I dont understand, is it ignorance?

[nangiggles]

V's thread got me thinking about sex ed and common knowledge, it's pretty clear even to the teens that sex without a condom can get you knocked up or an STD, HOWEVER, peeps seem to forget that this applies for any form of sex, including oral, so peeps are going out there getting blown, eaten out, etc without condoms, many times I've heard men say that they always use a condom but they dont when getting a BJ, WTF is up with that? it's still a bodily fluid exchange and you can still get an STD, with condoms, dental damns and all that shit available why risk it?

Discuss

 

[A Soft Koala]

Because BJ's with a condom is like a Ferrari with a pinto motor.

 

[theoak01]

^ exactly what he said,id rather just jack off if my option was that or condom bj

 

[EnderJE]

^ exactly what he said,id rather just jack off if my option was that or condom bj

Then you need to find someone who's great at them.

I knew a girl about 20 years ago...whoa!

 

[theoak01]

ive found some great at bj's,but im not ruining that shit with condoms....ever.

if I was desperate and it was a hooker fine id slap one on,thats it

 

[nangiggles]

but arent you guys afraid of catching some shit? why wear a condom to fuck if you're gonna get blown without one, damage is done anyway...

 

[shirlene29]

cuz theyre worried about gettin bitches knocked up....no one really believes theyre gonna get an std

 

[theoak01]

I dont just bang anyone, I prey mostly on older divorced women who havent gotten any in a while, it takes time to lay that ground work so I have a good idea if I cant trust that they arent skanky.

 

[theoak01]

oh and yes the knocked up part is the big scare, I never trust that a woman is really on birth control

 

[pdaddyII]

Some nasty blaque bish came into the ER a few weeks ago saying she had crabs. I asked her "How do you k ow you have crabs?" she opened up her panties and there were tiny fucking crabs all over the place. I replied "Yea, I think you're right."

 

[shirlene29]

so this was ED visit?? nice...
because crabs is clearly life/limb threatening

 

[shirlene29]

on another note...it took me 5 years to convince my ex sister in law that the ED wasn't a fucking primary care center

so what happens? her husband falls off a ladder second story...onto concrete blocks...CSF coming out of an ear and his nose...she drives him to the reg dr...wtf


to be fair ...her ED visits were for extreme headaches that looked suspiciously like drug seeking....turned out to be a huge lesion from MS...which I pseudo diagnosed as a brain injury of some kind when she developed a slur that sounded like a british accent...during said frantic drive to the level one trauma where her husband was life star-ed to *sigh*

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I dont just bang anyone, I prey mostly on older divorced women who havent gotten any in a while, it takes time to lay that ground work so I have a good idea if I cant trust that they arent skanky.

HPV the #1 STD offen has no sides and goes undected for sometime. It can lead to gental warts and virtually all cervical cancers. You think by looking at someone you can tell if they have an STD?

 

[theoak01]

no no,I know its not a 100% way to avoid it,but if I knew someone id know if they are skanky and sleep with many people.

id rather fuck than get blown anyway ,unless it was with a long term partner

 

[superqt4u2nv]

no no,I know its not a 100% way to avoid it,but if I knew someone id know if they are skanky and sleep with many people.

id rather fuck than get blown anyway ,unless it was with a long term partner

I am not trying to be a bitch just want to bring something to your attention. When you married your wife did you know she was going to with hold sex from you for a year plus? I am guessing not so if you couldn’t see that I am pretty sure you wouldn't be able to tell if someone had an STD.

 

[shirlene29]

the statistics on the population that has one form of hpv or another is mind blowing

basically everyone here has it

 

[theoak01]

haha true story, dammit my logic has been blown to hell

 

[nangiggles]

the statistics on the population that has one form of hpv or another is mind blowing

basically everyone here has it

I know, not to mention, clamidia, gonorrhea and many more, it's not just HIV and herpes, no way in FUCK I'd blow anyone or let some dude go down on me without protection, other than hubby that is.... and still you can get fucked like Blue almost did once upon a time

 

[SpyWizard]

cuz theyre worried about gettin bitches knocked up....no one really believes theyre gonna get an std

we have a winner..

spring break.. the goal used to be to get laid..

now it's to see how many girls you can get bareback..

 

[Ffactor]

ive found some great at bj's,but im not ruining that shit with condoms....ever.

if I was desperate and it was a hooker fine id slap one on,thats it

I would feel safer with hookers than the general poulation.

 

[just...v]

I tell my boys all the time that a BJ is sex and can carry just as much disease. I even go as far to tell them if they kiss girls that gave another guy a blow job they are basically sucking his dick.

 

[SpyWizard]

I tell my boys all the time that a BJ is sex and can carry just as much disease. I even go as far to tell them if they kiss girls that gave another guy a blow job they are basically sucking his dick.

hahahah... that's awesome


Sure you are not raising them Catholic?? cause thats some serious shame there..

 

[superqt4u2nv]

the statistics on the population that has one form of hpv or another is mind blowing

basically everyone here has it

Since your a parent I will ask you and any other parents that want to chime in would you also your kid to get gardasil vaccine?

 

[Ffactor]

I tell my boys all the time that a BJ is sex and can carry just as much disease. I even go as far to tell them if they kiss girls that gave another guy a blow job they are basically sucking his dick.

That's evil. How old are your boys? Like the ink, is that you?

 

[just...v]

Lol no.

My son's reaction was "Lawl! Gross mom! I don't think you are supposed to say stuff like that to me"

 

[SpyWizard]

Lol no.

My son's reaction was "Lawl! Gross mom! I don't think you are supposed to say stuff like that to me"

If you don't tell him who will?? good for you..

 

[just...v]

That's evil. How old are your boys? Like the ink, is that you?

Built like me, but not me. My ink is just on my back and left hip, all tribal.


I'm raising two boys on my own, I have to be evil.

 

[Ffactor]

Built like me, but not me. My ink is just on my back and left hip, all tribal.


I'm raising two boys on my own, I have to be evil.

Sweet! Must be an adventure raising two boys on your own.

 

[nydj66]

First off, the chances of getting HIV from oral sex are so small they can't even be calculated; wayyyy less than one in a million.

HPV doesn't really hurt dudes and the clap and syphilis are both cured by penicillin.

Herpes is the big danger, so don't let some skank with a cold sore blow you.

What's the big deal?

 

[just...v]

Sweet! Must be an adventure raising two boys on your own.

Lots of women do it every day unfortunately.

 

[bigpokey]

those ovarian cysts are more than likely caused by HPV btw just...hpv

 

[superqt4u2nv]

those ovarian cysts are more than likely caused by HPV btw just...hpv

Knot familiar with the female anatomy clearly

 

[just...v]

those ovarian cysts are more than likely caused by HPV btw just...hpv

Hormonal actually.

They are treated with birth control.

 

[shirlene29]

First off, the chances of getting HIV from oral sex are so small they can't even be calculated; wayyyy less than one in a million.

HPV doesn't really hurt dudes and the clap and syphilis are both cured by penicillin.

Herpes is the big danger, so don't let some skank with a cold sore blow you.

What's the big deal?

HPV can cause penile cancer...jus sayin

 

[-SD-]

Fuck yo condoms. Been fucking since the early 1990's and never used them. Knocked up 2 bishes over that time, took them to the clinic to handle our business, boom done. Ive had gonorrhea and UTI stuff a few times but no big deal, easy fix. ALL WORTH NOT HAVING TO FUCK WITH CONDOMS.

 

[PICK3]

my "a" warts are starting to act up

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Fuck yo condoms. Been fucking since the early 1990's and never used them. Knocked up 2 bishes over that time, took them to the clinic to handle our business, boom done. Ive had gonorrhea and UTI stuff a few times but no big deal, easy fix. ALL WORTH NOT HAVING TO FUCK WITH CONDOMS.

People that use abortion as a form of birth control should be sterilized. I am very much pro choice but in this day and age if that's your choice you shouldn't be aloud to procreate ever.

 

[just...v]

People that use abortion as a form of birth control should be sterilized. I am very much pro choice but in this day and age if that's your choice you shouldn't be aloud to procreate ever.

This ^^^

 

[-SD-]

I dont use it as a form of BC, but at age 37 and been humping for 20 years the probability of getting someone preg is pretty reasonable given all factors. The only times it happened was with absolutely no protection such as pill or spermicide stuff etc.

 

[RippedRetard]

HPV can cause penile cancer...jus sayin

I've heard it can cause cancer of just about any mucosal surface....

 

[Dial_tone]

I keep my partners to a minimum (translation 99% of them turn me down) so I'm never with anyone I am not comfortable with. Actually I'm only with one now.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I dont use it as a form of BC, but at age 37 and been humping for 20 years the probability of getting someone preg is pretty reasonable given all factors. The only times it happened was with absolutely no protection such as pill or spermicide stuff etc.

Do you want kids ever? If not get your junk fixed.

I am not saying I ever didn't have any close calls but I try to take every percaution condoms etc sometimes shit breaks. Don't they offer the morning after pill in the US? Sucks taking it but its way better then getting an abortion or having a kid with someone you see no future with.

 

[wootoom]

Do you want kids ever? If not get your junk fixed.

I am not saying I ever didn't have any close calls but I try to take every percaution condoms etc sometimes shit breaks. Don't they offer the morning after pill in the US? Sucks taking it but its way better then getting an abortion or having a kid with someone you see no future with.

He has 5 kids to feed

 

[blueta2]

I've been treating a Lyme clients since last Sept who was bed ridden for 3 yrs and just last March she was in remission. Moved into her own place, got a job and I got her into the gym 4 days a week.

She calls me 2 weeks ago to tell me she slept with a guy and woke up the 2 days later with "sores". Told her to get her butt to a clinic and yep, this guy gave her herpes.
I was torn between scolding her and keeping my cool. She told me she is on the pill and thought she was safe. She is 31 and a lawyer.
The guy denied it was his fault.
Some people are just really unaware of the ramifications of unprotected sex.

 

[Ffactor]

Complicated issue. Theoretically it could happen from going down on a woman or even from kissing, not just intercourse. It's almost impossibe to be that careful, specially if every 1 out of 3 have it.

 

[ceo]

hit that shit raw dog!

 

[mistaballoonhands]

I've been treating a Lyme clients since last Sept who was bed ridden for 3 yrs and just last March she was in remission. Moved into her own place, got a job and I got her into the gym 4 days a week.

She calls me 2 weeks ago to tell me she slept with a guy and woke up the 2 days later with "sores". Told her to get her butt to a clinic and yep, this guy gave her herpes.
I was torn between scolding her and keeping my cool. She told me she is on the pill and thought she was safe. She is 31 and a lawyer.
The guy denied it was his fault.
Some people are just really unaware of the ramifications of unprotected sex.

You shoul practice unconditional positive regard

 

[blueta2]

You shoul practice unconditional positive regard

clogged arteries contribute to dementia...just saying

 

[mistaballoonhands]

How is that a response to what I said? You guys don't strive to treat patients with unconditional positive regard?

 

[blueta2]

You're baiting me...so.... I always apply unconditional + regard to my clients, if I didn't, I wouldn't have then return if I truly wanted to say "what the hell were you thinking"
Not like I didn't ever messed up.

 

[shirlene29]

idk....my dr doesn't bother with unconditional regard....and I respect her as a person for it

 

[superqt4u2nv]

idk....my dr doesn't bother with unconditional regard....and I respect her as a person for it

Sometimes people need to be told there making bad choices to see they are. It’s all in how you put it to someone generally a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down.

 

[just...v]

Ive always used condoms, but how long are you in a relationship with someone before you stop using them? Provided, of course, you are using some kind of birth control.

 

[theoak01]

my rule of thumb in the past has been 6 to 8 months, I call that the countdown to bareback day

 

[nangiggles]

I've heard it can cause cancer of just about any mucosal surface....

You sir are correct, even mouth cancer

 

[-SD-]

I used morning after pill earlier this year, pretty cool shit. No condoms, no kids, no HIV, no regrets

 

[nangiggles]

yeah that's cuz you're not the one who takes the chemical/hormone shock, bleeding and cramps

 

[ceo]

idk....my dr doesn't bother with unconditional regard....and I respect her as a person for it

I will take extreme competence and very low rate of complications post procedure over a fantastic, smoke blowing bedside manner any day.

 

[-SD-]

yeah that's cuz you're not the one who takes the chemical/hormone shock, bleeding and cramps

They wanna play they gotta pay too

 

[ceo]

yeah that's cuz you're not the one who takes the chemical/hormone shock, bleeding and cramps

...HIGH FIVE!!!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

They wanna play they gotta pay too

That jacket must be magical

 

[Dial_tone]

yeah that's cuz you're not the one who takes the chemical/hormone shock, bleeding and cramps

We go the morning after route, that way she only has those issues when we get together.

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[shirlene29]

I will take extreme competence and very low rate of complications post procedure over a fantastic, smoke blowing bedside manner any day.

her bedside manner is actually pretty good..but theres zero smoke blowing
hell she helped map out some of my college courses because my original plan was something in medicine

 

[smurf2]

because my original plan was something in medicine

No way! Really?!