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artrius

artrius

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So my gf is flying up here to see me tomorrow, I'm currently set up to pop the question. Not too sure though, I guess I'm a bit nervous. I'm pretty young, so I know its not that big of a deal to wait and make sure that its right for me. I don't drink or party, so with that respect, I'm at least somewhat ready to settle down.

I'm just looking for personal experiences with this, ones that did work out and ones that didn't.


:worried:
 
dude. how can u propose when ure cock is pointing at HH

and 22? dont man. u still have so much life to live.
 
All my friends that got married in their early twenties are either divorced, on their first divorce or second marriage. My Godson's parents - I give them another 3 years TOPS - she was 26 when they got married he was 30.

But that doesn't mean it can't work for you.

Go with your instincts and not your heart.

You already know deep inside if this is the girl and time for you - you just have to listen carefully.
 
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artrius said:
So my gf is flying up here to see me tomorrow, I'm currently set up to pop the question. Not too sure though, I guess I'm a bit nervous. I'm pretty young, so I know its not that big of a deal to wait and make sure that its right for me. I don't drink or party, so with that respect, I'm at least somewhat ready to settle down.

I'm just looking for personal experiences with this, ones that did work out and ones that didn't.


:worried:
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How long have you two been together? Lemme not ask the obvious question...but do you LOVE her? With all your heart, soul, mind, body, errything?? :worried:
 
dunk said:
dude. how can u propose when ure cock is pointing at HH

and 22? dont man. u still have so much life to live.
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that's just me practicing my wit and/or being a dumbass. besides, she's all over aap :sick:

life to live... well after coming out of the hospital from near death, I realized that some things have to change. the way things were rolling was not going to cut it. Change had to happen.

Not that its an excuse to just marry the first girl you meet... i'm still contemplating it, though.
 
How long have you been going out?

I once almost popped the question...until I found out she got really drunk and cheated on me once. Revenge was sweet!
 
don't be too quick with the rolleyes, bor.

it would be unreasonable to expect anything other than resistance (all joking aside) here.

or any other place full of strangers, because there's no reason on earth for them (us) to suggest that you go ahead.

you, of course, look at it differently, but that's you. do you have a reason to not hold off (other than "it feels right, why wait?") ?
 
awwww congrats
if me and hammy ever get married, i will put his proposal in here
heck if theres an ordained minister here, ill get u to marrry us:)
 
velvett said:
All my friend that got married in their early twenties are either divorced, on their first divorce or second marriage. My Godson's parents - I give them another 3 years TOPS - she was 26 when they got married he was 30.

But that doesn't mean it can't work for you.

Go with your instincts and not your heart.

You already know deep inside if this is the girl and time for you - you just have to listen carefully.
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this is unfortunately all too true. divorce rates are very high, and in the Navy, its even higher (due to deployment schedules).

Listen carefully to the voices... yes, they do talk to me a lot ;) I'm still listening. Those who talk too much do not listen well; that being said, I tend to keep my mouth shut.
 
I signed up on a website a couple years ago. Apperently, I'm a minister in some church. I have a printed certificate to prove it. Well, I lost that, but I probably could sign up again and print another one out. I'll just put my middle initial in it this time.


SoKlueles said:
awwww congrats
if me and hammy ever get married, i will put his proposal in here
heck if theres an ordained minister here, ill get u to marrry us:)
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habitualhealth said:
How long have you two been together? Lemme not ask the obvious question...but do you LOVE her? With all your heart, soul, mind, body, errything?? :worried:
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We've been together for a few months, not too long. :worried: yes, it is kind of wierd, I know. I haven't always been the brightest....

HOWEVER, That love thing... that's a bit of a trip. It is difficult to really say, I've never really been like this before. I've spent most of my life sarcastic and bitter, and hateful of humans in general. I would have to say, though, I am really working on my ideals, my thoughts of love, and the emotions thereof.
 
jackangel said:
don't be too quick with the rolleyes, bor.

it would be unreasonable to expect anything other than resistance (all joking aside) here.

or any other place full of strangers, because there's no reason on earth for them (us) to suggest that you go ahead.

you, of course, look at it differently, but that's you. do you have a reason to not hold off (other than "it feels right, why wait?") ?
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Why wait? that's what I'm contemplating. I, at least when I'm thinking rationally, do believe that I shouldn't rush into things; its just a recipie for disaster. Unfortunately, there is no real tech manual with the instructions on how to do things perfectly, and how long is right for you. I just have to decide that for myself.
 
Go for it man and good luck.

I've been married will be 18 years in July. More in love with my wife now than before I married her. Marraige is what you make of it. It's a huge committment but well worth it in my opinion. It takes a lot of work but I wouldn't change a thing. Good luck.:)
 
HumorMe said:
Go for it man and good luck.

I've been married will be 18 years in July. More in love with my wife now than before I married her. Marraige is what you make of it. It's a huge committment but well worth it in my opinion. It takes a lot of work but I wouldn't change a thing. Good luck.:)
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Thanks bro... I've still got some old fashioned thinking to do, but I have a couple of days. If I can't come up with an answer, I'll just wait. If she's the right one, then there shouldn't be any problem with waiting.... I think....
 
together a few months? wow.....I can't fathom asking her to marry after so short of a time.....

personally I will have to live with a person first before marriage is even contemplated. you two could be completely incompatible in a living situation.
 
ChewYxRage said:
together a few months? wow.....I can't fathom asking her to marry after so short of a time.....

personally I will have to live with a person first before marriage is even contemplated. you two could be completely incompatible in a living situation.
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unfortunately, its a long distance relationship atm, that's about the only way she'd move up here, is if I propose. Its understandable, we're like 1500 miles away (i'm originally from the area she's from). Kind of between a rock and a hard place...
 
HumorMe said:
Go for it man and good luck.

I've been married will be 18 years in July. More in love with my wife now than before I married her. Marraige is what you make of it. It's a huge committment but well worth it in my opinion. It takes a lot of work but I wouldn't change a thing. Good luck.:)
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Amen Brother.
 
From Zero said:
Bro.

1) You're 22.
2) You don't know this girl that well.
3) wtf, you're 22.
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22 is way too young. You have know life experiances to compare her to. (Don't give me some bullshit about a gh in HS)

Like Velvett said....All my friends that got married in mid to early 20's are divorced and on their second marriage. My friend pays 1200 a month for child support and has to fly 1,500 miles every other weekend to see his kids, because his wife moved.

You are 22...At 22 I thought I was pretty smart. Now, at 33....I realize I didn't know shit. My friends say the exact same thing.

What are you going to do if in 5 yrs you start making good money and the pussy that avoided you in hs...starts spreading like peanut butter. (this is why 2 of my friends are divorced)

Or, your wife decides she is tired of playing house because she got married too young and wants to go out and see what she was missing. (this is why my other friends are divorced)

Bro, you are in the navy???? Do you know how many of my friends have banged some ho, and then found out she was married and her husband was deployed.

If you get married at 22 with only being with the chick a few months, living far from each other, and being in the navy. I guarantee you will be making the biggest mistake of your life.

Don't let the fact that you are getting pussy now ruin your entire life.


Who wants to bet some Karma on the odds of this working?
 
awittyusername said:
22 is way too young. You have know life experiances to compare her to. (Don't give me some bullshit about a gh in HS)

Like Velvett said....All my friends that got married in mid to early 20's are divorced and on their second marriage. My friend pays 1200 a month for child support and has to fly 1,500 miles every other weekend to see his kids, because his wife moved.

You are 22...At 22 I thought I was pretty smart. Now, at 33....I realize I didn't know shit. My friends say the exact same thing.

What are you going to do if in 5 yrs you start making good money and the pussy that avoided you in hs...starts spreading like peanut butter. (this is why 2 of my friends are divorced)

Or, your wife decides she is tired of playing house because she got married too young and wants to go out and see what she was missing. (this is why my other friends are divorced)

Bro, you are in the navy???? Do you know how many of my friends have banged some ho, and then found out she was married and her husband was deployed.

If you get married at 22 with only being with the chick a few months, living far from each other, and being in the navy. I guarantee you will be making the biggest mistake of your life.

Don't let the fact that you are getting pussy now ruin your entire life.


Who wants to bet some Karma on the odds of this working?
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Believe me, I've heard a lot of cheating stories from people in the navy...

As for the rest of it, heh, I know I'm not the brightest. I'm smarter than the average bear, or at least that's what they tell me, but I know I have a lot to learn.

2 more things... 1) its not about sex. if you know me at all (which i've never really talked to you, so you really wouldn't) you would know that sex is not my goal in a relationship. 2) NO KIDS UNTIL AFTER I GET OUT. Its a minor point, yes, but that's the way its gonna be. If I have to get neutered to make sure it doesn't happen, I will. I don't believe that the Navy lifestyle, having deployments all the time, is good for a kid, especially in their developmental stage. 6 months out of a year if I go back to sea on a trident, or +/- that on a fast attack.
 
artrius said:
22 y/o :chomp:

I know I know, I'm young :rolleyes:
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RU :insane: ?

Don't do it, Atrius.......DON'T DO IT!!!!!! :worried:

You've got your 20's ahead of you, enjoy them and enjoy the women that will come.

Do not give up your freedom at such an early age.......if you do, I'm afraid you may be another EF statistic........and one day you'll show up here with a thread something like this:

"Caught wife fucking the landlord, what should I do? :o "




DIV
 
Did she say that the only way she would move is if you married her?

Or is that more of a NAVY - living sort of arrangement?
 
DIVISION said:
RU :insane: ?

Don't do it, Atrius.......DON'T DO IT!!!!!! :worried:

You've got your 20's ahead of you, enjoy them and enjoy the women that will come.

Do not give up your freedom at such an early age.......if you do, I'm afraid you may be another EF statistic........and one day you'll show up here with a thread something like this:

"Caught wife fucking the landlord, what should I do? :o "



DIV
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:o in case you hadn't noticed, I am fairly :insane:

I still haven't decided yet.... hold on, let me beat my head into the wall, that might help a bit....

as for freedom... I've already got one wife, why not two? The Navy loves to f*ck all of us, i might as well have some happiness while I'm at it...
 
artrius said:
:o in case you hadn't noticed, I am fairly :insane:

I still haven't decided yet.... hold on, let me beat my head into the wall, that might help a bit....

as for freedom... I've already got one wife, why not two? The Navy loves to f*ck all of us, i might as well have some happiness while I'm at it...
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I feel you on this, nugga.....

I got out of the Army in November when my deployment was finished.

The military is not for everyone, but certain aspects of it are "nice".

Yes, if the Navy is your situation, you'd have to make her your dependent and go from there. I would advise against it, because I've seen many military marriages break up because the couple didn't know each other before they made that commitment. Let me put it like this, Atrius.....if your relationship is tenuous right now, think about what it might be like under the strain of military life and all it entails. You won't be with her all the time, and time apart is the main reason military marriages fail.

Think hard about this, think very thorough.....




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I feel you on this, nugga.....

I got out of the Army in November when my deployment was finished.

The military is not for everyone, but certain aspects of it are "nice".

Yes, if the Navy is your situation, you'd have to make her your dependent and go from there. I would advise against it, because I've seen many military marriages break up because the couple didn't know each other before they made that commitment. Let me put it like this, Atrius.....if your relationship is tenuous right now, think about what it might be like under the strain of military life and all it entails. You won't be with her all the time, and time apart is the main reason military marriages fail.

Think hard about this, think very thorough.....




DIV
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Yup, that's part of why I want out. My job gets pretty crazy sometimes, doesn't help at all. Still thinking, though, that's about all I do these days.
 
artrius said:
Yup, that's part of why I want out. My job gets pretty crazy sometimes, doesn't help at all. Still thinking, though, that's about all I do these days.
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Thinking and having........being and doing.......

That's what life is all about, nugga....

I don't know.......Military marriages are so much more stressful than civilian, that's why the bond and trust really is tantamount.

I hope you know what you're doing.




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
Thinking and having........being and doing.......

That's what life is all about, nugga....

I don't know.......Military marriages are so much more stressful than civilian, that's why the bond and trust really is tantamount.

I hope you know what you're doing.


DIV
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Please, feel free to beat the living jizznuts out of me. that could help me think right ;)


heh heh... jizznuts... hehehe.... ;)
 
awittyusername said:
22 is way too young. You have know life experiances to compare her to. (Don't give me some bullshit about a gh in HS)

Like Velvett said....All my friends that got married in mid to early 20's are divorced and on their second marriage. My friend pays 1200 a month for child support and has to fly 1,500 miles every other weekend to see his kids, because his wife moved.

You are 22...At 22 I thought I was pretty smart. Now, at 33....I realize I didn't know shit. My friends say the exact same thing.

What are you going to do if in 5 yrs you start making good money and the pussy that avoided you in hs...starts spreading like peanut butter. (this is why 2 of my friends are divorced)

Or, your wife decides she is tired of playing house because she got married too young and wants to go out and see what she was missing. (this is why my other friends are divorced)

Bro, you are in the navy???? Do you know how many of my friends have banged some ho, and then found out she was married and her husband was deployed.

If you get married at 22 with only being with the chick a few months, living far from each other, and being in the navy. I guarantee you will be making the biggest mistake of your life.

Don't let the fact that you are getting pussy now ruin your entire life.


Who wants to bet some Karma on the odds of this working?
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now THAT was a fucking post, every male that joins elite should be made to read that before being allowed to be a member
 
artrius said:
Sure will!











HEY NOT FUNNY JERKYNUTS! :kaioken:
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No, it's not. I live a sheltered rural life, so I have to experience lost love and emotional pain, vicariously.
 
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Ulcasterdropout said:
No, it's not. I live a sheltered rural life, so I have so experience lost love and emotional pain, vicariously.
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He's not kidding, Atrius.

He seriously lives in the woods, isolated like Randy Weaver.....

The only people he speaks with face to face are the cashiers at the grocery store. :worried:



DIV
 
Spanky11 said:
just to clarify..are you living with this girl?
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not yet. If we get engaged, she'll move in with me, probably soon. The deal is that she lives in texas, and I'm here in VA because of military.
 
artrius said:
not yet. If we get engaged, she'll move in with me, probably soon. The deal is that she lives in texas, and I'm here in VA because of military.
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......if the *WARNING* signals haven't started yet, I don't know what to tell you.....

I say you live with her first, then if things work out, get engaged, then marriage and she can be a dependant.

Don't step all over your dick on this, Main Artery.



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
......if the *WARNING* signals haven't started yet, I don't know what to tell you.....

I say you live with her first, then if things work out, get engaged, then marriage and she can be a dependant.

Don't step all over your dick on this, Main Artery.



DIV
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Well I'm not sure how I would be able to live with her if we weren't engaged. She lives like 1500 miles away, I wouldn't want her to drop everything she's ever known to come live with her bf that far away... I guess we could make it an unofficial engagement... they CAN be called off. :rolleyes:
 
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