HANSEL said:I think looks are a factor sure. But am I the only one that finds a stupid women totally un-attractive?
I dont want to hookup with someone that I am going to have to take care of, make all the decisions, etc. what a headache. I want an intellectual match as much as I want someone I am attracted to.
totally agreed.
For me: looks, personality, intelligence, depth of character, and kindness are pretty big things I look for.
I'd rather have someone with a little of all of these, than to be severely lacking in one of them.