I'm not one for drama but fuck..

[avidinternet]

she said she can't see herself with someone w/ my schedule.. I work 7am - 6pm. A LOT of overtime and on call every other weekend.

I guess I'd rather have it happen now than 3 years down the road. We weren't planning on getting married til she finished grad school (6months to almost a year maybe)

Yeah but she probably likes the money dosen't she...

What does she think the stuff falls off of trees?

I hate women who bitch when a man works, it Bullshit.

 

[jh1]

She's cheating on you.

 

[the_clockwork]

Yeah but she probably likes the money dosen't she...

What does she think the stuff falls off of trees?

I hate women who bitch when a man works, it Bullshit.

well I'm not going to hold grudges. It'll be hard but it's her life and if she doesn't see me in it I'm glad she ended it now. just wish she'd have done it before I invested all this money for a new house and the wedding.. oh well it's just money

 

[javaguru]

she said she can't see herself with someone w/ my schedule.. I work 7am - 6pm. A LOT of overtime and on call every other weekend.

I guess I'd rather have it happen now than 3 years down the road. We weren't planning on getting married til she finished grad school (6months to almost a year maybe)

My honest opinion, it's a bs reason for her to end it, not the real reason(grass is greener being my honest opinion). Let it go and move on. Don't have any contact with her and live your life. People who are committed to a relationship fight for it and don't make up BS excuses. My parents were together for 35 years and they had a lot of issues to overcome. You're young and will overcome. Good luck bor.

 

[Tony_Ducks]

she said she can't see herself with someone w/ my schedule.. I work 7am - 6pm. A LOT of overtime and on call every other weekend.

I guess I'd rather have it happen now than 3 years down the road. We weren't planning on getting married til she finished grad school (6months to almost a year maybe)

I'm Not Having It.
That's just an excuse
On the flipside, my woman dumps me all the time, kinda like a running joke like me saying "that's the last time I'll drink I swear!"
We just chuckle about it now, we'll never split

 

[the_clockwork]

She's cheating on you.

prolly but I make more money than her.. she should have married me and taken half of what i had!

 

[EnderJE]

My honest opinion, it's a bs reason for her to end it, not the real reason(grass is greener being my honest opinion). Let it go and move on. Don't have any contact with her and live your life. People who are committed to a relationship fight for it and don't make up BS excuses. My parents were together for 35 years and they had a lot of issues to overcome. You're young and will overcome. Good luck bor.

True dat. I worked those hours when my wife and I first started our marriage and when we had our first son.

Sorry to hear about the event, Clock. But, it's good that you're taking it alot better now.

 

[the_clockwork]

True dat. I worked those hours when my wife and I first started our marriage and when we had our first son.

Sorry to hear about the event, Clock. But, it's good that you're taking it alot better now.

I'm not taking it better.. I'm sick to my stomach still.. luckily a lot of my family is in town for easter and staying here so I hung out w/ some cousins I haven't seen in forever and it helped me relax some

 

[javaguru]

I'm not taking it better.. I'm sick to my stomach still.. luckily a lot of my family is in town for easter and staying here so I hung out w/ some cousins I haven't seen in forever and it helped me relax some

I feel for you, the anxiety and feelings of betrayal. It's something you just have to fight through. Time won't heal the wounds but they won't be as painful as you build up scar tissue.

 

[the_clockwork]

I'm just glad she did it on a friday after work.. gotta have my head on by monday !