I just noticed...

[slat1]

I am attracted to girls who are never wrong. Over and over I seem to date these girls. The more I care the worse the problem is.
Is there some sort of 12 step program that can rehabilitate me?

 

[Lestat]

I am attracted to girls who are never wrong. Over and over I seem to date these girls. The more I care the worse the problem is.
Is there some sort of 12 step program that can rehabilitate me?

lol.. dude... what exactly do you mean?

 

[bran987]

I am attracted to girls who are never wrong. Over and over I seem to date these girls. The more I care the worse the problem is.
Is there some sort of 12 step program that can rehabilitate me?

dude none of them are ever wrong, that's why it seems like you keep finding them

 

[nycgirl]

Do you mean always "right" re: facts, etc. or always perfect re: total package? Please clarify. We are here to help.

 

[nutsnack]

i've never met a girl that has been wrong!

 

[Lestat]

i've never met a girl that has been wrong!

hahha

 

[ctrl_freak]

I am attracted to girls who are never wrong. Over and over I seem to date these girls. The more I care the worse the problem is.
Is there some sort of 12 step program that can rehabilitate me?

I know what you mean about girls that are NEVER wrong. When you find a cure please post !!

 

[slat1]

Here is a hypothetical example:
She goes away modeling for three weeks. Doesn't tell me she is leaving. Just goes. No phone calls. No emails.
So you send an email a day letting her know your concern.
After three weeks she comes back. You are the one in trouble. For sending the emails...
*hypothical, as I said.

 

[Raina]

Sometimes I'm wrong and sometimes I'm not. If I'm wrong I'll say that I am...he'll do the same now. But it took a lot of time for us to get to that point because we're both so damn stubborn.

 

[slat1]

Sometimes I'm wrong and sometimes I'm not. If I'm wrong I'll say that I am...he'll do the same now. But it took a lot of time for us to get to that point because we're both so damn stubborn.

I will admit I am wrong. Sometimes I don't see it so I will ask the other person to explain their perspective so that I can see things as they do.
I hate fighting too. I would rather talk things out. Some people are not capable of doing that.

 

[nutsnack]

im not a female but ive never been wrong!

 

[nycgirl]

Here is a hypothetical example:
She goes away modeling for three weeks. Doesn't tell me she is leaving. Just goes. No phone calls. No emails.
So you send an email a day letting her know your concern.
After three weeks she comes back. You are the one in trouble. For sending the emails...
*hypothical, as I said.

Hypothetically speaking (looking at the situation you provided), sounds like she doesn't care and has the same view as you regarding the relationship.

Otherwise, she may just be stubborn (or as I like to say, strong-minded).

 

[habitualhealth]

I can count the number of times I've been wrong on one hand.




Wait, that's wrong...hold on....

 

[slat1]

Hypothetically speaking (looking at the situation you provided), sounds like she doesn't care and has the same view as you regarding the relationship.

Otherwise, she may just be stubborn (or as I like to say, strong-minded).

She is a very strong and independant person. She has been providing for herself since she was young.
Don't get me wrong. This girl can put me on top of the world like I never knew possible. She can also hurt me tremendously... I just don't think she realizes that she does!

 

[Becoming]

Stop getting any attached at all.

Just get the sex.

Problem solved.

 

[nycgirl]

She is a very strong and independant person. She has been providing for herself since she was young.
Don't get me wrong. This girl can put me on top of the world like I never knew possible. She can also hurt me tremendously... I just don't think she realizes that she does!

Oh, I know that type of girl (this post is like looking in a mirror, except I was hurting my family).

She doesn't realize she is hurting you. Have you tried talking to her about it? Give her an example.

 

[Griz1]

Welcome to Marriage buddy! I doesn't get better.

Funny how my wife is ALWAYS in the right, and I'm always in the wrong.

If you were to ask her she'd say something like "I always admit when I'm wrong. I've got no problem doing that." When I point out that she never does that...guess what? I'm wrong again.

It comes with the cunt.

 

[*MissFit*]

i'm always wrong

 

[Lestat]

i'm always wrong

with an ass like yours, I'd just nod my head in agreement to everything you said!

 

[slat1]

I have never put up with stuff like this in my life. I keep going back for more though

 

[awittyusername]

She is a very strong and independant person. She has been providing for herself since she was young.
Don't get me wrong. This girl can put me on top of the world like I never knew possible. She can also hurt me tremendously... I just don't think she realizes that she does!

I swear we went out with the same girl. Absolutely gorgeous and we could have the best time.

However, either out of the blue or to cover for something she did. She could convice me I was the biggest loser in the world. She could go out and do whatever??? Then, convince me it was my fault. And, I would feel guilty.

Trust me she knows she is doing it. It is her way of controling the situation

 

[slat1]

I swear we went out with the same girl. Absolutely gorgeous and we could have the best time.

However, either out of the blue or to cover for something she did. She could convice me I was the biggest loser in the world. She could go out and do whatever??? Then, convince me it was my fault. And, I would feel guilty.

Trust me she knows she is doing it. It is her way of controling the situation

I hope she doesn't know it. That would suck. Hopefully, the moment passes and we can talk. That solves everything...

 

[jackangel]

what was her reason for getting mad at your sending emails and showing concern?

 

[slat1]

what was her reason for getting mad at your sending emails and showing concern?

I have no idea!

 

[awittyusername]

I hope she doesn't know it. That would suck. Hopefully, the moment passes and we can talk. That solves everything...

I wish you the best of luck

But, how can she not know that just leaving for 3 weeks isn't selfish?? Instead of dealing with the guilt she can just tell all her friends how you tried to contact her everyday. ??

Woman can justify anything?

 

[JayC9]

the trick is to create a believable illusion that they're never wrong and hold the reins whilst still being in control...

 

[slat1]

We have come a long way. I hope everything keeps moving forward. If it doesn't it will be tough to take!

 

[Becoming]

I have never put up with stuff like this in my life. I keep going back for more though

dont get whipped... you gotto whip that pussy! (lol, from a movie)

as mentioned before, she is most likely the controlling type. there isn't any way to change this bro. I would probably just plan on cutting her loose at some point. probably soon rather than later (what if you knock her up, then you could be potentially stuck with this shit for the rest of your life?)