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I'm having trouble letting go...

doubles1

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guys ive discussed this with ya before and i know some of ya know i just moved to tampa till christmas time....but im really having a hard time letting go of the girl i was dating...it makes me sick to my stomach...shes the first thing i think about when i wake up and whenever i have free time...it really sux....whats harder is that im new to the area so its not like i have friends to just go and hang out with...ive only been here since the 20th and im here till december 14th....thanks for any help and listening to my constant issue.....



doubles...
 
doubles1 said:
guys ive discussed this with ya before and i know some of ya know i just moved to tampa till christmas time....but im really having a hard time letting go of the girl i was dating...it makes me sick to my stomach...shes the first thing i think about when i wake up and whenever i have free time...it really sux....whats harder is that im new to the area so its not like i have friends to just go and hang out with...ive only been here since the 20th and im here till december 14th....thanks for any help and listening to my constant issue.....



doubles...
There's lotsa folks on this board from Tampa man , why dont ya hook it up thru a few PMs and stuff? Good luck whatever , i know that feelin only 2 well. If ya really miss her that bad , then just fly on out.
 
That is only normal, bro. Meet someone at school and go out! Florida is a great place. Where are you going to school and is that you in your avatar?

PS: Karma is always welcome and returned!
 
2Thick said:
If she has that much power over you, you are much better off being as far away as possible.

It is dangerous to be with someone that takes control of your emotions like that.


Yep. Why don't you come over and I will give you a good ass trouncing to take your mind off her.
 
i go to school at USF....and no thats not me in my avatar...i am a big boy tho... 6'3 230 8%bf...

she tkaes my emotions because i am attached to her...its not necessarily a bad thing...the relationship was just getting great and then i left....i was dating her for 3 weeks...we moved along as fast as possible and boom i had to leave....its the first time ive ever felt like this for a girll....maybe thats my problem...


doubles.
 
"Absence is to love as wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small and kindles the great."

...take solace in the fact that you have something to go back to.
 
i would take solace but how do i know shes going to be there when i go back....she might get a job and relocate is a possiblity...or what if she finds someone else??? the reason i feel bad is cuz i had to stop something and leave when we both were falling in love with eachother and know i may have blown that chance....
 
hey brotha, i know how ya feel, it hurts letting go if your still atached, i guess love is tough most of the time, what ya need to do is put away everything you have that reminds you of her, put it in a box and put it away fro a long time, or better yet, burn it. I know this sounds harsh, but you have to make your self realize that if theres no chance your going back ITS OVER. im not being mean but ive spent a lot of time in this situation and im still going through it, the less you have to remind you of her the better off you will be, sometimes its hard because when your in love you cant really see past that, all you see is love, but if you can take a step back from it all for a while and just take a break you will start to think a little diffrently about it, almost like just a friend moving away and eventually you will move on. as a friend once told me, when you love your dog and he dies you dont stop loving him, but usually you get a new dog, and you start to love that dog, eventually your love will all be invested into your new dog and you will remember the good times you had with your old dog but they wont be as painful. it was somthing like that anyways, i was high at the time haha but it sounded good. anyways, as much as it might hurt you have to put your self out there and keep looking. you just have to know all things happen for a reason, and there is always somthing better down the road, you just have to take get out there and take a chance or you might just miss it, i promise you. take care buddy, spare time is your worst enemy.
 
give it time. if it's meant to be it will be. call her or email her, both are pretty much free if you have a cell phone or a computer
 
Devastation said:
give it time. if it's meant to be it will be. call her or email her, both are pretty much free if you have a cell phone or a computer
no it wont, not as long as they are apart, do not give hope to an unworkable situation, it will just lead to more heart break, you need to let go unless you planning on living in the same town again, sorry brotha its the truth
 
temptestthanks for your thoughts maybe you were "too high" jk but i am moving back be4 christmas im only on an exchange and will be back in Mass after the semester...


BonerBoy about the 3 weeks...i know what you might be thinkgin but this is soo much different....we spent every second together she stayed at my house for a week str8 be4 i left we had a connection i cried when i had to leave to drive down here and that has never happened to me and was odd for that to happen to me because i've never felt like that....i just want everything to be the same when i move back in december... : (


doubles.1.
 
superdave said:


Well, slap my ass and call me Sally......tempest actually gave out some good advice.
Now if you only thought rationally with your own relationships you would be sittin' pretty bruh.
=P things are easier said than done! i think i should be a councilor when i gro up, i like helping people, well especially when its someone i care about, but oh well, i just cant do ths stuff my self
 
tempest2003 said:
no it wont, not as long as they are apart, do not give hope to an unworkable situation, it will just lead to more heart break, you need to let go unless you planning on living in the same town again, sorry brotha its the truth

Well, slap my ass and call me Sally......tempest actually gave out some good advice.
Now if you only thought rationally with your own relationships you would be sittin' pretty bruh.
 
Bro you're only there until December??? What are you worrying about then??

It's only a temporary thing! You aren't away from each other for that long, only a few months. You guys had something good going, then you had to part for a little while, but eventually you will move back! Nothing wrong with that!

Just keep in touch via email, chat online and talk on the phone! Maybe she can visit you once and maybe you can squeeze in a visit as well. The next thing you know you will see her again in no time. Don't sweat it. It's not like you are there permanently.
 
Not to make you feel bad but I know a girl who has a boyfriend from school down in Florida. She was home for 3 months in NY for the summer while he was down there. I know for a fact she slept with atleast 5 guys during her summer away from him.

Fuck Dirty Whores are the Worst my Man. I hope to the Heavens that your girl isn't like one of those trashy sluts.
 
Stop thinking so much and go out and hook up with some other girls. It will help take your mind off of her.
 
I know its tough...let her go.....if its right you will find yourseves together down the road...love can be fickle...most of the time anyway...but once in a blue moon, it will come back to you.....when it does...dont ever let it go again
 
Mine is on her way to the other side of the world right now...:(

B True
 
ya i totally agree with what you guys are saying....shes not the type that will go out and sleep with dudes and im positive of that....however shes so self concisous and not confident in herself....that we havent really talked that much while ive been down here...shes always very busy and seems to not wanna talk as much because she knows she can't see me....its kinda weird actually...i dont know if shes worried that i'll be hooking up with other girls cuz im at a new college and girls are attracted to me or what not.....but shes at home and has already graduated so shes doing her thing...


lemme know whatchall think and thanks for the good thoughts..



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