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"Kissing"

Austin316

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The way people go about the issue of kissing nowadays is not something I personally agree with and I guess I just don't understand. TO me its always been a symbol of affection that should be based on anticipation and the build up and mean something when it happens and have a lot of feeling to it....Yet soo many people just treat it as another way of flirting, two people meet each other and within 15 minutes they are sucking face, just becase, it doesn't mean anything to most and half don't even see each other again and more do it with mulitple people in one night...I don't understand it at all, that way of thinking is strange to me, to me I look at the bigger picture in things and when a friend will come up to me and say Dave I made out with five girls tonight I say ok cool when Im really thinking and what do u have to show for it now?

Don't get me started on sex, I think how its treated is absolutely ridiculous and or too many is just another way of getting off, whatever it snot me either, I just think things don't mean as much as they once did and are losing value, same goes for most of what happens in society, too many people think in a collective and there aren't enough individuals either
 
Ive never actually kissed anyone soberly, once when I was real wasted I made out with someone from what I know lol, but don't even remember, was told, but thatws the extent
 
Austin316 said:

Don't get me started on sex, I think how its treated is absolutely ridiculous and or too many is just another way of getting off, whatever it snot me either, I just think things don't mean as much as they once did and are losing value, same goes for most of what happens in society, too many people think in a collective and there aren't enough individuals either


Yeah. Don't get me started either. I have had a few dates recently, where the girl was very insistent on having sex on the first date. Sorry, not going to happen. When I would tell them that they would have to wait - they don't want to talk to me anymore. From what I can tell, girls in college don't date - they just have fuck buddies. I guess I will just have to get with the program...
 
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Jimsbbc said:
Yeah. Don't get me started either. I have had a few dates recently, where the girl was very insistent on having sex on the first date. Sorry, not going to happen.

That's unusual (unless you're joking). The guy is usually the insistent one.

I find a woman's chastity to be a very attractive trait. I can't being with one who would give it up so easily.

-Warik
 
Not as rare as you think Warik, i've dealt with that myself, i got dumped cause i wouldn't fuck after 3 dates, being romantic and moving slowly is much more meaningful imo.
 
hmmmmmmmmmmm....I'll swap spit with ya baby. I gots me the feeling that you are still on that damn clomid, boyeee.

Star
 
I figure I've kissed about three dozen girls in my life, and I remember all the kisses, even if I don't remember the girls. :D Hell, I've kissed a couple chicks without even knowing their names and it was a lot of fun.

I think it just depends on your perspective on romance. I think sex and love can be two seperate things, although affection in any form is always nice. Nobody ever died from a kiss. :)
 
Taps said:
I figure I've kissed about three dozen girls in my life, and I remember all the kisses, even if I don't remember the girls. :D Hell, I've kissed a couple chicks without even knowing their names and it was a lot of fun.

I think it just depends on your perspective on romance. I think sex and love can be two seperate things, although affection in any form is always nice. Nobody ever died from a kiss. :)

I will never be able to associat sex with love, I just think that engaging i any type of intimate behavior when u don't know the pesron is kinda stupid and def not feelings..I need it to be more then that
 
Yeah, I agree with Taps... there are different levels of intimacy. You can have sex, make love, and of course one of the many other crude words for intercourse.

I too have kissed my fair share of fellows, and its all in good fun. And with that there are different levels of intimacy. A kiss is just a kiss unless its with someone you truly care for.
 
BTW... I have the most wonderful man to kiss and what not with now, and heres hoping he'll be the only guy I kiss and make sweet love to for a good while
 
i honestly mean no offense by this, but i couldnt help noticing in a few past posts that you've said you've never dated. Ever consider that your opinion on kissing and stuff, and your lack of kissing and stuff have something in common? It seems like most girls at our age just wanna have fun right now. This is another perfect example of why the nice guy doesn't get the girl. The guys getting the girls are the ones who are just out to have fun and kiss and fuck as much as possible. Girls see this and think the guy is cool and fun, and they wanna be down with it too. You're what most girls would call "marriage material", and im sure you'll land a hot wife and everything, but why not kick out and have fun now? you're obviously a decent looking dude, you just think too much. Just go and do what every person on earth was put here to do... pass on your genes.
 
sigweed said:
i honestly mean no offense by this, but i couldnt help noticing in a few past posts that you've said you've never dated. Ever consider that your opinion on kissing and stuff, and your lack of kissing and stuff have something in common? It seems like most girls at our age just wanna have fun right now. This is another perfect example of why the nice guy doesn't get the girl. The guys getting the girls are the ones who are just out to have fun and kiss and fuck as much as possible. Girls see this and think the guy is cool and fun, and they wanna be down with it too. You're what most girls would call "marriage material", and im sure you'll land a hot wife and everything, but why not kick out and have fun now? you're obviously a decent looking dude, you just think too much. Just go and do what every person on earth was put here to do... pass on your genes.


That is some damn good advice. Austin, I know that the playa in you is waitin to bust out. I used to screw around a lot - looking back on it - I had a lot of fun. I am more about something long term now that i am getting a little older.
 
i totally agree,the moral's in society are just plain pathetic,i would have been much happier being born in the 30-'s to 60's
 
not dating has nothing to do with kissing in the context I am thinking of, many times Ive seen friends of mine making out with some girl at a party and later Im like well who was that, they are just like I don't even fucking no! I mean cmon wtf why would you just kiss some stranger you met 15 minutes prior or was dancing with for awhile without even talking much, it makes no FUCKING sense to me, if I wanted to go make out with girls and shit I could, Ive turned away from it except like I said once when I was real fucking drunk...I just things lost the meaning that they really should have, a kiss is not just a kiss, by that logic the whole "its just sex" bullshit holds up as well and I HATE that attitude and if a girl has that attitude I wouldn't even conisder dating her, Im picky but sheesh at least I know what I want
 
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