K, i got a little problem...

[Rugbyrebel]

So here's whats up... there is this really hot guy at work whose in his late 20's and totally hit on me (he thought I was in my last year of university and 23) well I'm barely 17. Mind u I don't look 17 (i'm a 36D and have more muscle tone than most 17 year old girls cause I weight lift a bit) and I don't act 17 (u know that emotionaly fragile shit). However, ever since he found out i was 17 he totally backed off (which is gentlemenly but still I want him What do I do? I know there are a lot of older guys here so I want your advice (and some advice from the women who are more than likely way more experienced with guys than I am!)
I realize that i will probably never be his GF but I'd still at least like to be a friend, flirt with him and hang out, whatever. Whenever i see him, i kind of freeze up and feel like a complete moron. If anyone understands what I've just blabbed on about, give me some feedback!

God damn i want him

 

[PinK233]

He doesn't want to be your friend or hang out....he wants to screw you...

 

[SoCAmuscle]

He doesn't want to be your friend or hang out....he wants to screw you...

I hate it when you beat around the bush!

 

[Rugbyrebel]

lol

He doesn't want to be your friend or hang out....he wants to screw you...

Alright, alright! I was totally asking for that (the truth). I kinda already knew it though and to be perfectly honest my entire post was a complete bullshit, meaning I beat around the bush so I wouldn't sound like a slut. But whatever, let me start over:

I WANT HIM!!!! By friend I mean, a fuck-friend. Someone who flirts at work, fun at night and with no-strings attached. However, I am like 110% virgin and have no clue. What do I do?How do I go about showing him I like him and how do I know if he's attracted to me? I avoid him at all costs becuase i have no idea what to say to him. I'm usually good at flirting with guys but with him I get all frozen up and say something stupid. Probably because I have a huge crush and WANT HIM!!! If I were a little more experienced (or older) than I would have probably just ripped off my clothes and told him to take me (that's a bit of an exaggeration... ) I'm really insecure right now and keep doubting obvious clues about him being attracted to me. So, PLEASE tell me how I can work this out. I'm sure you've all been in situations similar to this,?

 

[PinK233]

Ok, you're a virgin? Are you sure you want to lose your virginity this way?

 

[middlefinger]

just tell him it's your 18th birthday and you want a special present.

 

[guards]

Uuuuummmmm, where do i begin????????


1. He is in his late twenties, therfor is being smart by NOT screwing you.
2. YOU ARE 17!!!
3. Legal issues
4. Doesn't want to feel like a fucking moron for screwing a 17 year old chick when he's in his late twenties.
5. You are 17
6. His friends will laugh in his face ( I would!)
7, YOU ARE 17.........HE IS IN HIS LATE TWENTIES!!!!!!!!!!!


END OF STORY, GET OVER IT, FIND SOMEONE YOUR OWN DAMN AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Grizzly]

Uuuuummmmm, where do i begin????????


1. He is in his late twenties, therfor is being smart by NOT screwing you.
2. YOU ARE 17!!!
3. Legal issues
4. Doesn't want to feel like a fucking moron for screwing a 17 year old chick when he's in his late twenties.
5. You are 17
6. His friends will laugh in his face ( I would!)
7, YOU ARE 17.........HE IS IN HIS LATE TWENTIES!!!!!!!!!!!


END OF STORY, GET OVER IT, FIND SOMEONE YOUR OWN DAMN AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

See, I don't know about that. Personally, I never screwed a highschool girl when I was in high school, and, given the chance now, I would do it in a second. Granted there's the whole legal issue thing, but if it was understood that nothing would be said then why not, right?

Rugbyrebel- Maybe you should talk to my roomate. His ideal woman is 16. Of course, that's because he's a social moron and hasn't been laid in who knows how long. Either way, I'll hook you up. Do you like overly skinny(140lbs) 21 year old guys? Sure, he's funny looking, but he'd jump at the chance to hit your underage ass.

 

[guards]

If the guy was around 20, give or takea few years, tham I would hesistantly say go for it ( I'll regret saying that!) but he is IN HIS LATE TWENTIES, ALMOST THIRTY!!!!!!!!!


Not a good idea.

 

[firstenrgy]

Move on to the next guy... or wait until your eighteen, throw on your best hoochie outfit and go for it.
firstenrgy

 

[bigmatt25]

girl you got it bad!!!!there is not a women I know who would like her first time to be with someone like that.. Remember he will be in it for one thing, and one thing only.. I admire your persistent behavior. you know what you want amd go after it.. I'm the same way, but I really think you will end up regreting it sooner or later..
let me know how it turns out.

 

[gorilla_boy]

Uuuuummmmm, where do i begin????????


3. Legal issues

Not in Canada. Age of consent is 14 with no age-difference rules.

 

[gotmilk]

I am like 110% virgin

Damn, my last "fuck-friend" was only 30% virgin and she became a pain in the ass.

Chances are..he's older and can't get it from someone his own age so he's fixated on your 36D boobies.

Ever wonder why?

Just tell him what you want. I'm sure he has the rest planned out.

 

[Binky]

If you are gonna go thru this much effort to land him,
Make sure you have him deflower all 3 holes.......

 

[HumorMe]

Re: lol

If I were a little more experienced (or older) than I would have probably just ripped off my clothes and told him to take me............I'm sure you've all been in situations similar to this,?

(with sarcasm) Yea...a whole bunch of times....too many to count! The story of my life....women just don't respect me for my mind!

 

[guards]

Not in Canada. Age of consent is 14 with no age-difference rules.

I wasn't refering to the age of consent, I should have been mopre clear. I was refering to the dangers of pregnancy and rape accusations. Not to mention the legal obligations that may accompany these charges.

 

[bonan]

how about i fly up to canada and fuck you for a couple of weeks, by then you will have learned everything your gonna know and will be ready to handle this guy. The best thing is ill do it free of charge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[i2brew]

a few years from now the age diff will not be as big a deal....but if you can't wait, at least wait till you turn 18, then just bat your eyes at him throw him down and rape him.

 

[Rugbyrebel]

OKAY I GET IT!!

I know it's wrong and I won't do it! I still want to, but i won't because I know it's weird for a 17 year old and 27 year old to get together. Guards, you made that clear Ohhh woe is me! I get depressed when I think of guys my own age, they are so undeveloped, skinny losers who are very imature (not a 'fun' immature but an annoying one) I guess I'll just say a virgin until I'm twenty because I'd rather have my first time be with a guy i'm attracted to physcially and personality wise. And he is not a jerk, or a scumbag (i'm the jerk because I want him and he has a girlfriend, his age FYI ) and the reason I like him soo much is that he is MY KIND OF GUY! He's adventureous, down to earth, funny, plays sports, really cute, ripped, that's everything I like in a guy and there are no guys at my school like that (believe me I have looked because I really want a boyfriend who will go whitewater kayaking with me) I always have crushes on guys who are like 20 but never someone who is 27. I would never even have considered this guy if I knew his age before I met him but this got all screwed up because I thought he was only 20-21 (he doesn't look or act 27) and he thought I was in university. Shit. Well believe it or not I'm not stupid enough to go for it but ohhh my heart aches! (well I guess it wouldn't be my heart, hehehe) Oh well, hopefully I'll be over it by next week....... who knows maybe we can be just friends

Oh wait, that won't happen! fuck I HATE BEING 17! all these horomones and shit

P.s thanks to all u guys for making sure I knew the reality of the issue.
I've probably established myself here as a whiny, slut, now so i'll just shutup and be good

 

[Rugbyrebel]

Re: Re: lol

(with sarcasm) Yea...a whole bunch of times....too many to count! The story of my life....women just don't respect me for my mind!

lol, that was funny. I guess it was kind of stupid of me to write that.

 

[HumorMe]

Re: Re: Re: lol

lol, that was funny. I guess it was kind of stupid of me to write that.

Nah!........there are alot of guys that have those fantasies! Problem is....they are always fantasies.......DAMN IT!

 

[Captain_insano]

So here's whats up... there is this really hot guy at work whose in his late 20's and totally hit on me (he thought I was in my last year of university and 23) well I'm barely 17. Mind u I don't look 17 (i'm a 36D and have more muscle tone than most 17 year old girls cause I weight lift a bit) and I don't act 17 (u know that emotionaly fragile shit). However, ever since he found out i was 17 he totally backed off (which is gentlemenly but still I want him What do I do? I know there are a lot of older guys here so I want your advice (and some advice from the women who are more than likely way more experienced with guys than I am!)
I realize that i will probably never be his GF but I'd still at least like to be a friend, flirt with him and hang out, whatever. Whenever i see him, i kind of freeze up and feel like a complete moron. If anyone understands what I've just blabbed on about, give me some feedback!

God damn i want him

I don't belive you...post a pic.

 

[Rugbyrebel]

Re: Re: K, i got a little problem...

I don't belive you...post a pic.

Why don't you believe me? Maybe i'll post a pic if I can find a good one.