Lao Tzu
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I tend to follow my instincts with women. So today at the plasma center a very attractive woman starts to donate. I usually do not approach really hot women but my instincts said to do so this time. So after i was done i walked over and said something like 'i dont really have a chance to talk right now but i'd like to some other time. would you like to meet for coffee' she said no, sorry, she had a boyfriend and I said it was worth asking and walked away. Whether she did or not was irrelevant. I just did something that will do alot to numb me to both the fear of rejection and the fear of looking stupid. I think thats why my instincts said to approach, just so i could firsthand see the results of something as 'daring' as this and come to grips with them. After this event a regular rejection or regular embarassment won't sting nearly as bad I dont think. .
Laugh hyenas. maybe the reason my instincts said to do that was to make me stop caring about what other people think.
Laugh hyenas. maybe the reason my instincts said to do that was to make me stop caring about what other people think.

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