There is a relative amount of whether or not you are sexy that is imprented upon your general psyche by the popular / mass media in this country. You are conditioned from birth to think long, tall, thin blondes named heidi with breast implants are beautiful. If the mass media started promoting heather darling as the idea female form and BOS as the idea male form then the entire country would be a freakish nightmare according to today's standards but by the time anyone cared to question this it would be too late and the world would be domintated by toofless Alfred E. Newmans and She-Rah warriro chicks with five inch clits that also double as a tent during hunting season.