Is this Fair?

[Freak Nasty]

So me and my wife were talking about 3-somes. To try not and force it I susgested she be with another woman to check it out.

I even said we would do a MMF first and if she liked it we could try a MFF.

Her response was since I want her to lick another pussy the only way to be fair was to let another dude fuck me.

I told her thats not fair.

So I have basicly 2 questions?

1) Is it fair? Why or why not.
2) How do the women feel about seeing their man getting head from another man.
3) for those that have initially not wanted to, but did it. How was it.

 

[Gymgurl]

Most men do not want another dude touching them.....head might be different then getting it in the ass......I guess if you are comfortable with it then do it...if not there has to be rules....MMF could be hot....

 

[pintoca]

Wouldn't have an issue with a MMF... but dude, the second M is not for my ass...

 

[mrplunkey]

Never, ever, ever to MMF... couldn't do it. Let alone him doing something to me. I'm not homophobic by *any* means, but the thought of another guy in my bed is completly and totally unappealing.

This is going to sound sexist, but I understand lesbianism. Women are beautiful, elegant, graceful creatures. I don't blame them for desiring each other. I just don't understand the guy-guy thing. Men just don't seem attractive in general -- hairy, sweaty lumbering creatures (compared to females). Hell, I'm grateful women are even willing to have sex with us.

 

[kristie_doll1980]

1) Is it fair? Why or why not.
2) How do the women feel about seeing their man getting head from another man.
3) for those that have initially not wanted to, but did it. How was it.

1. Not really fair but at least she is considering it to make you happy. Some women might even be hurt that you even suggested it.

2. If I agreed to letting my BF get head from nother man, and I was watching, I'd probably lmao. But for him? If you close your eyes, you probably cannot tell the difference. It may be better since guys have larger mouths. a guy can probably get more in. I'll ask him tonight if he would consider it for a 3some.

3. Never done a 3some. Sorry

 

[Freak Nasty]

i have no problem getting head from the dude, but poking me is another story.

 

[pintoca]

and, how did it go??? did you got the poker???

 

[Gymgurl]

Yeah what happend?????

 

[Freak Nasty]

no still in the descusion phase. I think I would have to come up with another compromise. Id rather suck the dude of then let him poke me.

 

[pintoca]

ehhhh, you wouldn't mind getting head from the guy and now you would rather give him head... Dude, your woman is the 0 on the left in that equation!!!

How about a MFF instead??? less poking involved???

 

[Freak Nasty]

im trying to make this about her...at first. I would rather not give head, but thats 1000% better than getting duked in the butt.

 

[mrplunkey]

Hard to even fathom this thread. Heck, I get turned-off if I'm in bed and the sex-toy even looks too much like a dick.

Can't even imagine another guy in the bed.

 

[Freak Nasty]

sex toys are awsome. Shit my wife sells them, www.slumberpartiesbyangelah.com

So i've pretty much tried everything....yes everything.

 

[Gymgurl]

I say give her MFF....It will still be all about her!

 

[hamstershaver]

its only fair that he ass fucks you, get some astroglide and you will be fine

 

[mrplunkey]

sex toys are awsome. Shit my wife sells them, www.slumberpartiesbyangelah.com

So i've pretty much tried everything....yes everything.

Oh, I agree. Sex toys are fantastic I just get turned off when one of them looks too much like a dick!

Bullet vibrators = cool! Real-looking dildos = uncool!

 

[n0th1ng]

Her response was since I want her to lick another pussy the only way to be fair was to let another dude fuck me.

Your wife shouldn't be licking pussy because you want her to. It should be something you both want and it sounds like only you want it. I don't think shes going to get much pleasure out of watching you suck another guys dick either. She probably just suggested the guy thing so you would drop the subject, but she underestimated you.

 

[monkey arms]

This sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. I'd drop the subject and move on. If you care to stay in this relationship.

 

[dicedgunz]

im trying to make this about her...at first. I would rather not give head, but thats 1000% better than getting duked in the butt.

thats fucking crazy...mmf is cool if you both fuck her, but nothign to do with each other... i have done that a few times, but as far as fucking around with each other, thats fucking crazy and i'm disturb to even think of that....but mff is cool if they are down with it...the thought of you sucking some dudes dick with your wife watching is fucked up 3 ways from sunday...god, i dont knwo what to do,,, i'm gonna puke now...and i thought i was sexually open...guess not

 

[Dekaxx]

Dude i think you should really read between the lines, her wanting you to do it with another man first to me is her basically saying she isn't into this and if she doesn't have a desire to be with another women on her own and its YOUR desire, you are headed for disaster.

 

[Dekaxx]

its only fair that he ass fucks you, get some astroglide and you will be fine

ROFLMFAO why doesn't this response surprise me

 

[SVT-TROY]

If you're that bored with having sex only with her, then do what most married men and women do; cheat, or get a divorce. Or you could have stayed single and had 3-somes without the adultry part. BTW, see you hell.

 

[Freak Nasty]

i never said i was bored. Just things to try. Have you ever thought about something that was hot and not "normal" to society.

 

[SoKlueles]

Personally, i dont think i would want to see my man getting it in the ass by another guy.....or the other way around......but BEFORE i would even think about letting him lick another girl with me around, THAT would have to happen first

and saying this, now he knows that he will never get a 3some with me and another female