatslayer]

All women are the same.

That's right, every single woman prefers the EXACT same type of man/woman. It's beyond explanation, but some guy over on Chat and Conversation said it, so I take it as gospel, were I religious.

The best bet, if you don't fit that mold, is to hang yourself from the ceiling fan. Sad but true.

 

[Audacious1]

My opinion is this...men who have awsome bodies tend to have the inflated ego to go with it and all too often come across cocky which in my opinion is a total turn off. Also many women may be intimidated to go for a man with a wonderful body in fear of rejection. And maybe some women just don't want to deal with other women oogling over their men and may even fear being cheated on b/c their man is "wanted" by other women, everyone has their own "type" and not everyone likes "ripped" men. Everyone is different and looks aren't everything. I, for example, am attracted to skinnier men. And as far as your friend having a pudgy girl...so what, maybe she has a wonderful personality and makes him feel good and they get along great. Your question seemed quite shallow to me and if you are the one having probs with the women...maybe you should readjust your outlook and attitude.

 

[starfish]

I think men place a lot more importance on looks than women do. I've met a lot of really great looking "ripped" men who weren't so attractive after they opened their mouths. - Not to say that is every "ripped" man is that way.

If women were into looks the way men are, Playgirl would sell the same number of magazines as Playboy.

I like men who are muscular and in shape, but I don't really go for the "ripped" look.




starfish

 

[Daeo]

All women are the same.

That's right, every single woman prefers the EXACT same type of man/woman. It's beyond explanation, but some guy over on Chat and Conversation said it, so I take it as gospel, were I religious.

The best bet, if you don't fit that mold, is to hang yourself from the ceiling fan. Sad but true.

You always seem to entertain me SG...

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Thank you Daeo, I'm glad my brand of truth can entertain someone.

 

[PowerPrincess]

Intimidation....definitely!!!! I just think that perhaps either sex may be intimidated by each other who have the "ideal" look.

Many times, people settle and then fall for the person even when they may not have had the innitial desired look.

Also, my man is very good looking and has a phenominal body, we met online....if I ever saw him at the gym or at a club...just for the mere fact that he has a great build and a handsome look....i'd think he's cocky.....sure that's a terrible way to think.....but i would. Fortunately we met blindly through aol and instead we make a very good looking couple...not to mention how much we're in love with each other.

So....if you see that person who's got it all....try going up to them, you'd be surprised how many times they've been rejected or at the other extreme, have never been asked out to begin with.

Go for it.....what do you have to lose