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rudeboyja

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Any of y'all notice good looking women are often insecure?

I known this girl for like 3 months now & she has an unbelievable body. I'm talking to on the phone last night & tell her I'll be right back. I come back and I guess she can hear that I'm eating & she ask me what I'm eating. I jokingly tell her to rub her hands up and down her ass and that's what I'm eatig. She playfully giggles. So about two minutes later I tell her I am finished eating my cottage cheese & then she gets the joke (OK it was a bad joke). She almost starts crying and hangs up.

It is obvious to anyone who's ever seen this woman that she has a near perfect ass & legs. To me this was like calling a big person shorty because it was the exact opposite. So she calls me back about an hour later saying she overreacted & then tells me how years ago she used to have a eating disorder & she is very insecure about her body. I'm done trying to figure women out.....
 
dude... don't mess with women's perception of their bodies... they do that alone and need no help from you... even if it was playing, they will most likely than not, get it wrong
 
Yes... get em by their weakness... control is sweet :evil:

Seriously, you should apolagise and tell her the opposite is true.

and give her some good loving to make up
 
smooth as sandpaper, maing.

while I am 100% for exploiting a hot chick's typical insecurities, the cottage cheese route was just not good. The goal should be to bury them further into their issues so as to give you even more power and control, but without making them despise you for being a complete douche rocket.
 
KillahBee said:
smooth as sandpaper, maing.

while I am 100% for exploiting a hot chick's typical insecurities, the cottage cheese route was just not good. The goal should be to bury them further into their issues so as to give you even more power and control, but without making them despise you for being a complete douche rocket.

DAMN IT KILLAH isf yesterday was not the best day the douche-filled US OPEN has not seen in many a years!!! what matches!!!
 
pintoca said:
DAMN IT KILLAH isf yesterday was not the best day the douche-filled US OPEN has not seen in many a years!!! what matches!!!


it was pretty damn amazing. it sucks that the Ginepri match was at the ass-end of the first session, cause it was a CLASSIC
 
KillahBee said:
smooth as sandpaper, maing.

while I am 100% for exploiting a hot chick's typical insecurities, the cottage cheese route was just not good. The goal should be to bury them further into their issues so as to give you even more power and control, but without making them despise you for being a complete douche rocket.


It was a sarcastic comment that went bad. She's like 5'5 and 115 pounds with a near perfect figure. Wasn't a big deal after I talked to her again. Just strange how someone like her can have a complex..
 
rudeboyja said:
It was a sarcastic comment that went bad. She's like 5'5 and 115 pounds with a near perfect figure. Wasn't a big deal after I talked to her again. Just strange how someone like her can have a complex..


I'd say about 99.9% of chicks, hot or not (but especially hot) have complexes. Most regarding attention and daddy. It's pretty fucking terrible.
 
rudeboyja said:
It was a sarcastic comment that went bad. She's like 5'5 and 115 pounds with a near perfect figure. Wasn't a big deal after I talked to her again. Just strange how someone like her can have a complex..

you'd be amazed at the demons each person has inside
 
pintoca said:
you'd be amazed at the demons each person has inside

I have always been very resilient to insults or critiques but lately I´ve found comments implying I´m stupid to actually get to me. Just because since I went to uni this year im finally surrounded by mostly relative intellectual equals and a few superiors and i fucked up my last exam period its the first time im not always convinced anymore that I am teh genius. That´s a big bubble to burst.
 
rudeboyja said:
Any of y'all notice good looking women are often insecure?

I known this girl for like 3 months now & she has an unbelievable body. I'm talking to on the phone last night & tell her I'll be right back. I come back and I guess she can hear that I'm eating & she ask me what I'm eating. I jokingly tell her to rub her hands up and down her ass and that's what I'm eatig. She playfully giggles. So about two minutes later I tell her I am finished eating my cottage cheese & then she gets the joke (OK it was a bad joke). She almost starts crying and hangs up.

It is obvious to anyone who's ever seen this woman that she has a near perfect ass & legs. To me this was like calling a big person shorty because it was the exact opposite. So she calls me back about an hour later saying she overreacted & then tells me how years ago she used to have a eating disorder & she is very insecure about her body. I'm done trying to figure women out.....



yea, it doesn matter how hot they are, you never kid about their body or looks. not even the clothing. you have to be subtle about that. but from wha ti noticed is most woman are very insecure about themselves. positive reinforcement bro, works like a charm
 
I'm most certainly my own biggest critic. I think that's true for all of us. But ultimately there's nothing anyone can say or do can change my perceptions of myself for the better or worse.
 
show me a person on this board without body image issues

im still having nightmares about that cute girl in the club that was following me through the crowd, and she playfully put her hands under my shirt right on my little fat blobs :worried: ...and this was 6 months ago!
 
GoldenDelicious said:
show me a person on this board without body image issues

That is VERY true. My little sister recently started posting on a fitness board and she keeps saying that she's floored that so many men who take great care of their bodies and look great are so insanely self critical and insecure.
 
The reason why women you percieve as hot are a little more insecure is because often those r the ones that more ppl r looking at..

When a lot of people think a women is hot, pretty or good looking they r put under a microscope.. and when one thing is outta place, they gain a few pounds.. they r jumped on...

It's harder to keep up the image of what ppl percieve as perception than it is to be average..

Just my view
 
bigmann245 said:
yea, it doesn matter how hot they are, you never kid about their body or looks. not even the clothing. you have to be subtle about that. but from wha ti noticed is most woman are very insecure about themselves. positive reinforcement bro, works like a charm



Good point.....you guys wouldn't want us pulling down your pants and giggling and saying awwww look at the cute little thing! :evil:
 
Raina said:
That is VERY true. My little sister recently started posting on a fitness board and she keeps saying that she's floored that so many men who take great care of their bodies and look great are so insanely self critical and insecure.



yes i forgot to say that it does go both ways. men and woman have a lot of insecurity issues. myself included. i wont lie, that is what is keeping me from posting my pic.
 
Gymgurl said:
Or saying...wow thats it?


are you implying that i have a small........? oh great now i have to go and hide.. :sulk:

and further more i am leaving ef to take care of some issues..... lol
 
It's kind of like a really smart guy competing in a competition of wit.. when it comes to beauty to a hot chick.. she always feels like she is at the scrutinty of others.. it's true for everyone.. but for a girl who alot of ppl think is pretty.. it's worse.. ppl are always looking for flaws...

When there is soemthing wrong.. it's pointed out a bit more
 
I think being a hot chick would def. have it's disadvantages if you weren't strong willed and independent-of-mind. Having everything revolve around your looks would get old and wrinkly after a while.
 
hanselthecaretaker said:
I think being a hot chick would def. have it's disadvantages if you weren't strong willed and independent-of-mind. Having everything revolve around your looks would get old and wrinkly after a while.
Just look at how fucked in the head Marilyn Monroe, Brigitte Bardot, actually pretty much every sex symbol is and was.
 
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