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Is this a form of ‘sexual harassment’?

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SeXKiTTen_CanDy

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There is this fellow that I see sometimes (trying to avoid as much as possible), he is probably around about 36 years old. He used to wait for me at the train station in the afternoon so he could walk with me. He would ALWAYS make comments on the way I look, really overboard comments, not the kind a 36 year old should make to a 19 year old, and sometimes he would grab my arm, or put his hand on my back, he would always try to touch me like that. I try to avoid him because he is freaking me out, but I don’t want to say anything to anyone because he seems innocent in a way, but then it’s just too weird. Not long ago he offered me a lift home, he said “I don’t know if I should ask you this, etc……….., but do you want a lift home” I am afraid he is trying to find out where I live. May be I am just going over the top here……….. ?
 
Girl that is scary.

Ways to get rid of him:

1 It would be a stretch since he is only 36 but you could tell him he reminds you of your father.

2 Mention a very large brother that doesn't even like the thought of his baby sister being in the company of men.

3 Get that boyfriend of yours to show up with you and tell him to scowl at the guy.

4 tell the guy you are late for an appt at the health clinic to keep the raging case of herpes in check

5 Have Satanic Goatslayer deal with him
 
Damn that freaky...........you should be very scared as he sounds rather obsessive. Don't mess around if you touched you technically that's assault.......call the cops
 
I don't know how your laws are written, but in Canada if he laid hands on you, that is sexual assault. Sexual harassment is rules governing the work place or school. Call the cops, too many freaks out there.
 
Ok, but the thing is, he seems so polite. I really don’t know how to take this guy.

He has asked me if I was married, I said no (I should have said yes)….

I told my boyfriend about it when it was happening everyday, so he came and picked me up from work (how sweet) for a week or two, now it’s died off (I don’t see this guy as much)…. I don’t like to mention if I have seen him because my boyfriend will kill him or do something stupid, and I don’t want him to do that because this guy hasn’t really done anything to harm me, it’s really hard to explain people.

If I told my brother he would knock him out straight away (he beats a lot of people up), again I don’t want that to happen.

Thanks for the replies.
 
My sister is 20. She has a guy that use to fuck with her. He grabbed her ass in front of me and jammed his head into the side of a dodge ram dulley, then beat him with his booksack.

Violence should be legal in the case of sister and BF's in special circumstance.


DONT TREAT HIM AS HE'S INNOCENT< HE COULD BE A KILLER OR A NICE GUY

DONT TAKE THAT RISK PLEASE.
 
If he starts this shit up again I am going to tell him to leave me alone.

I hate it when he grabs my arm or puts his hand on my lower back. When he did do it, I pulled away and ignored him, everytime he did talk to me and shit, I wouldn’t hardly talk back, I thought I was being quite rude actually, but he just didn’t get the picture.

Argh he pisses me off bad.
 
Tell him to quit touching you! No offense, but what the fuck is wrong with you? You don't have to put up with that kind of crap.

Call him an asshole and tell him to fuck off. If he keeps bothering you, get the cops involved, not your bf or brother. I know that if some prick messed with my sister or gf, I'd probably end up going to jail for assault. Us guys don't always think to clearly when a female we care about is in peril. :)

Seriously, stand up for yourself. Chances are he'll go away if you tell him to.
 
Serial killers are usually described as nice and polite individuals. Osama Bin Laden actually LOOKS like a very kind man...looks dont mean shit sometimes.
 
the next time he tries to walk you home, you just start yelling 'rape' and he will more than likely never bug you again. scream it very loud.
 
Just so you now, almost all serial killers and serial rapists appeared to be the innocent type. The Boston strangler was really good at charming women, then getting them home and killing them. Same with Ted Bundy
 
If any foreigners harass you tell sheriff BOS and I will deport the immediately.
 
OH MY GOD!!!

I just saw him in the City, I ran like hell man, my friend and I ditched into a shop and I looked out the window and he was looking for me!!!!

Taps, I understand what you mean when you do say “WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU” I guess I am too soft on people….

Ok, you people have scared me enough saying that the innocent ones are serial killers.
 
Call him over to you real close and act like you are going to whisper some hot and dirty things in his ears. Then say I would like to......... At that moment knee him as hard as you can in his balls! When he lands on the ground kick him in the balls and stomp on his head!!:smash: Just in case if he tries to get up make sure you have some pepper spray, and spray it into his face. Then start screaming and get his ass arrested. He will then spend his nights as someones bitch in a jail cell!:horny:
 
Seriously, jsut walk up to him when you have some friends with you and tell him hes creeping you out and you'd appreciate it if he stayed away from you. If he shows up again you have a problem
 
He may be polite, but guess what. HE KNOWS YOU THINK THAT! That is the in. This guy has gotten the hint that you don't like him, but he won't stop because he is obsessed. Suck it up and tell him to fuck off because anything short of that will NOT STOP HIM! Even if your boyfriend kicks his ass he may try to get sympathy from you because you act like you don't want that to happen. My wife had this problem two times before we got married. She told the guys to fuck off and it worked. Intimidation from me stopped it temporarily, but they came back because it was me doing something, not her. Good luck.
 
Why dont you just invite him over for a nice quiet dinner with no
one there to bother you so you can really get to know eachother.
 
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NOPE......NOT SEXUAL HARRASMENT. JUST SOME DICKHEAD WHO DOESNT KNOW WHEN TO TAKE A HINT. TELL HIM TO FUCK OFF NEXT TIME AND HE WILL GET THE POINT. JUST GO BUY SOME MACE, OR PREFERABLE A GUN, FIRST. THEN TELL HIM.

KAYNE
 
Well Taps I will try to avoid him as much as possible and if he does approach me I will ignore him, and if he annoys me more I will tell him to leave me alone.

If he still doesn’t get the picture I will punch him.

Oh man, he seems sweet. argh!!!!!!!!! It's so hard to explain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
YEP, ITS PEPPER SPRAY. I DONT THINK MACE IS IN PRODUCTION ANYMORE. LAW ENFORCEMENT USED TO USE IT NOW THEY USE PEPPER SPRAY I THINK. MACE IS VERY SIMILAR ONLY STRONGER. I HAVE BEEN SPRAYED WITH BOTH. THEY BOTH SUCK!!!

KAYNE
 
DONT JUST IGNORE HIM. TRY TELLING HIM IN A NICE WAY AT FIRST THAT YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED. IF HE DOESNT GET THE HINT TELL HIM TO SUCK YOUR ASS AND LEAVE YOU THE HELL ALONE.

KAYNE
 
IF I WERE A LADY, YOU WOULD BE MORE OF A LADY THAN ME. I WOULD KEEP A GUN IN MY PURSE (I CARRY ONE SOMETIMES AS A MALE, HEHE) AND SHOOT HIS ASS IF HE DIDNT LEARN A LESSON AFTER THE FIRST TIME. EITHER THAT OR I WOULD DROWN HIM IN PEPPER SPRAY.

KAYNE
 
KAYNE

YOU live in America, there are 10000000000 times more crazy fuckers there than in Australia. I do not know one person who carries a gun in their purse HEHEHE.

Did you know, I have NEVER actually seen a gun before, or touched one!!!! Only seen the end of a gun sticking out of a policeman’s gun holder.


HEHE your funny dude.
 
DAMN GIRL.....YOU'VE NVR SEEN A GUN BEFORE!!! TELL YOU WHAT. I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD BE ASKING YOU THIS BUT, CAN I GIVE YOU A LIFT HOME AND I'LL SHOW YOU MY GUN. I'LL EVEN LET YOU SHOOT IT. LOL JK

REALLY, GUNS ARE A WAY OF LIFE AROUND HERE. PEOPLE LIKE RYANH ARE TRYING TO SPEARHEAD MOVEMENTS REMOVING GUNS FROM OUR STREETS. WHAT A LEMON DROP!!! GUNS HAVE BEEN AROUND SINCE, WELL FOR A WHILE!!!

AND REMEMBER GRASSHOPPER......GUNS DONT KILL PEOPLE. PEOPLE KILL PEOPLE!!!

KAYNE
 
KAYNE

TRUE as never actually seen a gun before, mauahahahahah.

HEY, I always get called grasshopper man HAHA.

Can you like buy tiny guns, cuz I have a small bag ahah.
 
WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, I HAD ONE SMALLER THAN YOUR HAND. NOW THE ONES I HAVE ARE BIGGER. I ALSO HAVE A COUPLE RIFLE'S AND SHOTGUNS (HUNTING GUNS)!!!

KAYNE
 
You need to put this foo in his place girl. Tell him to leave you alone and to get away from you. This is scary stupid shit. If you need to call the police to help you get rid of him. For real.
 
he will stalk you...in his mind your playng hard to get

as yu dont even know him and he put his hands on you id be freaked out!

dont hit him as he might get violent.

call the po-lice :fro:
 
SeXKiTTen_CanDy said:


How old are you
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Wouldn't that have been freaky if he had said:

"Why I'm, ...39!!!!! Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha! (Fading Diabolical Laugh)

Seriously SKC, sounds to me like this guy is just trying to "rap" to you and doesn't realize that he doesn't stand a chance. The age difference is probably not nearly as shocking to him as it is to you. If you said to him straight up and in the presence of your friend that you are not interested and don't want him walking you I think he will be plenty embarrased and leave you alone for ever.
 
Just tell him you'll give him a blow job if he promises to leave you alone afterwards.
 
As an older guy I would say TTLPKG is correct in his assesment of the situation. If you acknowledged his presence and responded to his conversation in the past he feels he could have a shot with you.

If you find his actions creepy or offensive tell him, hes not 20 he can probably take a hint.
 
Tell him you think it's creepy and you don't want to talk to him anymore. If he's a nice guy he will understand. Hell, he already KNOWS it's creepy... "I know I shouldn't be asking you this, but can I drive you home??"

YUCK. Don't feel bad. If he's really a nice guy, you'll be doing him a favor letting him know his behavior is gross. If he doesn't realize it, he may do it to an even younger girl next time whose daddy is chief of police and she screams ASSAULT when he tries to talk to her and he's put in jail, life wrecked, the whole deal.

Anyway, I would have told him to fuck off from the start. I don't talk to strangers :D
 
Be careful Candy. Don't let him find out where you live under any circumstances! As the other bigguns7 stated there was no nicer, charming and intelligent man than Ted Bundy. Tell this guy that you have a boyfriend. If he continues to make overtures to you, then you have a problem.
 
This guy has no doubt found your weakness. You stated yourself that you are to polite. Fucks like him don't see it as being polite but being weak. The diff-with woman that get abused/raped or whatever really never see it coming. You do. Do something about it now. You do not want this guy in your life Period. You are the only one that can take charge of YOUR life and rid yourself of this fool. Next time he comes up to you, tell him that he makes you uncomfortable and that you do not need anymore friends in your life. That is all you say. If he tries to keep talking to you. Raise your voice and just simply say LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE! Then walk away. That should be the end of it. There is no reason for you to be nice to this guy. It is really pretty simple. Expect anyone that you do not know to be violent! When you think this way, you will not ever put yourself in the position that you are in now.

You put yourself in this position--Now get yourself out before it gets really scary. And stop talking to strangers---That is what they are strange, and you do not need them in your life so don't let them in.
 
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