I GOT PLAYED (long message)

[flexed1]

Met someone I have been with for Two months here in Austin. This person was going through a breakup and we clicked big time. The last week or so things seemed difficult as he said he needed time to be alone and work through his breakup of 6 years. I was told his ex was crazy, abusive, all of this shit.

Last night I go out and he is out with his ex. I walk up to him and he is acting weird and up to this point I had not seen his ex. Anyway I see him and realize whats going on so I confront them both outside saying this is fucked up. His ex is distraught as he knew I was with his ex and here I am saying are you dating him and the ex says yes. So I say funny so am I and his draw drops and he and my friend have words and i just laugh and walk away.

Received two calls from him to my cell saying nothing was going on to we are trying to date slowly to my head is all messed up and i really care for you and know the reason I left him was he was abusive to me and stalks me etc.

Told him via my voicemail back to leave me alone as I don't have any desire to go on jerry Springer. His family called me to say how sorry they where and how fucked up he is. They also said he really cares about you so much but he is so afraid of his ex and what he will do to him. My friend is a big guy and his ex a midget.

Anway I am so pissed for being played and confused as i had told johnny O a while back i thought he was a player. Ended up picking up someone i had my eye on when i first moved here and had a fun night.

Sorry this is so long i am venting.

 

[Jimsbbc]

sorry to hear about that situation, i hope it works out for the best

 

[runner]

you deserve better...hope life sorts itself out for ya' soon.

 

[flexed1]

Thanks Runner. Went out to be around folks and met many so I know there is a market for me. (LoL). Its very hurtful how this played out and I did not think I would got through the emotions I did last night. I fell so hard for him and I know he really cares just is either afraid of his ex or insecure with the entire have a normal relationship with a great guy )me) or an abusive one. I will never understand why people choose the abusive route and keep returning when they say they are miserable. So be it. I will be in Houston in early July maybe we can all hang out ( johnny O and his other half and you and yours?

 

[runner]

that sounds cool...i've actually never met johnnyo even though we're in the same city and work out at the same gym. he's been helpful to me, though, and i think it would be fun to see him (and you) in person.

 

[rex941]

turn the tables

Play him back

 

[flexed1]

play him back. hmmmm thought has crossed my mind thought right now he is MIA. He lost the best thing he has ever had and knows that. now comes his time to reflect. Honestly though in a fucked up way I miss him. I never thought at my age I could feel like the first time I was in love but I did.