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theoak01

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i just got a girlfriend about 2 and a half weeks ago which is good,but the thing is we hardly do anything,i understand people are busy and we both work but she says she wants to do things then backs out at the last minute,we have only done anything alone once the rest of the time it is with the friends who set us up,what does this mean when a girl never wants to do anything like this,please help me,im very mixed up and need advice
 
To correctly answer your question I will need to know both her age and yours please.

Star
 
She's not interested in you, sorry:( Maybe she just wants to have someone to call her bf? When I was 16 I was insane....you can't blame her, its the age.
 
Gotcha......You both are a little young and if I can remember that far back.............yep, I can. She's frightened, nervous, doesn't know what to do alone with you and by hanging out with a group it is a chance for her to get to know you and get comfortable. Let her take it slow. This also gives me the impression that you two didn't really know each other before you made this committment. Sooooooo she likes the idea but she is not quite sure she likes you yet. The real you, not the physical you. This is sexual safety for her. If you like her then be patient but she sounds immature so I would not take her too seriously.

Star
 
i jsut really like her and i figured she has been stringing me along,and your right we only knew each other for about a week before i asked her out,ill just have to wait and see
 
What Star said! Also start out planning stuff w/ other couples or groups. Find that comfort zone where you can go do something that you both enjoy without that weird uncomfortable feeling - like where you are sitting there and don't know what to talk about anymore. Just keep it easy going for a while - get to know her better. If that goes OK and there's some chemistry, start doing the more you-and-her-and-no one -else stuff.

Enjoy your youth! It goes fast! LOL!
 
go get another she doesnt know what the hell she wants......... man there so many girls around ......
 
Let yourselves continue to be set up through friends. This way it doesn't seem like you are always the one making the phone call and do something fun.....Laughter always breaks the ice......a carnival......bumper cars......anything silly. You also say YOU REALLY LIKE HER??? Let's try "you are really attracted to her".......hormones tend to confuse the two. Your little buddies are tellin ya your in love when in reality ya just wanna boink her. Chemical is almost identical. Good luck and don't stop meeting other girls in the mean time. The best way to get a girl is jealousy.....oooh we can't stand competition!!

Star
 
i agree. if she says she does want to do somthing, then she bavks out.. it time for you to back out.. ive been in a simalar situation... turns out she was fucking another guy.....
 
she wanted to make it steady so i thought it was cool,i plan to get her best friend to do some diggin for me,her friend seems cool with it so im gonna see what she is thinking
 
dude

shes not your girlfriend. she is afraid of being alone with you because doesnt want you to try and touch her. sorry bro, she is simply not interested and doesnt know how to tell you. Dump her, youll look cool to your friends and she might want what she thinks she cant have. its your only hope...........
 
If you really want to know, just ask her. Maybe she's just shy and has never had a real boyfriend. Plus shes 16, she doesnt know what the hell she wants.
Dread_Lady, your super penguin is awesome!
 
Canadian Oak -


Don't listen to the women on this board. They're ALL nuts. Go back to your high school tomorrow and find yourself a nice girl who's not a tease.


... still bi-sexual? Sucked a dick yet?



May1010
 
Guys, I am sensing a lot of insecurity in here. Just because a woman is a bit skiddish in the beginning doesn't automatically mean that they are not interested in you. That is especially true when you are talking about young people.
Bro don't jump to the defense and dump her just yet, she may like ya. Give her some time to get things figured out. If she wanted the steady thing, obviously there is some interest...right!
Give her a week or two and if she doesn't get her shit together, confront her. If she has no explanation then you show her the curb.
 
May,

he can't expect to get any doggie style the second week, they are in Highschool....remember? Anyway, he should stick it out for a month. Then decide to bail.
 
Jimsbbc said:
May,

he can't expect to get any doggie style the second week, they are in Highschool....remember? Anyway, he should stick it out for a month. Then decide to bail.

Right on...I am thinking about the older ladies, who know what they want! Life is grand in your 20's! LOL
 
Jim,


Doggy style? I'm hoping he just gets to French kiss her and maybe touch her tits at the drive-in. But, she's obviously not interested. You shouldn't be encouraging Rob to continue in this abusive relationship.
 
we make out when we get together and yes ive touched her tits and saw em,its fucked up why im getting all this mixed signal shit
 
dude

its cool bro, just stop saying yea ive seen her tits and even touched them. By the time I was 17, I was pullin mad numbers, you should honestly be bangin by now brotha.:p
 
see if i was a man whore i would be fucking her,but i have morals and dont want to have that emotional attachment unless the relationship is serious,get my drift,i promised myself in any relationship from now on i wont have sex until it means something
 
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