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Juggling 4 chicks in a relationship, how do you do it?!?

sawastea

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Man, the shit has hit the fan.

Here is the low-down:

* Girlfriend that I see on weekends in CT as she lives far away. Relationship has dwindled due to infrequancy of visits and she wants to tie sawastea down and live with him. I didn't like that decision and vetoed it. She wants me for the long haul but am not ready to give up my life @ 26. I tell her this ["I'm not ready"] and she still doesn't understand.

* Girl I used to see back in the day in CT, moved to Bran987 country [:bfold:] and now moved back to NYC. I saw her last night for a friendly get together with wine. After two bottles of Shafer Hillside Select, one thing led to another and I was hooking up/carpet munching.

* Girl I met in NJ. Cool as chick that works for a reputable company. Great features. All I have gotten so far is lip/tongue. This will soon change.

* Girl I know who's in her early 30's and works in NYC. I don't see her frequently but when I do, I will bang it and then she will bail. She wants more action as of late.

So, given there are 7 days in the week, and I am busy 4 of the weekdays, and two are dedicated to the one in CT, how can I juggle this?

:supercool
 
Keep it up with No. 1. She's far away and may not infiltrate your space just yet. When she does, if your not ready, drop the bomb

No. 2, has good taste in wine. Shafer is awesome. Did a tour there 5 years ago. I think it's been sold recently. Anyways, if she lives far away, don't sweat it. Just keep phone contact.

No. 3, if you don't bottom out in the pooper soon, fug it!!! :Perk:

No.4, early 30's soon she may want more then the cack soon so be prepared for that.
And if you get tired of all of them, and feel you have no idea what to do, have them all meet at your place at the same time one Friday night.
Either you'll be one lucky fugga and bang'em all or you'll wipe the slate with all off them :Chef:
 
I don't deal with anything with a pecker. They all have jugs (2 are 34Bs, 1 is a 34C and 1 is a 35D) and vaginas.
 
Bor,

You don't want anything serious, so why stress?

It's not emotional, you;re just having fun, so feel free to see more or less of them as needed.

None of this does much for your future.

I like oxygen.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Bor,

You don't want anything serious, so why stress?

It's not emotional, you;re just having fun, so feel free to see more or less of them as needed.

None of this does much for your future.

I like oxygen.

I don't want anything serious anymore. The 1st chick from CT is very serious and I told her I'm not ready to move on. I want to go to MBA, advance my career and become financially stable according to NYC standards. She asked me for a timeline last night on when I would be ready and I was like in 3-4 years maybe. Then she tried to negotiate it to like 2 years. I was like "que?" She is from Argentina. This is the same chick I broke up with on Valentine's day and she later came back. I've already recd 6 emails today from 3 of the girls. I might have to schedule them on the same day, at different times and just stick to the schedule. I don't fucking know!!!
 
sawastea said:
I don't want anything serious anymore. The 1st chick from CT is very serious and I told her I'm not ready to move on. I want to go to MBA, advance my career and become financially stable according to NYC standards. She asked me for a timeline last night on when I would be ready and I was like in 3-4 years maybe. Then she tried to negotiate it to like 2 years. I was like "que?" She is from Argentina. This is the same chick I broke up with on Valentine's day and she later came back. I've already recd 6 emails today from 3 of the girls. I might have to schedule them on the same day, at different times and just stick to the schedule. I don't fucking know!!!

If you don't want anything serius, just ignore them. Call when you have time...don't change your schedule for them.

There are no limit of fish in the, especially in NY.
 
pic the one that you like best....imo i think that number 2 seems ok.......number 1 wants to be tied do you want that? number 3 is not giving it up lose her and number 4 sounds like all she wants is DICK.....number 2 sounds best
 
I say drop #1. She isn't getting it and is demanding way too much. Let her go and move on. Nothing but drama there. With regards to Nos. 2,3, and 4, just be blunt with them and let them know what you don't want. You are not emotionally tied to them, so you don't have to see them if you don't want/have time too. There's no need to juggle them in one week.

Personally, I think if you set them to a schedule/routine, they will eventually want more of your time. No woman (unless she's a hooker) wants to be a consistent fuck buddy. The minute you change the schedule/stop calling, the drama will begin. Let your dates with them be sporadic.

You're in NYC and its summertime - Just have fun.

My .02.
 
nycgirl said:
I say drop #1. She isn't getting it and is demanding way too much. Let her go and move on. Nothing but drama there. With regards to Nos. 2,3, and 4, just be blunt with them and let them know what you don't want. You are not emotionally tied to them, so you don't have to see them if you don't want/have time too. There's no need to juggle them in one week.

Personally, I think if you set them to a schedule/routine, they will eventually want more of your time. No woman (unless she's a hooker) wants to be a consistent fuck buddy. The minute you change the schedule/stop calling, the drama will begin. Let your dates with them be sporadic.

You're in NYC and its summertime - Just have fun.

My .02.


Exactly!

My friends used to try to date 4 girls at a time. All they had was a headache covering their tracks, and the girls always found out.

Be upfront and honest with every girl you meet. Tell them you do not want to be serious and you see other girls. (or guys in your case) Some will call you a sleaze. But, most will react well, and some even appreciate it. Because, they have gone out with Jackass's like you who played them. :)
 
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