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GrandMaster
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yes u can be in love and want to fuck the brians outta some nex chick.
your heart and cawk point in 2 different directions mang!
your heart and cawk point in 2 different directions mang!
GrandMaster
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hmm.. i've wanted to fuck another girl, while i was in love with my ex
but we always had good sex often, and i never cared about other chicks. but thats just me.
i guess it COULD go both ways depending on the person.
but we always had good sex often, and i never cared about other chicks. but thats just me.
i guess it COULD go both ways depending on the person.
jd_uk said:
That would be like saying a priest or nun are destined for damnation if they thought about sex, I'm sure they do, and I'm sure they can't help those thoughts from crossing into their minds. It's natural human behavior, I wouldn't overthink it.
This actually gives me a good question to pose.....
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bro it's perfectly natural no matter HOW much you are in love with this girl to think another girl is at least attractive. As long as you just think shes hot and want to fuck her and don't actually TRY to get with this chick then it is ok.
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jd_uk said:
oh sorry, i shouldn't have assumed it was since you didn't say so. Nevertheless, i'd tell them it was OK as long as they did not long to be with this new super hot person instead of the person they are in love with. If they simply think this other person is a hottie that's nothing, if they want to BE with this hottie, etc. then it becomes a problem
jd_uk
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1_more_rep said:oh sorry, i shouldn't have assumed it was since you didn't say so. Nevertheless, i'd tell them it was OK as long as they did not long to be with this new super hot person instead of the person they are in love with. If they simply think this other person is a hottie that's nothing, if they want to BE with this hottie, etc. then it becomes a problem
No worries bro.
Define love. Do you mean "want to be with this person for the rest of my life" kind of love?
I am not sure. Can you TRUELY love someone and still do things that hurt them (such as fucking others)? If you are okay with hurting them and betraying them - is that true love?
I am not sure. Can you TRUELY love someone and still do things that hurt them (such as fucking others)? If you are okay with hurting them and betraying them - is that true love?
Okay then. Personally, I could not love someone and commit myself to them while fucking someone else. Maybe it is because I am female, maybe it is because of some other reason.
I can love many people - but not in the sense of marriage-love, i.e., spend the rest of my life with them. And love does not equal sex by any means.
There is nothing wrong with finding others attractive, even fantasizing about them - but to actually act on that? No way. I have too much love and respect for my husband to do that.
I can love many people - but not in the sense of marriage-love, i.e., spend the rest of my life with them. And love does not equal sex by any means.
There is nothing wrong with finding others attractive, even fantasizing about them - but to actually act on that? No way. I have too much love and respect for my husband to do that.
jd_uk
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Daisy_Girl said:
The thread isn't about cheating or fucking someone else while being in love, it's about being sexually attarcted to someone else while being in love, or even very attracted to someone else.
I guess that's a 'yes it's ok' from you? One of the reasons i'm asking is i often hear women saying taht if they truly love their partner the they won't even think about someone else.
I think it is only natural to think others are attractive - but actually BEING ATTRACTED to them implies that you want to be with them (even just sex), in my opinion. A fantasy is simply, that - a daydream. If I can actually SEE myself with this person, then that is different, I am not sure if that is the case I could really be in love with my partner.
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Daisy_Girl said:
I guess i differ to you in that if i say i'm attracted to someone it just means i find them attarctive and can imagine fucking their brains out. If i were to fantasize about that then i am imagining myself being with them.
One more question if you don't mind answering it of course...if you were to fantasize about somebody else while with someone you loved....would you feel guilty and would they be upset if they new?
Thanks for your opinion. Guys/Girls keep them coming please.
Tough question. If asked, I would not lie. But voluntering, no I wouldn't. But I don't fantasize about REAL people - they are usually made up or celebrities. 
People I would never meet.
I bet my husband fantasizes about other women, I think it is natural. While I am not THRILLED about that thought, I am not angry or jealous.
People I would never meet.I bet my husband fantasizes about other women, I think it is natural. While I am not THRILLED about that thought, I am not angry or jealous.
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