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It was the hardest thing Ive done

theoak01

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i broke it off,I told her for now I need to move on and do my own thing,we just arent compatible and its nobody's fault,sometimes things just dont work out, shes actually accepted it and said shes fine and we can be friends etc without it being weird,but Im not there yet and need to give it some time to make sure she is cool with it before I start hanging out with her on a friend basis.


in the end its for the best
 
Good man

If you're lucky, you can have the friends with benefits relationship....assuming that you don't hit it off with the other girl you're interested
 
I wouldnt do that to her bro,it will just fuck with her emotions,leading her to believe I want to go back to her,which isnt true
 
TheOak01 said:
I wouldnt do that to her bro,it will just fuck with her emotions,leading her to believe I want to go back to her,which isnt true
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No I mean if it was mutually agreed that you could be friends but still have the benefits(sex) without being together. If for some reason she believes that it will keep the posiblity of you guys getting back together, then you're probably be better off without the benefits or possibly without the friendship all together
 
its been a three year relationship,pretty long,but I havent been happy for a long time,and finally got balls and was honest instead of living my life for someone elses feelings
 
TheOak01 said:
its been a three year relationship,pretty long,but I havent been happy for a long time,and finally got balls and was honest instead of living my life for someone elses feelings
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You did the right thing. Its best to get out if its not great for both people. Someday she will realize this. But, now she is probably feeling sad, insecure, and lonely..........Maybe you should give me her #. I hate to see a girl suffer. ;)
 
fuck man,after thinking on things Im starting to believe I broke it off,with hopes of hooking up with this new girl,I think I made a big fucking mistake
 
TheOak01 said:
i broke it off,I told her for now I need to move on and do my own thing,we just arent compatible and its nobody's fault,sometimes things just dont work out, shes actually accepted it and said shes fine and we can be friends etc without it being weird,but Im not there yet and need to give it some time to make sure she is cool with it before I start hanging out with her on a friend basis.


in the end its for the best
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we talked about are chics fucked up families, right? Bor you've made the right decision. The apple never falls far from the tree.

I'm in a similiar situation right now, just haven't found my balls yet!! :(
 
if you had hopes of hooking up with a new girl than you shouldnt be with your ex anyway.....

you shouldn't even have those thoughts if you really loved her and wanted to be with her. that's a signal to you right there.

I had a 3-year relationship end last year too, it's rough but ya know time heals all
 
TheOak01 said:
fuck man,after thinking on things Im starting to believe I broke it off,with hopes of hooking up with this new girl,I think I made a big fucking mistake
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[slaps forehead]
 
I swear it's almost harder to break up with someone than be broken up with-- especially when you really care about the other person. I'm glad to hear you were true to yourself and I'm sorry that it's no fun at all right now. Good luck.
 
ya we are gonna have a talk tomorrow so I get shit off my chest,hopefully I will feel better


Gambino bro,hopefully you take things easier then I have,I hate hurting someone else I really do
 
You will never be able to be "just friends" with her. Doesnt work that way.
 
Im sure gonna try man,we have the same friends and I wont abandon my friends over a women

Im just pretty fucked up at the moment and need to keep busy,and I turned down my shot to hang with the new girl tonight because Im pretty stressed
 
bro your not the only one,I dont know what I want anymore,Im sure its just because its all fresh in my mind,good thing I got pills for my nerves here
 
superdave said:
You will never be able to be "just friends" with her. Doesnt work that way.
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It can, but it's hard.

You will always be weird around each other. The other one is gonna get upset when one of you has a date or BF/GF around. etc.

The only way I see it working is if you two take a while apart completely. Then do the friend thing later on. That would be near impossible since you two share mutual friends.

I took a year off with this girl and then called her up. She has been my best friend every since.
 
why do you want a new girl after coming out of a 3 year relationship. You're only 21......so much to see and experience. Go out and find yourself man. Women will come and go.
 
its not even that I wanna be in a relationship with this other girl,but I like hanging with her and am interested
 
TheOak01 said:
bro your not the only one,I dont know what I want anymore,Im sure its just because its all fresh in my mind,good thing I got pills for my nerves here
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Piills? ;) What cha got?
Sounds like you did the right thing, but your having second thoughts...
You said you weren't happy

velvette's sig
"Love is never as ferocious as when you think it will leave you."
 
Just went thru a similar thing....8yrs we were together...and she started getting on me about gear...then i had enough and just was honest...told her straight up that I wasnt interested anymore...It absolutely was the hardest thing ive done...i dont wish that on anyone....good luck bro!
 
my dad takes these pills for nerves,I take them also when I freak from time to time

and its just second thoughts,Im sure nothing to sweat to much,I shoulda went out not stayed in and thought
 
vinylgroover said:
why do you want a new girl after coming out of a 3 year relationship. You're only 21......so much to see and experience. Go out and find yourself man. Women will come and go.
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I hate to say it but VG is right. I know its hard to break up w/someone you still care for. But, You are young and have not truly lived. If you don't do it know you might be doing it at 31 w/3 kids like my friends who couldnt give it up.

Don't meet w/her and talk. That fucked me up everytime. She always made me feel so guilty.

Be strong bro! We are pulling for you
 
Oak, just ask yourself "What Would Alienamppharm Do?"

then do the opposite and you'll be fine.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Oak, just ask yourself "What Would Alienamppharm Do?"

then do the opposite and you'll be fine.
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haha sounds solid to me ;)
 
Raina said:
I swear it's almost harder to break up with someone than be broken up with-- especially when you really care about the other person.
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harder to do, but in terms of getting over it, being left is harder, i think

Oak, dont buckle to insecurities. you opened a door that you cant really close properly, look forward and keep walking. vinylgroover has it right, certainly
 
you guys are right,I went out to ash's place last night and she kept my mind busy,shes fucking great man.

as for the ex,the talk is just going to basically make me feel better and set shit strait
 
Sorry to say, but I've never heard of a couple who had strong feelings for each other at one point that was able to be good enough friends to actually hang out w/ each other after a break up.
 
After breaking up with my ex so that I could be with my fiance, we have remained friends somewhat. We don't hang out but we talk on AIM constantly and have had lunch with her a couple times. We were only together for 6 months so that may be why but it is possible
 
I hope we can be friends but she said she would flip If I brought a date out with me and our friends, so I can already see that not working,but meh thats life.

my biggest concern now is not falling to fast for ash to fill the void of security
 
My girl and I have been on the rocks for about a year now, we have a 3 year old son together so it's real hard to call it quits for good.

We have been together for almost 5 years, but we are really just trying to be civil to each other.

I'm trying to move out, and have been starting to date other women.

Everytime I start to leave she tells me that she has changed her mind and wants me to stay, but I'm tired of all of the ups and downs.

I think I have put up with more shit with her than any other girl, but it's because we share a child together, she is also loaded with cash and it makes it hard to leave. She hasn't let me work in two years, but I think I need to get out so I can put my life back together.

Maybe we could swap girls Oak, lol.
 
lol bro I dont want that man,if a kid was involved I would have just stayed, I also hear ya about $$,my girl would give me cash and buy me things all the time
 
I decided the talk was a bad idea and said no you cant come over,Im doing much better thats for sure,and she keeps calling trying to talk,but Im not having it.

the biggest pain in the ass is my family who needs to butt the fuck out
 
wow.. another breakup. this was a bad summer for relationships it seems.
 
your to much bro,but I did smile so thanks for that man.

Im just cutting off all contact from her,I can totally see her stalking me
 
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TheOak01 said:
your to much bro,but I did smile so thanks for that man.

Im just cutting off all contact from her,I can totally see her stalking me
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Broham... if she stalks you... we'll talk... I got SKILLZ when it comez to dealing with stalking biatches...

Me bez learned up in hur 'bout all dat...
 
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