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Ladies - I have a question....

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Overheard this at lunch:


"He is SO high maintenance."

What does that mean exactly as it applies to a man??

Same as a woman?

DIfferent??

How?
 
*this* was what you thought would be a great post?

high maintenance is a guy that... does stuff. you know.

I refuse to date Captain Swolio because he is too high maintenance.
 
That's easy. It's the same as with women. Your maintenance level is equal to the amount of effort others have to put forth in order be around you.
 
SHIT
I was hoping this was another "Ladies - I have a question... would you date a man with a penis for ears and a vagina for a mouth" type threads.
 
lol

HS - NO this is not the one....I'm saving it for a more approp time
 
Bullit said:
SHIT
I was hoping this was another "Ladies - I have a question... would you date a man with a penis for ears and a vagina for a mouth" type threads.

I wouldn't.

but I'd totally date a chick with big tits and a tiny waist.
 
You wouldn't?

From what I hear more chix would rather date a man with a penis for ears and a vagina for a mouth than date nordstrom.
 
for the record - I like blondes.

I'd rather date a hot chick than date nordstrum.
FACT!

sean34 owned by princesslayme6969 11/12/02
 
The Nature Boy said:
what's funny is that the only woman to respond to this thread is bullit.

HAHAHA..totally...OWNAGE!!........ oh wait .... uhhhh ..... uhoh .......damn....THATS ME!!!

You asshole!
 
Probably the same thing it means for a woman being high maintenance.

I've dated a guy who was high maintenance in the looks department.- he was boring :o

I've dated a guy who was emotionally high manitenance. - he damn near drove me crazy :o
 
11/12/02 will not go down as Bullits best day.
 
Triumphant, you sure?
Now his mechanical wang dosent work.
Back to impotence for ol' HG.
 
Emotional high maintenance is most likely it.

Constant ego boosting, constant reassurance of faithfullness, blah, blah, blah.

That plus all the things his momma used to do for him.
 
Emotional high maintenance is most likely it.

Constant ego boosting, constant reassurance of faithfullness, blah, blah, blah.

That plus all the things his momma used to do for him.
 
You mean that it doesn't have anything to do with having to tighten the bolts that come loose when I walk?:confused:
 
HappyScrappy said:


oh - come on now!

so all of the sudden just because a guy wants a blowjob, he is considered high maintenance?

BWAHAHAhahahahahahahahahahahhaaaa

Thanks scrappy! Now I am off to work with a smile! That was some funny shit!!!
 
ok - seems like it makes sense.

I was wondering if it was high main. in that he spends x amount of time getting ready.....etc

See - I consider the above to be high maint. in a woman.

Needing reassurance etc. like vel said would make me say clingy and needy not HM.
 
dd/mm/yy

ya damn yank freaks :D
 
Ever been out and seen a High Maint. Couple ?
How they make it out anywhere is beyond me.
Must be a constant battle of wills.

Emotionally Low Maint. to me is a woman that can ride in the truck with me for an hour, and not have to say more than 3 sentences.

Physically low maintenance is a woman that can get ready to go out in less than 30 Min and still look HOT !
 
Cornholio said:
Danielson - what in the BLUE HELL are you mumbling about??

It a foreigner thing with the way they write down the date..

Instead of 11/12/02 they write it 12/11/02


Some kinda weird
 
I know - what's that got to do with this thread?


Oh yeah - I hear ya on the low emotion AND physical thing - I could only wonder
 
starfish said:
Probably the same thing it means for a woman being high maintenance.

I've dated a guy who was high maintenance in the looks department.- he was boring :o

I've dated a guy who was emotionally high manitenance. - he damn near drove me crazy :o

This reminds of me something. It seems that nearly every date I've been on, women think that it's a man's job to entertain them and be fascinating. You won't get much conversation out of me on a first date, I am real and it takes awhile to get to know me. Loose lipped people are usually the ones that turn out to be jerks and the ones that women go for because they are entertaining.. Just my observation.
 
I KNEW this would be a good topic HS be damned......



I never considered there to be an emotional HM - I just assumed that was being needy


on a side note - talked with a friend who went thry a divorce a year ago. He said the one thing that really made him feel worthless was that she never commented on his body..


He went from being basically out of shape to maintaining a 6% bf level year-round and has abs I would kill for......yet she never commented on his trasnformation..

that is sad.


I can relate to that idea...not with the body buy about feeling invisible....so, c'mon a little ego stroking is good both ways
 
Cornholio said:
I know - what's that got to do with this thread?


Oh yeah - I hear ya on the low emotion AND physical thing - I could only wonder

im sorry :) it drives me insane seeing that date format


as for high maintanance from a guys perspective it would have to be appeasing someone constantly, rather than being able to relax and not worry they are off in someone elses bed
 
Funny that most women would say they love a low maintenance guy, yet they are attracted to power, wealth and status etc which would suggest high maintenance.

Would i be correct in saying that women like an emotionally low maintenance guy with a high maintenance bank balance? Can you have both?
 
vinylgroover said:
Funny that most women would say they love a low maintenance guy, yet they are attracted to power, wealth and status etc which would suggest high maintenance.

Would i be correct in saying that women like an emotionally low maintenance guy with a high maintenance bank balance? Can you have both?

Yep...someone like me a starving artist.....BUT with a huge inheritance
 
Cornholio said:
on a side note - talked with a friend who went thry a divorce a year ago. He said the one thing that really made him feel worthless was that she never commented on his body..


He went from being basically out of shape to maintaining a 6% bf level year-round and has abs I would kill for......yet she never commented on his trasnformation..


This just represents one of the many differences between men and women.

Men tend to sum up women by how they look, and by how they will make them look because of it and how much it's gonna cost them to keep them happy and keep them looking that way.

Women tend to sum up men by how reliable there are for them and how much they can support them both emotionally and monetarily.

All relationships vary and it would be silly to say that all relationship are like the above stated but if you had to break it down to cover a vast amount of people that would be it. (IMHO)

The man's money and how and whom it is spent on is more important him than the woman's money. While the woman's emotional needs and said needs being met are more important than the man's emotions or emotional needs.

Again - this does not represent all people it only represents the preconceived stereotypes of males and females.

That said, I'm under the belief that what is high maintenance to a man regarding a woman is how much he has to spend on her and what is high maintenance to a woman is how much hand holding and ego stroking she has to sacrifice from herself to give to him.

So I guess men and women are inherently selfish, just in different ways.
 
I always though I was low maintenance.......both emotionally and physically....maybe not though....







































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um....what was I talking about??

My gaze settled on my reflection in the spoon I was using to eat P-butter
 
velvett said:



This just represents one of the many differences between men and women.

Men tend to sum up women by how they look, and by how they will make them look because of it and how much it's gonna cost them to keep them happy and keep them looking that way.

Women tend to sum up men by how reliable there are for them and how much they can support them both emotionally and monetarily.

A woman that speaks the truth. I may faint. :)
 
biteme said:


This reminds of me something. It seems that nearly every date I've been on, women think that it's a man's job to entertain them and be fascinating. You won't get much conversation out of me on a first date, I am real and it takes awhile to get to know me. Loose lipped people are usually the ones that turn out to be jerks and the ones that women go for because they are entertaining.. Just my observation.




I've never expected a man to entertain me or be fascinating....

That's not what I was saying...
 
Bullit said:
You wouldn't?

From what I hear more chix would rather date a man with a penis for ears and a vagina for a mouth than date nordstrom.

I am not an animal! I am a human being!
 
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