I'll just go down to SS office (have to get copies of the kids' cards) and play wifey and see if they give it to me. If not, then I can give our old accountant a ringey-dingey. No one can believe what an absolute scumbag my ex has been to us. The time to "be nice" is waaaaaaaaay over due. Now the motherfucker is going to have to pay some major dues.... but BIGTIME.
I wish I could be there when he tries to 'splain away how all of his kids refused to live with him any longer. Bastard went and bought an expensive computer game for the oldest but refuses to buy the younger ones winter coats. His exact words, "If your mother wants you so badly, then let HER buy them for you."