OK, I'm going to try and help you out here CB with some constructive criticism. Please sit at the front of the class, chewing gum in the bin, stop rocking on your chair and pay attention.
The main problem I see and the reason why you attract so much shit from other posters is your thread topics and posting style. The key is quality not quantity. Contrary to common belief, there are no prizes for starting the highest amount of pointless threads. Basically your threads/posts lack substance and purpose, granted so do a lot of other posters but you’re way out in the lead bud. Rather than asking a question that can be answered with a simple 'yes' or 'no', why don't you try structuring your question and following comments in such a way so that it encourages people to give a reason with their answer.
For example: Are any of you learning another language? "I'd like to learn Japanese or Spanish because I want to get me some hairy catholic Jap pussy. What languages would you like to learn and why?"
Unless you’re conducting a survey then giving a reason makes it more interesting and enjoyable for other people, gives more options for a response and adds a little character. Next time you go to press the submit message button, pause for a moment and think first if there’s a better way to ask that question or something else you could add to make it more interesting for other people.
Do you understand these points or would you like me to reiterate?