I need Interests

[evansteve]

One piece of advice that I have gleaned recently from my female threads, is that if I want to attract a female it would help to have some cool interests. That way, she'll think that I have some kind of life or something.

Plus interests can help you make friendships. And friendships can help boost your social status, making women dig you more.

The bad thing is that right now I dont have any interests so I need to get some.

Unfortunately, nothing really interests me. I dont like to do all that much aside from sleeping, eating, watching TV and movies and listening to music, and posting on forums. None of those are creative interests. I do not have the drive right now to find new interests on my own just for me.

Jenscat5 suggested that maybe the reason why I found nothing interesting was because I was depressed. She said the only way I could get interested in things again would be to fix my depression. I know that it would take years to fix that completely though, and I dont want to just sit around and let years go to waste, so I figured why not "force myself into having certain interests?"

I think this is a good idea. Now, I'm kind of tempted to force myself into finding interests that females find attractive, so I can get a hot woman someday. But I also dont want to make my life a living hell. For example: I could be a computer geek, and not attract any babes. Or I could be some wonderful guitar player and attract tons of babes. Problem being, the computers is much more interesting to me, even though the guitar hobby would get me more babes. I think I will do what is necessary to get a hot woman, but i wont do anything above that.

Do you guys try to find interests that other people find attractive? I know that I am going to at least need some new interests if I want to impress any new dates or new women.

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cliff notes:

-I dont have many interests, and I need to find some more so that I can make more friends with people and meet more women.
-I could try to make myself more in the mood to find interests, or I could just go out and get some interests, which would be a lot easier.
-I would be willing to do things I'm not interested in, but to call them my 'interests' just in order to attract more women from the general population? Am i weird?

 

[tiger88]

motorcycles

best band for your buck and chics dig dudes on sport bikes dont listel to poodlestle and saying crotch rockets are gay

fashion , theatre , horoscopes



but serious on the bike part

plus u get wear leather pants and get away with it too (legit )(

music

sky diving


4 square

teatherball

techmo bowl for orignal NES

 

[evansteve]

do you guys think its dumb to pick interests that attract women, and to try to be interested in those things?

 

[tiger88]

do you guys think its dumb to pick interests that attract women, and to try to be interested in those things?

dont be something ur not

but as for things to meet chics go for it but dont be a poser

 

[RADAR]

do you guys think its dumb to pick interests that attract women, and to try to be interested in those things?

Pick an intrest that women partipate in....knitting is a start.


RADAR

 

[HumorMe]

I'm speechless.

 

[evansteve]

Pick an intrest that women partipate in....knitting is a start.


RADAR

but wouldnt they consider me a sissy loser if I was into knitting?

I'm speechless.

 

[tiger88]

lol @ cliff notes part !

ok u seem smart to me and u in scool a private ass smart one too
and u seem to like to do school stuff so join school related things.. debate club, chemisty club, english club, theatre stuff. and look dude
gimme the website where u go to school there has to be a list of shit to do

plus in these clubs u will also meet the right type of gir u like too .. not the cum sponge trashy cluber who wears alot of make up but smells nice and also has a smoking problem but is a part time hair dresser but still broke as shit with a huge car payment left and has trash ball friends
sorry for the rent just my persoanll shit i needed to get it off my pecs

 

[slickdadd]

Pick things that you care about and be yourself. Chicks will like that, as will any other person.

 

[HumorMe]

lol @ cliff notes part !

ok u seem smart to me and u in scool a private ass smart one too
and u seem to like to do school stuff so join school related things.. debate club, chemisty club, english club, theatre stuff. and look dude
gimme the website where u go to school there has to be a list of shit to do

plus in these clubs u will also meet the right type of gir u like too .. not the cum sponge trashy cluber who wears alot of make up but smells nice and also has a smoking problem but is a part time hair dresser sorry for the rent just my persoanll shit i needed to get it off my pecs

Cambridge study findings still working for me.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

ok youve hit new depths with this one

fuckit, youll never be a pickup artist, go to a dancing school and learn to dance really, really, really well. then dance at nightclubs in the middle of a cloud of ecstasy dropping raver chicks, and one of them will pick you up. preferably be the dude paid to dance on the podium.

damn fyx, youre a nut sometimes

 

[tiger88]

Cambridge study findings still working for me.

dude he goes to some school in minnesota not gophers either

guessing ST thomas?

 

[HumorMe]

ok youve hit new depths with this one

fuckit, youll never be a pickup artist, go to a dancing school and learn to dance really, really, really well. then dance at nightclubs in the middle of a cloud of ecstasy dropping raver chicks, and one of them will pick you up. preferably be the dude paid to dance on the podium.

damn fyx, youre a nut sometimes

and watch Saturday Night Fever.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You've posted this before...

 

[evansteve]

lol @ cliff notes part !

ok u seem smart to me and u in scool a private ass smart one too
and u seem to like to do school stuff so join school related things.. debate club, chemisty club, english club, theatre stuff. and look dude
gimme the website where u go to school there has to be a list of shit to do

plus in these clubs u will also meet the right type of gir u like too .. not the cum sponge trashy cluber who wears alot of make up but smells nice and also has a smoking problem but is a part time hair dresser but still broke as shit with a huge car payment left and has trash ball friends
sorry for the rent just my persoanll shit i needed to get it off my pecs

www.bethel.edu

the list is somewhere on there i think. its a small list. nevermind, im too lazy to find it. u can if u want.

we have debate, and maybe some theatre thing, but we dont have clubs for each subject. Well we do, but they dont meet at all.

Pick things that you care about and be yourself. Chicks will like that, as will any other person

you raise a good point. I should really try to be myself whenever possible. And only make exceptions in slight ways, and just for the sake of getting to know some cute girls.

Ex: learn knitting so i can hang out with some more hotties.

You've posted this before...

I dont think i have actually, unless someone wants to do a search and prove me wrong.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

and watch Saturday Night Fever.

no, im deadly serious

professional dancer + ecstasy popping ravers = laid. eventually.

i have seen some uuuugly dancers get some nice girls, fyx is by no means an ugly guy. so long as he shuts up and doesnt ask 1000 questions, itll work

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I dont think i have actually, unless someone wants to do a search and prove me wrong.

Yeah, you did...You wanted to find hobbies so you'd have something to talk about with people.
You're a broken record...

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I got an idea for an interest for ya, about get off you lazy ass and lose the college fat you put on...GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

 

[RADAR]

I got an idea for an interest for ya, about get off you lazy ass and lose the college fat you put on...GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

^ What he said...let your body do the talking.


RADAR

 

[evansteve]

I got an idea for an interest for ya, about get off you lazy ass and lose the college fat you put on...GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

oh, i thought u were going to tell me to get off the forums for good.

yeah, gym is a good idea.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Yeah, you did...You wanted to find hobbies so you'd have something to talk about with people.
You're a broken record...

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=334475

 

[H_T_]

wrestling and nascar won't help...........

 

[evansteve]

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=334475

thanks, i will go back and look at this thread.

 

[Pamela]

Pick an intrest that women partipate in....knitting is a start.


RADAR

Mud or Jello wrestling!

 

[geoboy]

Is this series of threads part of a psychology class project or something? masters thesis? it can't possibly be for real, can it?

are u putting us on?

-I dont have many interests, and I need to find some more so that I can make more friends with people and meet more women.
-I could try to make myself more in the mood to find interests, or I could just go out and get some interests, which would be a lot easier.
-I would be willing to do things I'm not interested in, but to call them my 'interests' just in order to attract more women from the general population? Am i weird?

 

[Lady Viking]

thanks for the cliff notes
everyone who writes more than ten rows should do that

 

[*MissFit*]

Let me tell you straight from a woman... Ur an idiot..

Don't bother getting interests.. Try working on yourself.. U need to be fixed

 

[from zero]

Let me tell you straight from a woman... Ur an idiot..

Don't bother getting interests.. Try working on yourself.. U need to be fixed

Been said a billion times. Boy can't be fixed.

 

[*MissFit*]

Ya that is what i figured.. but owell.. another shot

I'm tired of all the whining.. there is nothing worse then someone who complains about thier life and does nothing to make it better

Been said a billion times. Boy can't be fixed.

 

[WODIN]

Take up wedding crashing as a hobbie to score chicks.

 

[tuc biscuit]

seriously martial arts would help you, my recommendation would be judo

 

[evansteve]

Let me tell you straight from a woman... Ur an idiot..

Don't bother getting interests.. Try working on yourself.. U need to be fixed

What am I supposed to fix about myself? I can think of a lot of things, but I want to hear what you have to say.

seriously martial arts would help you, my recommendation would be judo

thats funny, you arent the first person who has said this to me.

 

[*MissFit*]

I think you suffer from low self esteem and your constant whining and asking for advice that you don't follow only perpetuates this..

Go see a shrink or join some kind of support group.. Hey a support group might provide you with some sort of friends.

Or volunteer. I get the feeling you are severely lacking in some basic communication and interaction skills.

What am I supposed to fix about myself? I can think of a lot of things, but I want to hear what you have to say.


thats funny, you arent the first person who has said this to me.

 

[jackangel]

thats funny, you arent the first person who has said this to me.

and you are the first person to say this to him

 

[jackangel]

i have some serious advice.

i think a lot of your problems arise from the presence of a severely aberrant brain chemistry.

have you tried shaking your head around violently? or smashing it into things, also violently?

i'm not a neuro-something, but i think this kind of vigorous motion will help to discomjigulate your synapses and execute a balubrious kind of ocotasm on your neuralismic firing patterns.

 

[TheProject]

Stevarino here is fxygel, right?

 

[skittles]

seriously martial arts would help you, my recommendation would be judo

Agreed..... try a free class of every martial art till you find the one you like. Than you have a hobby, get in shape & gain some confidence.

 

[jackangel]

Stevarino here is fxygel, right?

some questions don't need to be asked.

like "is theproject funny?"

 

[TheProject]

some questions don't need to be asked.

So is that a yes, asstard?

 

[*MissFit*]

They both stopped posting.. maybe.. match made in elite heaven

So is that a yes, asstard?

 

[jackangel]

So is that a yes, asstard?

of course dude, you rock.

have a
my friend

 

[TheProject]

of course dude, you rock.

have a
my friend

Thanks man.

And, just for fxygel:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

 

[Moderate_THIS]

No thread has ever made me sadder. Socially paralyzed, this poor kid.

Start dabbling in the occult, bro.

 

[evansteve]

They both stopped posting.. maybe.. match made in elite heaven

???

anyways, yes I am fyxgel

I think a lot of your problems arise from the presence of a severely aberrant brain chemistry.

have you tried shaking your head around violently? or smashing it into things, also violently?

i'm not a neuro-something, but i think this kind of vigorous motion will help to discomjigulate your synapses and execute a balubrious kind of ocotasm on your neuralismic firing patterns.

please tell me that you are kidding

 

[*MissFit*]

Cool u guys did some gettign to know u stuff

 

[evansteve]

No thread has ever made me sadder. Socially paralyzed, this poor kid.
.

I wouldnt say socially paralyzed,

I would say that its more so that every person I talk to that I want to become friends with doesnt seem to like me.

Since then I've chosen not to be social. I figure what's the point if everyone is just going to reject you?
(And I still do try sometimes, but dont achieve success.)

Something may be wrong in my social actions but I dont think its that I'm socially 'paralyzed'

 

[Moderate_THIS]

I wouldnt say socially paralyzed,

I would say that its more so that every person I talk to that I want to become friends with doesnt seem to like me.

Since then I've chosen not to be social. I figure what's the point if everyone is just going to reject you?
(And I still do try sometimes, but dont achieve success.)

Something may be wrong in my social actions but I dont think its that I'm socially 'paralyzed'

I'll be your friend.

You "try" too much. Just be yourself.

 

[evansteve]

I'll be your friend.

You "try" too much. Just be yourself.

maybe thats my problem.

It seems like im either trying too hard, or not trying at all.

Being socially appealing is an art. An art that I am not sure I will ever master.

 

[Gambino]

fuck that "you've reached new depths shit"
I too once find myself hobby-less
i forced myself to learn new things
some i liked, some i didn't, some i still do today almost a decade later
it comes down to what your interests are
take a chance on something

 

[jackangel]

please tell me that you are kidding

please tell me that you are

 

[Pamela]

maybe thats my problem.

It seems like im either trying too hard, or not trying at all.

Being socially appealing is an art. An art that I am not sure I will ever master.

Ask yourself;

What do I want out of life?

 

[-SD-]

seriously martial arts would help you, my recommendation would be judo

Yeah, I say judo also.......JUDO KNOW IF YOU EVER GONNA GET NO PUDDY!

 

[evansteve]

actually i've changed my mind.
Getting an interest just so that girls find you more attractive is stupid.
My current hobbies are: talking on AIM and forums, watching movies and tv, listening to music, and talking to people.
If any girl has a problem with my limited number of hobbies, they can **** off!

Im gonna do what I wanna do. As long as I'm remotely attractive, there should be some girl out there who likes me for me.

Ask yourself;
What do I want out of life?

are u agreeing with me that its hard to master the art of being socially skilled?

 

[RADAR]

actually i've changed my mind.
Getting an interest just so that girls find you more attractive is stupid.
My current hobbies are: talking on AIM and forums, watching movies and tv, listening to music, and talking to people.
If any girl has a problem with my limited number of hobbies, they can **** off!

Im gonna do what I wanna do. As long as I'm remotely attractive, there should be some girl out there who likes me for me.



are u agreeing with me that its hard to master the art of being socially skilled?

Then prepair for a lonely existance.


Seriously join a gym theres some much info here you could literally change the way you look in less than 6 months, i started doing it for the girls...now i do it for me.

You will be amazed how much your outlook will change.

If you've never done anything for yourself Do this.
I live it-i believe it!

RADAR

 

[jackangel]

actually i've changed my mind.
Getting an interest just so that girls find you more attractive is stupid.
My current hobbies are: talking on AIM and forums, watching movies and tv, listening to music, and talking to people.
If any girl has a problem with my limited number of hobbies, they can **** off!

Im gonna do what I wanna do. As long as I'm remotely attractive, there should be some girl out there who likes me for me.

classic fyxgel post

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

 

[geoboy]

what Radar said.

 

[string_bean00]

GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

.

 

[RADAR]

what Radar said.

And here's all you need to get started


http://elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=367441&page=2



In 6 months you will not be posting these pathetic ,pitiful threads!
Because you will have all the women you can handle.

Need a training Regime Pm me!
Its time for the pheonix to rise out of the ashes!
RADAR

 

[Pamela]

are u agreeing with me that its hard to master the art of being socially skilled?

Agreeing??

I just wondered what you want out of your life!

 

[evansteve]

Agreeing??

I just wondered what you want out of your life!

sorry, i got confused, i thought u were trying to imply something with your question, lol

for what I want out of life, mainly 4 things:
1) a woman
2) a job that makes me happy and helps me to live comfortably
3) to start working out again, and get myself into great shape
4) to help other people (sadly my sinful nature tells me to put this goal aside until I accomplish the 1st three goals.)

GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!!!

that would mean i might end up spending less time posting on here, but fuck, oh well. sounds like i might have to, if i want to retain(or obtain) any sense of dignity on this forum.

otherwise it would mean that i failed to follow the most strongest piece of advice.

 

[Spanky11]

And here's all you need to get started


http://elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=367441&page=2



In 6 months you will not be posting these pathetic ,pitiful threads!
Because you will have all the women you can handle.

Need a training Regime Pm me!
Its time for the pheonix to rise out of the ashes!
RADAR

damn straight.

radar speaks the truth!

 

[Lestat]

lol @ the cliffs notes on long threads... awesome idea, it should almost be a rule!

dude for interests, movies CAN be an interest.. MUSIC can be an interest.. TV CAN BE.. people are into that shit too... find thema and enjoy those things together.

 

[Spanky11]

just don't make a hobby about writing long ass boring pathetic posts about your ex, like Lestat - that is almost gayer than posting here and not working out

 

[biteme]

One piece of advice that I have gleaned recently from my female threads, is that if I want to attract a female it would help to have some cool interests. That way, she'll think that I have some kind of life or something.

Plus interests can help you make friendships. And friendships can help boost your social status, making women dig you more.

The bad thing is that right now I dont have any interests so I need to get some.

Unfortunately, nothing really interests me. I dont like to do all that much aside from sleeping, eating, watching TV and movies and listening to music, and posting on forums. None of those are creative interests. I do not have the drive right now to find new interests on my own just for me.

Jenscat5 suggested that maybe the reason why I found nothing interesting was because I was depressed. She said the only way I could get interested in things again would be to fix my depression. I know that it would take years to fix that completely though, and I dont want to just sit around and let years go to waste, so I figured why not "force myself into having certain interests?"

I think this is a good idea. Now, I'm kind of tempted to force myself into finding interests that females find attractive, so I can get a hot woman someday. But I also dont want to make my life a living hell. For example: I could be a computer geek, and not attract any babes. Or I could be some wonderful guitar player and attract tons of babes. Problem being, the computers is much more interesting to me, even though the guitar hobby would get me more babes. I think I will do what is necessary to get a hot woman, but i wont do anything above that.

Do you guys try to find interests that other people find attractive? I know that I am going to at least need some new interests if I want to impress any new dates or new women.

------------
cliff notes:

-I dont have many interests, and I need to find some more so that I can make more friends with people and meet more women.
-I could try to make myself more in the mood to find interests, or I could just go out and get some interests, which would be a lot easier.
-I would be willing to do things I'm not interested in, but to call them my 'interests' just in order to attract more women from the general population? Am i weird?

I read 3/4 of your post. No, because I don't give a shit what people think in general. Just be yourself and accept yourself the way you are, the hell with impressing other people. Once I learned to accept myself, shortcomings and all, I became a happier person. Yeah, I still bitch all the time, but that's just me.

 

[Lestat]

just don't make a hobby about writing long ass boring pathetic posts about your ex, like Lestat - that is almost gayer than posting here and not working out

I'm sorry you didn't enjoy those. I've been trying to mix it up with some more fun things recently.

 

[evansteve]

Then prepair for a lonely existance.


Seriously join a gym theres some much info here you could literally change the way you look in less than 6 months, i started doing it for the girls...now i do it for me.

You will be amazed how much your outlook will change.

If you've never done anything for yourself Do this.
I live it-i believe it!

RADAR

I totally agree with you man. I used to be hardcore involved at the gym, doing cardio, and dieting and shaz, and I know what it can do for you.

I've been out of the loop for a couple years now, but I will get back into it very soon, guaranteed, even if it means that I dont take classes next semester but work instead (in order to give myself more time).

We already have a family membership, so basically i just need to drag my ass back into there.

shit, I hope someday my motivation for doing this though, isnt just for the ladies (and of course for health reasons)


Do you really think in 6 months I would have all the women I could handle? Sadly, I dont think thats true. I worked out for years before, and took advice off of this board to help me. And although it got me a much better physique, women still werent drawn to me.

But you're right, I should still workout anyway, it would at least help my chances with the ladies if nothing else.

 

[Pamela]

sorry, i got confused, i thought u were trying to imply something with your question, lol

for what I want out of life, mainly 4 things:
1) a woman
2) a job that makes me happy and helps me to live comfortably
3) to start working out again, and get myself into great shape
4) to help other people (sadly my sinful nature tells me to put this goal aside until I accomplish the 1st three goals.)

Have you ever thought if you did # 4 first the other 3 may come easier?

Then you would be involved with life and not so worried about yourself?

Just a thought!

 

[evansteve]

Have you ever thought if you did # 4 first the other 3 may come easier?

Then you would be involved with life and not so worried about yourself?

Just a thought!

I have thought about that, but I dont think that it would be easier. I think I would get shafted and always be helping other people, but would have nothing left for myself.

How would they come easier? Just because I'm not as worried about myself??

 

[RADAR]

I totally agree with you man. I used to be hardcore involved at the gym, doing cardio, and dieting and shaz, and I know what it can do for you.

I've been out of the loop for a couple years now, but I will get back into it very soon, guaranteed, even if it means that I dont take classes next semester but work instead (in order to give myself more time).

We already have a family membership, so basically i just need to drag my ass back into there.

shit, I hope someday my motivation for doing this though, isnt just for the ladies (and of course for health reasons)


Do you really think in 6 months I would have all the women I could handle? Sadly, I dont think thats true. I worked out for years before, and took advice off of this board to help me. And although it got me a much better physique, women still werent drawn to me.

But you're right, I should still workout anyway, it would at least help my chances with the ladies if nothing else.

Dude i'm offering you some guidance take it!
I may be too busy later...but i'll tell you now don't waste my time if you're not dead serious!

RADAR

 

[geoboy]

for what I want out of life, mainly 4 things:
1) a woman
2) a job that makes me happy and helps me to live comfortably
3) to start working out again, and get myself into great shape

This is like the Famous Amos episode of "Taxi" where Latka tells Alex "I don't want to be rich for the same reasons as other people", and Alex says "You mean its not for the cars, the houses, the women", and Latka says "Oh....I guess it is for the same reasons."

 

[RADAR]

This is like the Famous Amos episode of "Taxi" where Latka tells Alex "I don't want to be rich for the same reasons as other people", and Alex says "You mean its not for the cars, the houses, the women", and Latka says "Oh....I guess it is for the same reasons."

aint that the truth!

RADAR

 

[biteme]

This is like the Famous Amos episode of "Taxi" where Latka tells Alex "I don't want to be rich for the same reasons as other people", and Alex says "You mean its not for the cars, the houses, the women", and Latka says "Oh....I guess it is for the same reasons."

I guess I'm rich except for the women part. THen I would certainly be poor if I included women into the mix. LOL

 

[geoboy]

Sad to say, but if you want a shortcut to lots of women without having to develop a personality or a body, just make lots of money. this guy got to bang Uma Thurman, and he's a geek:

you can't be any stranger than him can you?

--

 

[biteme]

Sad to say, but if you want a shortcut to lots of women without having to develop a personality or a body, just make lots of money. this guy got to bang Uma Thurman, and he's a geek:

you can't be any stranger than him can you?

--

Great point. Picture him as a security guard. He definitely wouldn't be getting any ass unless it was extra, extra large ass. LOL

Here's a secret. Once you progress in your life to the point where you no longer try to be what you are not, just to get women, you will be a better man. The lust of women is proabably at the root of nearly all evil in this world.

 

[evansteve]

Here's a secret. Once you progress in your life to the point where you no longer try to be what you are not, just to get women, you will be a better man. The lust of women is proabably at the root of nearly all evil in this world.

the sad thing is, this is probably the truth.
but damn, right now i dont want to let go of the possibility of having a beautiful woman.

This is like the Famous Amos episode of "Taxi" where Latka tells Alex "I don't want to be rich for the same reasons as other people", and Alex says "You mean its not for the cars, the houses, the women", and Latka says "Oh....I guess it is for the same reasons."

I'm dense. Explain to me how what I said is like that.

Dude i'm offering you some guidance take it!
I may be too busy later...but i'll tell you now don't waste my time if you're not dead serious!

What advice are we talking here? I've searched for plenty of advice in the past, to learn how to get muscular and lean, and in the end I discovered that it is more a matter of willpower than anything else.

Sadly, I'm not sure your advice would do me much good. I need the willpower, the desire, more than anything else.

 

[biteme]

the sad thing is, this is probably the truth.
but damn, right now i dont want to let go of the possibility of having a beautiful woman.

I understand. Nearly all men are that way. One day you will see the light.

 

[Pamela]

the sad thing is, this is probably the truth.
but damn, right now i dont want to let go of the possibility of having a beautiful women.

Confidence is how you get women.

 

[evansteve]

Confidence is how you get women.

how you get beautiful women? with confidence alone? and I can look like an ugly monster?

I have thought about that, but I dont think that it would be easier. I think I would get shafted and always be helping other people, but would have nothing left for myself.

How would they come easier? Just because I'm not as worried about myself??

also what do you think about this post from earlier?

 

[Pamela]

I have thought about that, but I dont think that it would be easier. I think I would get shafted and always be helping other people, but would have nothing left for myself.

How would they come easier? Just because I'm not as worried about myself??

Because you are around and helping people and not so self -absorbed.
Your sharing things with real humans and not being by yourself.
Your more likely to meet women and do things to improve yourself.

 

[geoboy]

Originally Posted by geoboy
This is like the Famous Amos episode of "Taxi" where Latka tells Alex "I don't want to be rich for the same reasons as other people", and Alex says "You mean its not for the cars, the houses, the women", and Latka says "Oh....I guess it is for the same reasons."

I'm dense. Explain to me how what I said is like that.
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In other words, grasshopper, what you seek is what every man seeks (unless they're gay, then just substitute "ass" for "pussy" and it's good to go).


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[RADAR]

the sad thing is, this is probably the truth.
but damn, right now i dont want to let go of the possibility of having a beautiful woman.



I'm dense. Explain to me how what I said is like that.



What advice are we talking here? I've searched for plenty of advice in the past, to learn how to get muscular and lean, and in the end I discovered that it is more a matter of willpower than anything else.

Sadly, I'm not sure your advice would do me much good. I need the willpower, the desire, more than anything else.

Damn !You are a lost cause...make a Damn effort ! I've seen plenty of beautiful ladies with their arm around a hunk.

I'm offering you the tools use it!
I'll stay with you all thru the way.
But in the end...its all up to you! ...............Damn

I feel like i'm on the show Overhaulin

RADAR

 

[evansteve]

Because you are around and helping people and not so self -absorbed.
Your sharing things with real humans and not being by yourself.
Your more likely to meet women and do things to improve yourself.

so do you really think that if my goal was to obtain my first 3 goals,

that the easiest way to do it, would be to go after the 4th one first?

 

[Pamela]

so do you really think that if my goal was to obtain my first 3 goals,

that the easiest way to do it, would be to go after the 4th one first?

Yes

 

[evansteve]

Yes

do you believe in the verse:

"Seek ye first the Kingdom, and everything else shall be added unto you as follows" ?

 

[Pamela]

do you believe in the verse:

"Seek ye first the Kingdom, and everything else shall be added unto you as follows" ?

I believe if you help others;
good things will come back to you!

 

[evansteve]

Damn !You are a lost cause...make a Damn effort ! I've seen plenty of beautiful ladies with their arm around a hunk.

I'm offering you the tools use it!
I'll stay with you all thru the way.
But in the end...its all up to you! ...............Damn

I feel like i'm on the show Overhaulin

RADAR

Women have their arms around hunks.. but let me tell you...
Even when I was a good-looking feller 2 years ago (when i used to workout all the time), at 5'9" 165 lbs, 9% bodyfat, the ladies still didnt seem to notice me. well they did more than they do now, but they still didnt really approach me a ton, wtf?

Also, you do realize that when I do get back into this that my goal wont be to become super big, I mean 5'9" 280 lbs, holy crap thats massive.
I dont think I could picture myself wanting to be more than 180 lbs (when at a low bodyfat)

PS: what kinda bodyfat do you keep on you on average?
Do you do any shows/competitions or anything?

 

[evansteve]

I believe if you help others;
good things will come back to you!

Have you actually observed this happening a lot, or do you just hope that this is the way things are?