If your brother committed suicide.....

[Tinee Tim]

but first murdered his wife, could you bring yourself to attend the funeral.

A guy I work with, his brother did this.

Funerals are a place to celebrate one's life....how could that be possible after he did something like that?

 

[Y_lifter]

YES,
Obviously, he was mentally ill..
Up until he did this tragic act, was his life worth Honoring/Remembering ?
That would be the thing to consider

A co-worker's recently ex wife Killer herself but first she killed
their daughter.

He had a funeral for the Daughter locally and the wife's body was shipped out of state to her family.

Mental Illness like this is a tough one to understand.

 

[Tinee Tim]

I understand what you are saying...the mood would just be even more ackward then it already is at the funeral.


The situation you described would push me to the brink of madness if I was the father.