Is Oaktown wrong?

[theoak01]

man Div I think ya may be right brother,getting back with my ex has been a fucking rollercoaster,the first week was all honeymoon like,and now BAM back to her old jealous irrational bullshit.

here is the situation, I have this female friend,we dated for a bit while me and my ex were split,fucked whatever,I still wanna be her friend,nothing more, my ex flipped saying she cant trust me blah blah and that I cant see her intentionally or whatever.

now that dont fly with me,I told her right out,no compromise I will not drop a friend for any women because women come and go but friends are always there through the tough shit,which has been true.

am I wrong for not giving a shit about her insecurities?

 

[string_bean00]

SWV4Life!!!

 

[SoreArms]

SWV4Life!!!

bwahahahahaha!

pwn3d!!! bang! bang!

 

[hamstershaver]

she was your ex for a reason

 

[theoak01]

pwned nothing,I think Im doing the pwning here by laying down the law and not letting some women dictate my friends

 

[string_bean00]

Hey guys, my karmic power is about to increase.

 

[EnderJE]

SWV4Life!!!

I was thinking the same thing. We should make shirts and send them out.

 

[hamstershaver]

yay

 

[SoreArms]

man Div I think ya may be right brother,getting back with my ex has been a fucking rollercoaster,the first week was all honeymoon like,and now BAM back to her old jealous irrational bullshit.

here is the situation, I have this female friend,we dated for a bit while me and my ex were split,fucked whatever,I still wanna be her friend,nothing more, my ex flipped saying she cant trust me blah blah and that I cant see her intentionally or whatever.

now that dont fly with me,I told her right out,no compromise I will not drop a friend for any women because women come and go but friends are always there through the tough shit,which has been true.

am I wrong for not giving a shit about her insecurities?

well bud, if she told you she had a new friend whom she fucked while you guys were broken, how would you feel about them still hanging out. If you can honestly tell yourself that you would be cool with it, then I agree with you. If you know you can't, then I don't agree with you. Most likely you wouldn't be able to handle it, I know I wouldn't.

 

[hamstershaver]

well bud, if she told you she had a new friend whom she fucked while you guys were broken, how would you feel about them still hanging out. If you can honestly tell yourself that you would be cool with it, then I agree with you. If you know you can't, then I don't agree with you. Most likely you wouldn't be able to handle it, I know I wouldn't.

the plot thickens

 

[theoak01]

sorearms that is a situation that came up,but the guy is a douche and wants to fight me and shit and still fuck her,so no Im not cool with it.

otherwise I would have been

 

[EnderJE]

the plot thickens

"These are the SWV of our lives..."

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

SWV4Life!!!

pwnage 12/198i - Zula{Delta

 

[awittyusername]

Bro, I have said this to you many times but......YOU DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!

Lean to be by yourself. You are in college, you workout, and seem to be funny and smart. So, you have no trouble getting girls. I went to my HS reunion last weekend over half are divorced. They all said they never had a chance to be themselves,bc they had bf of gf all the time then married. Everyone of them would love to be your age again and ahve the oportunities you do. Good luck

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Bro, I have said this to you many times but......YOU DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!

Lean to be by yourself. They all said they never had a chance to be themselves,bc they had bf of gf all the time then married. Everyone of them would love to be your age again and ahve the oportunities you do.

 

[theoak01]

Bro, I have said this to you many times but......YOU DONT NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!

Lean to be by yourself. You are in college, you workout, and seem to be funny and smart. So, you have no trouble getting girls. I went to my HS reunion last weekend over half are divorced. They all said they never had a chance to be themselves,bc they had bf of gf all the time then married. Everyone of them would love to be your age again and ahve the oportunities you do. Good luck

Im starting to think your right,but for now the ball is in her court,if she cant handle it she will end it,not me,because like I said I wont choose

 

[jackangel]

yes, you're wrong.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Give into her every desire! Drop the friend! Drop all your friends!



Oh wait, was that out loud?

 

[theoak01]

Give into her every desire! Drop the friend! Drop all your friends!



Oh wait, was that out loud?

lol no fucking way man,thats crazy,Ive had friends who do that and then come crawling back wanting to hang out and a shoulder to cry on once the bitch leaves, I wont be that guy

 

[SoreArms]

Just send gay k messages to killahbee, he seems to be into that. You guys would make a good couple too. He would like scream and bitch at you the entire time about crap you do that he doesn't like and you're an SWV so you'll just take it. Perfect match.

 

[alien amp pharm]

lol no fucking way man,thats crazy,Ive had friends who do that and then come crawling back wanting to hang out and a shoulder to cry on once the bitch leaves, I wont be that guy

I say you keep the friend, get rid of the ex, then find a new girl to date or simply hang out and enjoy the college life.

 

[bluepeter]

Stay single and play the field. Go out and enjoy life without being tied down with the whims of a SO. It's bullshit man. You have plenty of time before you need to think about 'settling down' if you ever do. Girlfriends aren't worth shit. You have to work at everything and what do you get in return? Mostly giving up everything you like. Sure, you get some pussy (unless you're aap) but you can get that whenever you like most of the time.

Tell her to take a walk.

 

[theoak01]

I say you keep the friend, get rid of the ex, then find a new girl to date or simply hang out and enjoy the college life.

Im thinking this two,espcially because she needs time to think about it,I mean either she loves me enough to accept it,or she dont,its that simple

 

[sigweed]

if i got back together with my ex who in the mean time was nailing some guy... yea i can't say i'd be inviting him over to hang out or anything either

 

[theoak01]

my girl basically told me its not even me hanging out with this girl,its the way I was with her when I was fucking her,ie bullshitting to go out to see her and how I crashed at her place,but dont let her crash here like I did with the friend.

so basically its just her insecurities,I told her she is childish and she dropped it,so we will see what happens