I've come to the point where I have to pick

[MrRTTB]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4½ years now. I love her more than life, but know If I told her I do steroids, I would loose her for good. Call me a pussy but I'm just to affraid loosing the best thing ever happen to me. I've come to the point where I have to decide what I want, and what I don't want. What I need and don't need. I've decided to quit steroids and for once feel I'm totaly honest. Don't know If I will do It again, probably I will, but never behind her back. I can't just tell her right away, that would break her hart. The thing here in this country is that people have been listening to much to the media. For them steroids are one little pill you take and you will get big, aggresive, get acne and start shooting people. This is the way people here look a steroids. They think nandrolone and testosterone, trenbolone and winstrol are all the same. Small pills they call steroids.

If anyone been in the situation I'm in right now, please write down a few lines.

 

[Seth28]

Just me bro, I know you love her, but dont tell her you were using anything. If you feel like you are lying to her by not telling, then just stop the gear. I would hate to see you tell her and sometime in the future things go sour and she turns you in.

 

[Otis2]

My 2 cents would be don't mention that you have used and choose the woman over the drugs.

 

[JibbyJabba]

Dude, if she loves you like you love her, she won't leave you b/c you juice. It took me over a year to convince my chick that it can be done safely... she was pissed at first, but never mentioned leaving me... I invited her to investigate for herslf... now, she's finally giving me the OK - she did her homework on EF and other boards and came to me and she gave me a basic list of what I was allowed to do... So, I'm fixing to start up an Ox only cycle... so, because I care about her, I'm working with her on this...

If she leaves you the second she hears the word "steroid", then she was just waiting for an excuse to dump your ass and you're better off without her. However, if she's appalled, but still willing to hear your side, then you got yourself a good girl you can work with and help her understand the truth.

Honesty is always the best... just approach it delicately and sensibly... don't get all pissed when she gets angry, I mean damn, we were all raised on "after school specials" that said steroid users were automatic rapists and such... you can't blame her... but, like I said, she should be willing to listen to you...

 

[liquidmuscle]

If she loves you she will be by your side no matter what...end of discussion. If she leaves you after you tell her then it wasnt true love anyways and there are many other girls out there many others

 

[Sadist]

I think it is unrealistic to believe that everyone will find a woman to be with that will love them unconditionally. Some people are open-minded about some things, but not others. For example, if I was doing anything illegal that could jeopardize my wife, myself or our careers she would probably kick me to the curb. But it sounds like you have your priorities straight and I wish you the best of luck.

 

[BigAndy69]

Don't tell her, enough of this fairy tale unconditional love bullshit. Maybe I'm just sour...

 

[crimson coal]

Good choice bro...Dump the drugs. If this is the woman of your dreams don't lose her. The drugs will always be there if things ever change.

 

[The Terminator]

Good choice bro...Dump the drugs. If this is the woman of your dreams don't lose her. The drugs will always be there if things ever change.

Yep, don't become blinded with the goal of being the biggest, strongest guy in the gym, it's not the ends all that it appears to be, there are many other things that are more important, and MUCH harder to find.

 

[Flexx]

I once lost a really great girl over juice. My mistake was I told her. If I had it to do over I never would have said anything about it. The worst part is I quit right then mid cycle because she wanted me to and she still left. If you can educate her once she learns the truth she may not mind. They all love the way juice makes us look.