Ladies...EMT needs some woman advice

[E M T]

There is nothing wrong with seeing her a lot....just don't act like you two are a couple. A lot of people overanalyze really close friendships. Maybe not acting like you two are together will make her want to be together with you. What do you think?

That is really a lot easier said then done. I used to see her a lot before I had feelings for her and it was never a problem. I would love to keep things the way they are. I'm just scared that if some other guy comes along that she thinks she could just have some fun with that I'm not going to be able to see her as much anymore.

 

[Night Fly]

That is really a lot easier said then done. I used to see her a lot before I had feelings for her and it was never a problem. I would love to keep things the way they are. I'm just scared that if some other guy comes along that she thinks she could just have some fun with that I'm not going to be able to see her as much anymore.

You know....if I were in your situation....I would have to back away. I am the type of person that when I have feelings for someone...I cannot hide it. It would be harder to if they were my best friend. You may just have to back away and ask her to try to understand. I did that once with a guy I had feelings for...and it made him realize what he was missing. But...by that time...I had decided that I really didnt' want to be with him like that. You may just have to play with it for a while...and see what happens. Not play games...just play with your options.

 

[alphaxi]

I have to agree with bunny on this one...just let things flow like she said.
If the two of you are meant to be together and have a relationship then it will happen. So, in the mean time, just hang out and have fun...like normal. If you like spending time with her then just spend time with her!! Do what makes YOU happy.

 

[Toothless]

You could make her a roti with glass shards in it.