I'm gonna beat my best friend's ass...

[Big Brother Val]

It's BBV here with yet another post about interfering in people's lives.

Here's the short of it:

My best friend's wife wants to sleep with me.

And no... it'll never happen.

Anyway... that has NOTHING to do with them fighting, because he has no idea what she's told me. Anyway... they're fighting REALLY bad right now... as I write this... She's punching him... he's got her pressed against the wall by her neck.

All while their kids are in the same room.

Now... I'm going to call the cops, and have them go out there.

But... do I beat his ass too?

Do I drop him?

He's my tag team partner.

And we have a show on Friday.

This is making things odd. I am so hurt for their children, who I love very much. But I'm afraid when I call the cops, their children will be taken... I don't know what to do.

Or his wife will be arrested... because she was punching him, and scratchin' the shit out of him.

All I want is one of them to leave. So the kids can get out of the situation.

I really don't know what to do.

This is breaking my heart.

 

[Crazier]

Nuttin' I ain't ever done before.


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[TEXgrl]

this is a bad situation. you should definitely talk to him and let him know knocking her around isn't right or effective. it is traumatizing the children as well. you should encourage him to walk away when she starts to get physical. he needs to remember the only person he can control in that situation is himself and the best bet is to remove himself and give things a chance to cool down. he should also sit down with her when things are calm and they need to agree that when things start to get out of hand, one of them should be able to walk away.

i hope that you have told her in no uncertain terms that this thing with you and her is never going to happen. is it possible she is wanting to use you to get back at him? i would keep my distance from her for sure, and if she still pursues i would tell him.

i would call the police and let them know what is going on. someone is going to get hurt if you don't. you don't have to tell him you are the one who called. for all he knows, it could be a neighbor.

 

[gymtime]

Beating his ass will make your situation worse, not better. Best you just be available to both of them as a friend. But stay as far away from it as you can. If the kids are in physical danger, that's one thing. But beyond that, to be blunt, know your role. This is their problem.

 

[danielson]

is he doing that in an attempt to defend himself? or is he doing it in attack and she is defending herself?

either way speak to him about it, try and make him see sense that his children are seeing this everyday and its not good and see if he would be qilling to go to councelling and maybe see if you/a mutual friend can get the woman to go with him

if it doesnt work maybe you should call the cops before somthing really nasty happens
as for hitting him/dropping him from the team dont do it, it may push him off the edge.

 

[Crazier]

Beating his ass will make your situation worse, not better.

PUSSY!!!
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[gymtime]

PUSSY!!!
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One of these days Alice........

 

[Crazier]

One of these days Alice........

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[THeMaCHinE]

You have to do what is right for the children. When there is physical violence, there is no question that they are in danger -- whether it is directed towards them or not. I know it sucks, but say you didn't call, something went wrong, he or she grabs a gun or knife a table, chair or whatever, and ends up accidentally injuring/killing one of the kids.

Joining in the fight will only make it tougher for the kids if they know you well -- you must be the rock for them to cling to as their whole life is being turned upside down. Provide them refuge and sanity to the best of your ability.

 

[Big Brother Val]

I called the cops.

They should be there now.

He finally let his wife go... she called me, she was hysterical... saying he was going to kill himself.

He got online, and told me that he loved me, and that he had enough of life... and signed off.

I don't know what's happening right now.

I feel sick.