if a guy spends $200 on a date-

[MsBeverlyHills]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

 

[sparky_d2]

Bj

 

[biteme]

That guy wouldn't be me. LOL

 

[pdaddy]

An O-ring tounge massage

 

[redguru]

None of the above if he doesn't gamble correctly...

 

[nycgirl]

I don't get the expect. No one should expect anything.

If you want to sleep with him, kiss him, give him a bj, or whatever, then do it. If not, thank him for a lovely time. Don't do it because he bought you dinner.

I don't get the if he spends $200, he should get a hug & no kiss. If he spends 1,000 does he get a threesome or something?

 

[Devastation]

depends on his personality and if he's a douchebag or not. if he was cool he shoulda at least got a handjob

 

[biteme]

I I don't get the if he spends $200, he should get a hug & no kiss. If he spends 1,000 does he get a threesome or something?

Absolutely. Haha. J/K

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

$2000 gets him a 3-some

 

[biteme]

Did he kiss your ass and act all phony? At our age, I think you should just act like you've known them for years. Even start an argument to see how it goes, get a sense of how carried away they get.

 

[nycgirl]

Absolutely. Haha. J/K

Is there a book out there about this? How does this work? Is there a scale system or something??

I've never heard of anything like this before. I just go with the flow.

 

[Dial_tone]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

3 or 4 but I wouldn't spend that kind of money unless I was already relatively assured we were at that point anyway. My name ain't MTSW.

 

[B0ARDIN087]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

what did u give him

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

what did u give him

like a real friendly kiss & a "i had a really great time"... i think im screwed for a 2nd date

 

[75th]

I don't get the expect. No one should expect anything.

If you want to sleep with him, kiss him, give him a bj, or whatever, then do it. If not, thank him for a lovely time. Don't do it because he bought you dinner.

I don't get the if he spends $200, he should get a hug & no kiss. If he spends 1,000 does he get a threesome or something?

Lack of common sense = owned!

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

3 or 4 but I wouldn't spend that kind of money unless I was already relatively assured we were at that point anyway.

My name ain't MTSW.

But mine is. Woo hoo and I am here to tell the truth.

And I gotta tell you, and tell it to you straight, gentlemen, the more money you spend on a date, the more likely she will spread her legs later in the evening.

That's just reality. I'm not here to get into the materialistc debate, because there is no debate.

 

[biteme]

like a real friendly kiss & a "i had a really great time"... i think im screwed for a 2nd date

Do you want to go out with him again?

 

[biteme]

But mine is. Woo hoo and I am here to tell the truth.

And I gotta tell you, and tell it to you straight, gentlemen, the more money you spend on a date, the more likely she will spread her legs later in the evening.

That's just reality. I'm not here to get into the materialistc debate, because there is no debate.

I don't think anyone's gonna dispute that.

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

Do you want to go out with him again?

not really.. but- he had a cool car..lol

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

I don't think anyone's gonna dispute that.

No dispute to be had. it is like looking to the daytime sky and saying "what Sun"?

You want to see her head hit the headboard? It's just money.

 

[biteme]

not really.. but- he had a cool car..lol

LMAO. Don't feel guilty. He took his chances.

 

[nycgirl]

Lack of common sense = owned!

Who me??

I don't have a set of rules/scale system when I go out on a date. I'm too old and I don't have the patience to keep track of all of that. I do what I want and feel regardless of the $$$ amount.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

not really.. but- he had a cool car..lol

amazingly, women care about this too.

Seems stupid and irrational? it is. It's the Y chromosome that produces rationality.

I had a Saturn. I got average amounts of sex. I have a few lexuses, I get a lot of sex.

So so stupid.

 

[biteme]

amazingly, women care about this too.

Seems stupid and irrational? it is. It's the Y chromosome that produces rationality.

I had a Saturn. I got average amounts of sex. I have a few lexuses, I get a lot of sex.

So so stupid.

From now on I'm going to rent a Lexus for all future dates. LOL

 

[75th]

Who me??

I don't have a set of rules/scale system when I go out on a date. I'm too old and I don't have the patience to keep track of all of that. I do what I want and feel regardless of the $$$ amount.

I meant that you had it, and those who didnt were ruined by your post.

Morals are always handy in life.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

From now on I'm going to rent a Lexus for all future dates. LOL

Bor,

I continue to be stunned. Oh, that's your car? yep.

Just don't leave any wet spots on the seat. save that shit for later.


Somewhere, disbelieving bors on this thread are like "but matt probably dates trashy chicks".

Nope.

These are mostly well educated women, converted instantly into tramps by a nice car / house / expensive date.

I said it. I meant it. I've proven it.

 

[75th]

Just don't leave any wet spots on the seat. save that shit for later.

Gross.

 

[biteme]

Bor,

I continue to be stunned. Oh, that's your car? yep.

Just don't leave any wet spots on the seat. save that shit for later.


Somewhere, disbelieving bors on this thread are like "but matt probably dates trashy chicks".

Nope.

These are mostly well educated women, converted instantly into tramps by a nice car / house / expensive date.

I said it. I meant it. I've proven it.

And I don't doubt it. I'm old enough to know.

 

[tiger88]

id egg your house then sleep with you and then give you HPV

love is the way i want it

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Gross.

true maybe gross but it happens.

I don't date that much now. Work is too much and it's kinda boring. But I actually got to the point of saying "If I speak in all movie lines tonight, will she still put out?"

And the answer:

yes

 

[75th]

true maybe gross but it happens.

I don't date that much now. Work is too much and it's kinda boring. But I actually got to the point of saying "If I speak in all movie lines tonight, will she still put out?"

And the answer:

yes

I use Napolean Dynamite speak to close deals Im working on.

"Its pretty much my favorite annuity. Its like life insurance and a security mixed."

 

[GoldenDelicious]

you give what you want to give when you want to give it, independant of money spent.

associating sexual favours with money spent just makes you a whore.

and, MTS, youre almost motivating me to work harder

almost

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I really really e-hate goldendelicious.

 

[Lestat]

$200.. at least a kiss.

< $20 - nothing
$20 -$50 - hug or kiss on check
$50-$100 kiss
$100-$200 makeout session with manual release
$200-$300 BJ
$300 - $500 - sex
$500+ anal

 

[nycgirl]

you give what you want to give when you want to give it, independant of money spent.
associating sexual favours with money spent just makes you a whore.

Exactly.

 

[bigmann245]

i believe that nothing should be expected on date no matter who pays. if the chemistry is there i believe in going with the moment. let things happen naturally. dont every push for something that might not be there. i never expect anything. at leased a hug and a thank you. but thats just me.

 

[HumorMe]

If not sex, how about clean his house or cut his grass.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

I really really e-hate goldendelicious.

lol what, you think that makes you special?

git to tha back of tha line, beeyotch

 

[pdaddy]

If not sex, how about clean his house or cut his grass.

http://www.acclaimimages.com/_gallery/_SM/0027-0506-0212-4122_SM.jpg

 

[HumorMe]

http://www.acclaimimages.com/_gallery/_SM/0027-0506-0212-4122_SM.jpg

Uhmm....no.

More like this

 

[pitbullstl]

No dispute to be had. it is like looking to the daytime sky and saying "what Sun"?

You want to see her head hit the headboard? It's just money.

lol.......there's plenty of room for dispute bor.....some slim shady ho's you be hanging with.

A woman of substance can't be bought. That's not to discount the ho gots to be a ho theory, cause there's plenty of that too. Just saying....

 

[Dial_tone]

like a real friendly kiss & a "i had a really great time"... i think im screwed for a 2nd date

He shouldn't expect much more than a kiss on a first date no matter what he spent. Wonder what he'll spend on the fourth....homeboy will be ready for some backdoor lovin on #3 with a2m on video by the 5th.

 

[HumorMe]

He shouldn't expect much more than a kiss on a first date no matter what he spent. Wonder what he'll spend on the fourth....homeboy will be ready for some backdoor lovin on #3 with a2m on video by the 5th.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I'm not here to get into the materialistc debate, because there is no debate.

Best quote ever!!!! I love it!!!!!! Tell it like it is brother. Tell it like it is!!!!!

 

[Whiskey]

you gave all that you wanted to give. that is all that matters.

Whiskey

 

[AristotleBC]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

If you didnt at least tongue his colon you should be banned

 

[Mach1]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

I spent 90 dollah on dinner for my girlfriend and I. I went home and made her give me sex. We've been together for nearly 9 years so i didn't really want any but made her give it to me whether she wanted it or not (she did) on principle

 

[mountain muscle]

It may be just me but aren't hookers cheaper than 1k?
Hell dinner is just dinner. Dessert comes with the meal not the girl.
If you want to jump him do it because you want to not because of what he spent.

 

[Lady Viking]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

5. none of the above

 

[Mavafanculo]

$200?

6) you get facial'ed and golden showered.

over $500, you star in a snuff film.


-

 

[Hiatussin]

It´s so much cheaper to get an actual whore. and you can pick them by looks right away.

50 bucks for an eastern european beauty (and i mean hot cute) to get a BJ and fuck.

Hell I´m a student living amongst student and even in my circles a decent date will run you more than 50 and half the time they won´t put out.

 

[SoKlueles]

dont put your body on a pay scale
but i would have shit if a guy spent 200 bucks on me and felt weird too
Only sleep with him if ur attracted to him
or if ur not and you like his car, do it in his car

 

[thelion2005]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

5. None of the above.

You don't owe him anything.
If you want to give, that is different.

If affection and sexual want is not developing, but the company is good ... take him out and foot the bill. 50/50 after that.

 

[Hiatussin]

All women are whores. Yes all. My mother too.

no exceptions. Except lesbo´s maybe. but they´re not really women

 

[rudeboyja]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

How about:
6. a thank you from the prostitute.
7. shot for spending $200 on a date.
8. Played by that woman & get no tail.

 

[mekannik]

$200.. at least a kiss.

< $20 - nothing
$20 -$50 - hug or kiss on check
$50-$100 kiss
$100-$200 makeout session with manual release
$200-$300 BJ
$300 - $500 - sex
$500+ anal

So do these numbers change depending on your location's cost of living index? I take it this is the San Diego index?

So (using homefair.com's calculators) my area is approximately 70% of San Diego.

< $14 - nothing
$14 - $35 hug or kiss on check
$35 - 70 kiss
$70-$140 makeout session with manual release
$140-$210 BJ
$210 - $350 - sex
$350+ anal


Much more affordable.

 

[covergrl80]

like a real friendly kiss & a "i had a really great time"... i think im screwed for a 2nd date

Then he was not worth it !!

 

[Raina]

If there's any expectation of anything nothing's going to happen. Things either happen or they don't and my affection doesn't have a price on it. If you want to spend $200 on me, spend it because you care about me and want us to do something fun. But I'd be just as happy ordering a pizza and watching a movie at home.

Not that I don't appreciate when people do nice things for me, but in the scheme of things my favorite memories from my life thus far never involved spending a lot of money or dressing up or anything. They're the little things. The little innocent moments.

 

[alien amp pharm]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

 

[Raina]

Tell her it's fine to wait aap and your patience with her will probably make her molest you sometime soon.

 

[Spanky11]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

you'll be her cuddle bitch in no time...jking

I'm just glad we don't have that dating culture over here

 

[alien amp pharm]

Tell her it's fine to wait aap and your patience with her will probably make her molest you sometime soon.

Yeah I am pretty irresistable huh. she'll break down and give in at some point.

On a serious note it's not like we are GF/BF so I will continue to date other girls and just go with the flow on this one and see what happens.

 

[alien amp pharm]

you'll be her cuddle bitch in no time...jking

I'm just glad we don't have that dating culture over here

Hell this girl may think cuddling is taboo.

She could just be using me for free dates.
I will pile-drive her onto a cluster of sharp jagged rocks if that turns out to be the case.

 

[HumorMe]

Hell this girl may think cuddling is taboo.

She could just be using me for free dates.
I will pile-drive her onto a cluster of sharp jagged rocks if that turns out to be the case.

Since we all know your luck with women, you better scope out your area for those rocks.

 

[hamstershaver]

she better give up the backdoor for 200 bucks

 

[Hiatussin]

So do these numbers change depending on your location's cost of living index? I take it this is the San Diego index?

So (using homefair.com's calculators) my area is approximately 70% of San Diego.

< $14 - nothing
$14 - $35 hug or kiss on check
$35 - 70 kiss
$70-$140 makeout session with manual release
$140-$210 BJ
$210 - $350 - sex
$350+ anal


Much more affordable.

the slums around rio- the women are hot - provided you dust them off- their cost of living is like a dollar a week. a good date costs 2 bucks and shell give it all up

 

[gtrcivic]

a quote from a friend of mine " i have a better chance getting laid spending $100 on a girl i meet at a bar for drinks than getting her #, then taking her out to dinner and trying to get laid....9/10 times he's been right since i've known him and they are pretty hot "hos" i guess....

 

[Whiskey]

she better give up the backdoor for 200 bucks

Where's your ticker at hammy!?!

Whiskey

 

[bullett]

Honey, if I were to take you out on a first date, the bill would be way over $200...Maybe $200 on the first bottle of Tiaganello...

Sounds like a cheapie...I'd say a peck on the cheek....

 

[hamstershaver]

Where's your ticker at hammy!?!

Whiskey

she wont give it up anymore it would be at about 4 months now

 

[rudeboyja]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

I bet she thinks you're a great guy.. too bad

 

[Evil_Frisky]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

you are constantly getting pwned aren't you?

She's baning your best friend.

 

[bullett]

she wont give it up anymore it would be at about 4 months now

Date Rape.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

If you want to bone him and he spent zero dollars on you then do. If you want to bone him he spent XXX dollars on you then do. Shouldn't be a this for that type of thing.

 

[Hiatussin]

Honey, if I were to take you out on a first date, the bill would be way over $200...Maybe $200 on the first bottle of Tiaganello...

Sounds like a cheapie...I'd say a peck on the cheek....

most expensive date I did cost me around 700 dollars

I got it all

 

[Ulter]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

Without actually being on the date it's nearly impossible to say what I would do. It depends on what you want from the date, your expectations, and what you see in her besides aesthetic quality. Is she any fun? Is she intelligent? Does she substantially contribute to the good time you have? Do you even have a good time? There are things besides a kiss worth spending time with her for if she makes the time more enjoyable. If you're expecting a gf out of this deal and your not getting an "out of bed" good time on your dates, move on, because date 4 is far too long to hang around for just a kiss.

Also, I don't know what your dates are like. If you're dropping a lot of coin she could just be playin ya until she makes up with her ex again. lol

 

[Raina]

The best date I've ever been on really didn't involve doing a whole hell of a lot. It was just hanging out with someone who I clicked with like never before. From the first hug to the way he looked at me all day, every minute of that day will forever be frozen into my mind as "the perfect day". No dressing up was needed. We didn't really go anywhere. It was just 2 people hanging out together, laughing and having fun.

 

[concordsize]

Spent 100$ for dinner last night and i got to stick it in the pooper!

 

[Ulter]

^^^ See no kissing there.. And still a winner.

 

[Lestat]

So do these numbers change depending on your location's cost of living index? I take it this is the San Diego index?

So (using homefair.com's calculators) my area is approximately 70% of San Diego.

< $14 - nothing
$14 - $35 hug or kiss on check
$35 - 70 kiss
$70-$140 makeout session with manual release
$140-$210 BJ
$210 - $350 - sex
$350+ anal


Much more affordable.

yeah.. in areas with lower cost of living the numbers should be adjusted accordingly

 

[-SD-]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

Why do you continue to get pwned by bitches? Quit owning yourself also by coming out and say things like "oh I get the hug huh", which forces her to explain herself by telling you she is a slow mover. Makes you look desperate.
Come on rob, youve been on this board long enough to know how the game works. Drop her now just to save what dignity you have left and start over with someone who hasnt owned you yet.

 

[Lao Tzu]

A person can just hire a prostitute for $200. Spending $200 on a date is like paying $6 to go into KFC to smell the food and not eat it.

 

[Raina]

A person can just hire a prostitute for $200. Spending $200 on a date is like paying $6 to go into KFC to smell the food and not eat it.

I think that's what my valentine's day card said last year....

 

[Lao Tzu]

I think that's what my valentine's day card said last year....

"Dear Raina, I guess this is the best either of us could do. Be sure and record antiques roadshow when it comes on as I will be at the bar tonight

Sincerely,
Guy"

 

[Raina]

The Roadshow is always reruns this time of year and it bums me out.

 

[gotmilk]

$200 in Beverly Hills gets you a basket of rolls....butter is extra.

Why the cheap date?

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

maybe some of you all can enlighten me...

I have been on 3 dates with this girl recently.
1st date I didn't get anything, that's ok.
2nd date I went in for a kiss...I got a hug. I said "Oh I get the hug huh?" She replied "Yes I am a slow mover"
3rd date I also got a hug.

Now this is a good girl whick i'm okay with, but come on 3 dates and no kiss?!? She's super hot, well-built and seems interested so I do not know what to do.

What would you do?

even good girls french kiss by date 3. I also think her "I am a slow mover" is girl speak for im not really sexually attracted to you but i could be after alot of expensive dates... next!!

 

[ocisbomb]

Please guys, NO MORE THAN $40 EVER on ANY date.

Please listen to Tom Leykis's radio show, especially thursdays at 5:00 pacific. It's Leykis 101: How to get more tail for less money.

www.blowmeuptom.com listen live link

 

[pitbullstl]

A person can just hire a prostitute for $200. Spending $200 on a date is like paying $6 to go into KFC to smell the food and not eat it.

What's up bro........How you been???

 

[jrlex]

should he expect to get-
1. A hug (no kiss)
2. Kiss on the cheek
3. BJ
4. Sex
5. none of the above


(im feeling a little guilty..LOL)

Don't give him shit..make him think twice for spending that kind of money! What a moron.

 

[slat1]

If the guy has any interest in you what so ever it doesn't matter how the date ended he will call for another.
Keep that in mind.
If it will make you feel better next time he spend $200 on you... you can have sex with me so you don't feel guilty!

 

[gonelifting]

Did'nt read the thread, but I took a first date to Burger King and afterwards walked around a lake in the park. That was many, many years ago. Now we're married. Go figure.

 

[*MissFit*]

1st date i always run like cinderella

 

[Lao Tzu]

What's up bro........How you been???

Not bad, not bad. I'm actually doing alot better than I was a year ago. How have things been with you, your businesses and your daughter?

 

[Snypr]

I'm just glad we don't have that dating culture over here

I'm getting on a plane

 

[alien amp pharm]

thanks for the replies. I think this girl is just out to be doing something. I'm gonna invite her over to my house to watch a movies this Sunday. If nothing happens after my trademark smooth moves, I will move on.

Sincerely,
Mr. Desperate

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

thanks for the replies. I think this girl is just out to be doing something. I'm gonna invite her over to my house to watch a movies this Sunday. If nothing happens after my trademark smooth moves, I will move on.

Sincerely,
Mr. Desperate

yeah & make sure its a porn

(kdding- good luck

 

[Tytan]

1,2 and 4 at least......

 

[Snypr]

Please guys, NO MORE THAN $40 EVER on ANY date.

Please listen to Tom Leykis's radio show, especially thursdays at 5:00 pacific. It's Leykis 101: How to get more tail for less money.

www.blowmeuptom.com listen live link

Listening to Tom is one more thing I miss about the West Coast. Now I don't have guidance on handling my "attention-whore" gf.

 

[pitbullstl]

Not bad, not bad. I'm actually doing alot better than I was a year ago. How have things been with you, your businesses and your daughter?

Glad to hear it, and good to see you back around.

Things are great here.......two daughters now, and a third due in December!