Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Okay, I just heard that one of my best friend's wife is cheating on him. They have been together for 5 years, married for only a few months and have a child and a house together. She has never been with anyone else, and has told me numerous times that she wishes she would have been. She also told me a year ago that if she could ever find someone to support her baby, she would leave him. She did not tell me about the cheating, however she has told 5 other people that work with us. The problem is that we all work in the same group... so this could get ugly. So, what do I do? I know it is not my place at all, but he is a really good friend of mine, and a wonderful person... and a few months ago, she made him stop talking to his best friend and work out partner (which is a girl) becase she was jealous. I was told to possibly create a bogus email account and let him know that way. I am thinking maybe I could just tell him to follow her when she goes out with this certain friend of hers (cover) or just show up at that friends house to find that she is not there. What would you do? Would you want to know if you were him? She is obviously telling people in the work place, so I think she wants to get caught.
if someone is cheating...
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the nature boy
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I like the bogus email idea. that's good.
that woman has some nerve, cheating on him then telling him to not talk to someone because she's JEALOUS?!!??!! send him the email... now!!
that woman has some nerve, cheating on him then telling him to not talk to someone because she's JEALOUS?!!??!! send him the email... now!!
naturally anabolic
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tell him and put one of those there choke holds on her while he punches her in the stomach 
DealsMorte
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Would have to agree that she has it coming. Is it his kid or a kid from another relationship? If its his kid then make sure you include that in the email. This lady really sounds like a bitch. And the bogus email idea is very good.
The Nature Boy said:
thanks... seriously tho.. he is one of your best friends but he does evidently worship the ground she walks on... like i said earlier just make sure you don't make a quick decision because it will have reprecussions. An anon e-mail telling him in not so many words might be the best choice.
PolishHammer1977
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PatsFan34 said:
I agree with Pats here. I had first hand experience of this. I was involved pretty heavy with a chic and she was doing her thing behind my back while I was in Europe. She was apparantly thinking I would never find out but my boys told me. Not in detail thankfully. We were all in the same circle of friends. It was the best thing my friends could have ever done. When I got back to the states she asked about marriage. I asked about her dirtyness? End of that chapter. lol
Sometimes you have to follow your heart to prevent someone from more unecessary heartache.
If your heart tells you to help, then help. Do what is best for yourself and if this includes helping your friend, go ahead. The world is round and the tides will always turn by the power of the moon. If this was happening to you, would you want your friend to tell you? What goes around comes around.
For real.
What a f*cking cunt...That whore deserves every bit of karmic retribution that could possibly be exacted upon her.I feel terrible for that poor guy,that type of shit always happens to nice guys who worship their women.
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Frackal
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HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex said:
No shit bro...how can anyone even feel positive about women when every other post made on here is "My wife of 6 years cheated on me and left in cold blood" "My gf is cheating on me" " My gf killed my mom" etc etc
PolishHammer1977
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vixenbabe said:
Me selective memory again. Wasn't it you who used the lava lamp to describe men? lol
Funny to see that it works both ways. Everything in general seems to. Just an observation and no more to it.
I hope you are right for this old boys sake.
vixenbabe
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PolishHammer1977 said:
LOL...You scare me .. ..Can't I get anything past you? lol Yes, I did have that in my sig...It was pure shock value for you gents.
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I wanna know how these "cheater's" sleep at night...Or...Look at themselves in a mirror? I know I'd NOT be able to do either if I disrespected my man, or myself, in this fashion.
Guess it's easier to cheat than to talk about the problems in the marriage OR at least TRY and fix 'em. Damn shame...
PolishHammer1977
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vixenbabe said:
You and my girlfriend say the same thing, in that respect. The one major fault in my personality is that I do not forget. lol. It can be good and can be real real bad. Just like anything else, you know.
Poor guy. I hope someone tells him before somehting else happens.
First off if you have no evidence but everything is "hear say" then don't do anything until the facts are there to support her cheating. No one has actually seen her blowing some other dude or fucking some other chick right? If the fact are there...then...TIT for TAT...she fucks some other dude, he fucks some other dame...they invite everyone over for dinner and have a swingers party...
Clarification: The baby is both of theirs and it just turned 2 this month. Sex for them slowed down a lot since she got prego, and since they got married, it pretty much completely stopped. I just found out about this today, but she has been cheating on him with this other guy for at least 4 months now. Also, just a little bit of history, before they got married, she also fooled around with his best friend after a small fight they had. He doesn't know this either, and the only reason I do is because this guy was my ex. Yeah, big time whore. His thing is that he is annoyed with the fact that the sex has stopped, and he knows how mean she is to him, and how he does everything for her... but in his head, he has a baby with her, and has been with her for 5 years so I know he loves her. And just for the record, the baby was an accident and the only reason they ended up getting married. They didn't even live together until she was like 6 months along. They just got married because it was the right thing to do. What I am thinking I am going to do, is wait a month to let everything cool down and see if this is still going on or if she has been caught. If everything is still happening and she is still bragging about it to other co-workers, I may drop him an email from an untracable account to tell him to just follow her next time she goes out with her little cover friend. That way I am not telling him she is doing anything, because I have not seen it with my own two eyes. And yes, he is one of my best friends and works right next to me so I am with him at least 9 hours a day.
PolishHammer1977
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This is a very sad story. I hear about these tragedies often. Everytime the same advice is given. Help if you can. These people should not be together and the poor kid is going to be stuck between.
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THeMaCHinE
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If this really is your best friend, then quit fucking around and tell him. Tell him you're not sure, so maybe it's nothing to worry about, but as your friend you didn't feel right not saying anything -- even if it doesn't turn out to be true.
Tell him everything you know. Who is saying what, with whom, etc... Sometimes being a friend means doing something that may not earn you a positive response for the sake of someone else. When you love somebody enough to put aside potential complications in your life for the sake of getting somebody on track and real with their situation, that's being a friend.
With a child involved, it is essential that he be given the chance to document proof of cheating, wife's character in case he gets into a custody battle. Hopefully, it will be a step towards getting them on the path to a good marriage; and yes, it can be done even in extreme situations.
How would you feel if you found out that your best friend knew you were being cheated on but didn't tell you? Pretty betrayed I bet. I know it's not easy, but don't you deep down think he needs to know. I think you do or you would never have posted this.
I'd feel like I needed a new group of friends if everybody, day-in/day-out, but me knew my wife was fucking somebody else and didn't tell me.
Good luck.
Tell him everything you know. Who is saying what, with whom, etc... Sometimes being a friend means doing something that may not earn you a positive response for the sake of someone else. When you love somebody enough to put aside potential complications in your life for the sake of getting somebody on track and real with their situation, that's being a friend.
With a child involved, it is essential that he be given the chance to document proof of cheating, wife's character in case he gets into a custody battle. Hopefully, it will be a step towards getting them on the path to a good marriage; and yes, it can be done even in extreme situations.
How would you feel if you found out that your best friend knew you were being cheated on but didn't tell you? Pretty betrayed I bet. I know it's not easy, but don't you deep down think he needs to know. I think you do or you would never have posted this.
I'd feel like I needed a new group of friends if everybody, day-in/day-out, but me knew my wife was fucking somebody else and didn't tell me.
Good luck.
Rockafella Skank
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THeMaCHinE said:
Betrayed not only by his wife, but by you, too. Times like these means that your buddy needs all the friends he can get. Do the right thing ... especially with a kid involved. El Machino knows. I know. Stand up and be a mensch.
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Let me ask you this:
If it was your best friend that was cheating on his/her spouse would you tell his/her spouse?
While, in my heart I believe that *themachine* has the best advice I also know that we don't always do the right thing even with the best intentions.
If it was your best friend that was cheating on his/her spouse would you tell his/her spouse?
While, in my heart I believe that *themachine* has the best advice I also know that we don't always do the right thing even with the best intentions.
satanic goatslayer
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Artificially inseminate her (get her drunk first, she sounds easy), then let her husband abort the baby with a baseball bat later on. He can rub the pulverized mess over her face while shouting, "You will eat your own baby, unfaithful cannibal!", which I would think would cause her at least some psychological trauma.
Then I would get the other kid tested for paternity.
Then I would get the other kid tested for paternity.
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Frackal
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Shoot her in the face.
supersizeme
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that was some funny shit, SG.
tell him immediately. whether it's from a bogus email address or from your own mouth, doesn't matter, just tell the poor guy.
tell him immediately. whether it's from a bogus email address or from your own mouth, doesn't matter, just tell the poor guy.
LOL,I was actually hoping SG would chime in with some evil diatribe to bestow upon this filthy slut...
All kidding aside,I agree with the above comments,if this guy is truly your best friend,you have to tell him.Think if the shoe was on the other foot and your man was making a complete fool out of you and everyone but you knew.You would be really upset that your friend knew what was going on and never told you,allowing the nauseting behavior to carry on even longer.Have mercy on him where his filthy whore of a wife won't(honesty).
All kidding aside,I agree with the above comments,if this guy is truly your best friend,you have to tell him.Think if the shoe was on the other foot and your man was making a complete fool out of you and everyone but you knew.You would be really upset that your friend knew what was going on and never told you,allowing the nauseting behavior to carry on even longer.Have mercy on him where his filthy whore of a wife won't(honesty).
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KAYNE
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YOU SHOULD KILL HIM SO HE DOESNT GET HIS HEART BROKEN. THEN YOU SHOULD KILL HER FOR BEING A HEARTLESS COLD BITCH (WHICH SEEMS TO BE THE NORM THESE DAYS WITH FEMALES).
KAYNE
KAYNE
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you are as guilty as the wife = guity by association. and since you are best friends with the victim, it is in your best interest to tell gim, regardless of consequence. this is a sensitive subject since there is a child involved, but better late than never, correct?
Newbie2building
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Satanic Goatslayer said:
still sexy as ever, huh SG?
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